Isikhathi sentsha siqala nini?
Esikhathini esidlule, iminyaka yobuguquko yayibizwa ngokuthi "ukukhula" futhi yahlala kusukela eminyakeni engu-12 kuya ku-17. Ezweni lakithi, lezi zimiso zigcinwe kuze kube yilolu suku. Kusukela eneminyaka engu-12 ukuya ku-14, lokhu kusemncane, futhi kusukela ngo-15 kuya ku-17, sekuphelile.
Ngakho inkathi yezingane ihlanganisa isikhathi sokuphila kusuka eminyakeni engu-12 kuya ku-17. Kwamanye amazwe, lokhu kubalwa kuyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi indawo, inkolo yezakhamuzi kanye namasiko abo. Ngokwesibonelo, emazweni aseningizimu, iqala kakade eminyakeni eyishumi, kuyilapho kwezinye iphela kuphela eminyakeni engu-19.
Isikhathi sokukhulelwa kubafana
Kubafana, iminyaka yokuguquka, nakuba ihambisana nesikhulu senkosikazi, kodwa empilweni yangempela iqala kamuva. Cishe eminyakeni engama-13-15, abameleli besigamu sesilisa besilisa baqala ukushintsha ukugqama kwezwi, i-bristle yokuqala engavamile ebusweni ivela.
I-hairline ikhula kancane kancane emilenzeni, ngaphansi kwezingalo kanye nase-groin, isifuba siba sikhulu futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ngesikhathi sokulala, ukujula okungazibandakanya kwenzeka, okuyinto evamile.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngesikhathi sokukhula kuyasebenza kakhulu hhayi emzimbeni kuphela, kodwa nangokwengqondo. Okwamanje kukhona izivikelo nabazali abangaqondi maximalism yabantwana . Abantu abadala kufanele bazame ukuthola amaphuzu wengane yokuxhumana - izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuzilibazisa, ukuba othisha wakhe hhayi omunye.
Ukukhulelwa emantombazaneni
Ezimweni ezikhethekile zesikhathi sokukhula, amantombazane angafaka inzuzo yesisindo ngenxa yezicubu ze-adipose, okwenza amafomu azungeze futhi abe nesifazane. Kubonakala cishe eminyakeni eyi-14-16, sekuvele sekuqalile ukuya esikhathini (12-13 kweminyaka), nakuba owesifazane ozayo uzokwakhiwa ngokuphelele eminyakeni engama-20-22.
Izingozi nezingozi zenkathi yenkathi yobusha zihlanganisa isifiso esinamandla sokuqinisekisa, ngokuvamile ngezindlela ezingamukeleki ngokuphelele. Ngaphansi kwethonya labangane njengamanje, amantombazane aqala ukubhema, ezama ukuphuza utshwala nokulala.
Ukuze ugweme izinkinga ezinjalo, kuyadingeka, ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhula, ukwakha ubudlelwane obethembayo nendodakazi. Akudingekile ukuphikisana ngokucacile ukubonakaliswa komuntu oyedwa, okuboniswa ngesifiso sokwenza i-tattoo, ukubhoboza noma ukuchitha isikhathi nabangani, bese kungenakuzwa uhlaka olunzima, lo mfana ngeke afune ukuphuma kuzo.