Labo abafunda inkaba kaMark Twain "Tom Sawyer" mhlawumbe bakhumbule indlela umlingisi oyinhloko ayephuphe ngayo ukufa kwakhe, ephikisana nonina. Wazicabangela ngokucacile ukuthi uzobacasula kanjani futhi impilo yakhe yonke ibeka icala ngenxa yokufa "komfana onjalo". Esikhathini sokusebenza kwengqondo yokuzibulala, lokhu kuziphatha kubhekwa njengengqondo emibili ngokufa nokuba. Ngokuvamile ingane ibona ukufa, njengendlela yethonya kubantu abadala futhi ayiqapheli ukungafinyeleli kwemiphumela.
Ukuzibulala kwezingane kubalulekile esikhathini sethu. Abazali nabafundisi kufanele baqaphele ngokukhethekile ukuziphatha kwengane ngesikhathi sokubona izimpawu zokuqala zokuzibulala.
Izimpawu zokuziphatha zokuzibulala
Ukuzibulala komuntu osemusha kungabandakanya:
- imicabango mayelana nokungabi nalutho kwempilo;
- imfashini yokufa;
- izitatimende mayelana nesifiso sokufa ("Ngiyagula konke", "Angifuni ukuphila");
- intshisekelo yentsha ekhulile ezinhlokweni zokufa (izincwadi, izinkundla kanye nokuxhumana nabantu, izinhlangano ezingakahleleki ezihlakulela ukuthambekela kokuzibulala).
Ngokuvamile, intsha ifuna ukubonisa ukuzibulala ukuze igxile ukunakwa. Ukuvela kokuziphatha kokuzibulala kungahle kulandwe yizimo ezicindezelayo ezibhekene nemimoya emibi, umuzwa wokuzithemba kanye nesizungu, ukunakekelwa ezintweni ezincane, ukusondelana, ukuhlukunyezwa kubantu abadala, ukuphuza utshwala nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kuhlanganisa ukuzibulala kwangempela , okungakaze kwenzeke njalo. Ezinye izinhlobo zokuziphatha zokuzibulala zihlanganisa ukuzibulala okufihliwe , lapho ingane ikhetha "ukuzibulala": ukufaka amaqembu ayingozi, ukushayela okuyingozi, imidlalo eyingozi, izidakamizwa. Ngokuvamile, intsha iyathandana nokuzibulala , lapho isenzo sokuzibulala sisebenza njengenkhulumomphendvulwano, ngosizo lwalokhu ingane isifuna ukukhuluma nokuqonda.
Izimbangela zokuziphatha zokuzibulala
- Thinta okubalulekile ekuphileni komuntu osemusha. Ngokuvamile ukuxazulula ukungqubuzana komthando (ukwenza umuntu oye waphutha waphenduke, thola othile ukuthi aqaphele umuntu oyithandayo, njll).
- Vumela ukungqubuzana nabazali. Isitayela esivame kakhulu sokuzikhulisa, lapho intsha ihanjiswa khona ngezidingo, iholela ekuxabaneni futhi iqhubeke nomqondo wokuzibulala. Futhi, isitayela semfundo esibuhlungu singashukumisela intsha ukuba ibe nomqondo wokuzibulala ukuze abazali bayiqaphele.
- Ukungaqondi esikoleni. Intsha enesimweni sokufunda empofu iphikisana nabafundisi nabaphathi. I-adolescent ilawulwa yisidingo sokuzihlonipha, ngokuhlola okuhle, ekukhulumisaneni, ukungabi nalutho okungabangela isifiso sokufa.
Izingozi zokuzibulala
Akubona bonke abasha abajwayele ukuziphatha ngokuzibulala, futhi iningi lalabo abathambekeleyo lingabhekwa ezinhlobonhlobo zezinhlekelele.
- intsha eyayinomzamo ongapheli wokuzibulala;
- intsha eyayinezigameko zokuzibulala emndenini;
- ukuphuza utshwala nokulutha izidakamizwa;
- abasha abanenkinga yokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka;
- abasha abanezifo ezinzima noma ezingapheliyo;
- Intsha eyasinda ekulahlekelweni komuntu oseduze noma obalulekile;
- intsha, abasinda ubudlova;
- intsha evela emindenini yabazali abangabodwa kanye nabazali abangabodwa.
Izindlela zokunqoba ukuziphatha kokuzibulala
Intsha iyabonakala ngokulahla ngokuphelele usizo lwabazali, othisha nabachwepheshe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuxilongwa kokuzibulala kwentsha kunayo