Imfundo yomndeni

Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi ukwakheka kobuntu obugcwele kwengane kuxhomeke ekukhuliseni. Futhi lapho abazali babo bebeka ingane yabo amandla nokunakekelwa, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi uyakhula abe umuntu ohloniphekile. Noma kunjalo, ngaso sonke isikhathi, abazali baye bazibophezela, futhi bazokwenza amaphutha ajwayelekile. Isizathu lapha singase sibe ukungabi nesikhathi, kanye nokungaboni kahle okungafani, okwakungenwe nakho kwesizukulwane esidala. Ngakho yiziphi izici zemfundo yomndeni? Ake sihlaziye futhi sikhumbule ukuze singaphindi amaphutha abanye.


Izinkinga zemfundo yomndeni

Ake siqale ngemicabango engavamile kakhulu eqondisa abazali abaningi. Ukuphutha kwemfundo yomndeni kuyisiphetho esiyinhloko sombuzo othi kungani ingane ekhulile, kubonakala sengathi, emndenini ohloniphekile, ayikufanelekeli ukulindela kanye nokwesabeka kwabazali abalwa ngezandla. Ngakho-ke, ake sicabange ngokuvamile kwabo:

  1. Ukungaqondani ngokuzimela komntwana kanye nobuntu bakhe. Uma, isibonelo, ingane iyingcweti ngohlobo lomuntu, uzokwenza konke kancane kancane nangokweqile. Kulesi simo, umama, oneminyaka engama-choleric, uzocasulwa, ambize ngokuthi "ukukhohlisa", njll.
  2. Ukwenqaba. Isimo sengqondo esinjalo singenzeka uma umntwana engazange afune noma azalwe ngocansi "olungalungile" abazali abafuna. Kulokhu, abazali abamukeli ingane nobuntu bakhe. Isimo sengqondo ngaye singavuma (ukunganakwa). Futhi, ukwenqatshwa kubonakala ukuthi ingane inikezwa izihlobo noma umfana wezemfundo, ukuvimbela ukwakheka okufanele kokunamathiselwe ngokomzwelo.
  3. Ukuhlukana phakathi kokulindela kwabazali ngokuthi ngubani ngempela ingane eba. Iphutha elivame kakhulu: "Ngifisa", "KUFANELE kube yilokho nokuthi". Kulokhu, izici zomuntu ngamunye zinganakwa futhi zicindezelwe.
  4. Ukusebenza. Kubonakala lapho kuphuma ingane enganeliseki, ukucasuka, ukumemeza. Uma abazali bephakamisa izwi labo, ingane ijabule kakhulu noma impela.
  5. Ukukhathazeka kuyinkinga engadingekile yengane, i-hyperope. Kuholela ekususweni kokuzimela kwengane, kumvikela ekubhekaneni nezingozi nezinkinga ekuphileni. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane izokhula ingavikelekile futhi ixhomeke ekuzinzeleni.
  6. Ukuzibonga - kubonakala ngesifiso sokuthobela umntwana ngentando yakhe, isidingo sokungahambisani nomthetho, ukulawula njalo phezu kwezenzo zakhe. Iphinde ibonakale ngezijeziso zomzimba nezokuziphatha nganoma yikuphi ukungaziphathi kahle. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane ikhula ingesabi futhi idangele. Ukuhlonipha abazali ngokuvamile kufakwa esikhundleni sokumesaba.

Imithetho evamile yokukhuliswa komntwana emndenini ayamukeli amaphutha anjalo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi umndeni ogcwele ukhona kubazali ababili, okunye okuletha okuthile okusha nokuwusizo empilweni yengane. Indima yomama emfundweni yomndeni ukukwamukelwa okungenamthetho kwengane kanye nokuzikhethela kwakhe, ukuvikelwa kwempilo yakhe, kokubili kokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yomuntu okhulayo, umama kumele ahlale ehlinzeka ngenkxaso futhi ahlanganyele okuthakazelisayo kwengane yakhe. Indima kayise emfundweni yomndeni nayo ibalulekile. Kumelwe anikeze leyo nzalo ngomqondo wokuphepha. Ubaba ngumuntu oyisithombe somntwana kanye nesibonelo sokulingisa. Kwabancane, lokhu kuvame ukuphakama kwamandla nobukhulu bomuntu, ngakho-ke igunya likapapa akumele libuzwe. Lezi izisekelo zemfundo yomndeni. Kodwa ulwazi olunjalo alukwanele ukuba ingane yakho ikhule ubuntu obanele ngokugcwele.

Izindlela Zokufundiswa Komndeni

Ukufeza ukuthuthukiswa okuhambisanayo kwengane kungasebenzisa izindlela ezijwayelekile ezivunywayo zemfundo yomndeni:

I-psychology yemfundo yomndeni kumbili umbhangqwana oshadile ungumuntu ngamunye. Uma unomndeni okhonza njengesibonelo nesibonelo sokuthuthukiswa kwengane, unganqikazi ukubuza ukuthi imfundo yomndeni wabo yakhiwe ngani. Kunoma yikuphi, noma yiziphi izindlela, izimfihlo nemithetho oyisebenzisayo - kufanele ibe yodwa kuphela. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane yakho ikhulele esimweni sokuthandana nokuqonda okufanayo.