Abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi labo abanekhono lokuxhaphaza abantu bangaphatha, cishe, noma yisiphi isimo. Abanye abantu bafaka incazelo engalungile kulo mqondo, ngakho-ke, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuphatha. Isibonelo esingcono kakhulu se-manipulators yizingane ezisebenzisa izinkulungwane zamasu ukufeza lokho abazifunayo.
Ukuqonda kanjani igama elithi "ukuxhaphaza"?
Abaningi bahlanganisa lo mqondo ngokukhohlisa, amanga, ulwazi olungelona iqiniso. Kunemiqondo eminingana ezokwenza kube lula ukuthola isithombe esibanzi. Lisho ukuthini igama elithi "ukuxhaphaza" - lithonya emoyeni wesintu, ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe, ngenhloso yokulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe nemicabango yakhe . Umthelela wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukwenza lo muntu enze lokho akuthandayo. Usebenzisa izinto eziyingqayizivele ze-psyche kanye nobuthakathaka ukuze akhombise lowo muntu ukuthi wenza isinqumo ngokwakhe, ngaphandle kwezinkomba.
Indlela yokuphatha abantu - kwengqondo
Izazi zengqondo zisebenzisa ekuchazeni kwalo mqondo isichazamazwi esihle - "izintambo zomphefumulo," lapho, ngosizo lwamakhono athile, ungadlala. Ngokuvamile, i-manipulator ithinta noma isebenzisa izimfanelo ezinjalo: ukuziqhenya, ukuzihlonipha, ukuzwela, ukwesaba, njll. Abantu abaningi basebenzisa ukuzithoba njengethuluzi lokuxhaphaza, okusiza ukufezekisa isimo futhi kubangele imizwelo ethile. Lesi yisigaba sokulungiselela ukwenza okunye.
Ngokwengqondo, kunezinhlawulo eziningana zokuxhaphaza, okusetshenziswa ngabantu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ake sicabangele enye yazo:
- Ukuqhutshwa kwebhizinisi. Kulokhu, isimo sibhekwa uma umuntu esebenzisa amasevisi noma imikhiqizo yomunye umuntu, esebenzisa amasu okuthola izaphulelo noma ezinye izinzuzo.
- Ukuxhaphaza emndenini. Lapha, ubudlelwane buhloswe, phakathi komyeni nomfazi, kanjalo phakathi kwabazali nezingane, nezinye izihlobo.
- Ukuqhutshwa kwemfundo, imfundo nokukhuliswa . Usetshenziswa kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila: esikoleni, enyuvesi, njll.
- Ukuxhaphaza kumaphephandaba. Namuhla, osombusazwe kanye nezinye izibalo zisebenzise ngobuchule, okuyinto, ngosizo lwethelevishini, amaphephandaba, i-intanethi, kuletha kubantu abaningi okudingekayo kubo
ulwazi, okungelona iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi. - Ukuxhaphaza eqenjini. Kusho ukuxhumana nabangani, abasebenzisana nabo, njll.
Izimpawu zokukhwabanisa
Kunezinqubo eziningana ezizosiza ukuqaphela ithonya elithile, njengokuphatha kabi:
- umthelela uqonda ngokucacile lokho akufunayo nokuthi angayifinyelela kanjani;
- ithonya lizifihla ngamabomu imigomo nezifiso zalo kuleso simo sokuxhaphazwa;
- Umuntu osebenzayo uthatha imithwalo yemfanelo ngokugcwele.