Lapho kufika ingane endlini, abazali abaningi baba izazi kulezo zindawo ezazinakwa ngokuphelele. Yiqiniso, ikhono lokufudumala ubisi ezimabhodleleni ezincane noma ukukhwabanisa ingane ngeke kudingeke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Nokho, kunezinto ozodinga ukuziqonda, okungenani kuze kube yilapho ingane iqeda isikole esiphakathi. Enye yalezi zihloko yizathoyizi.
Ukhetha kanjani ukudlala ingane yakho? Ingabe yena ubonisa lokho okudingekile kuye noma ingabe ubeke ilungelo lokuthenga ngokuzimela ukuthi yini efanelekile kuye? Uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izingozi ze-psyche kanye nempilo yezingane ezingakwazi ukufihlwa ngamathoyizi anamuhla? Njengoba bethi, ubani obikezelwe uhlomile. Qaphela ukunikeza ingane ngentuthuko ehambisanayo.
Amathoyizi "angakwesokudla"
Njengoba wazi, ukudlala isikhathi eside ngumsebenzi oyinhloko wengane. Futhi umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali ukukhetha amathoyizi afanelekile eminyakeni yakhe futhi athuthukise ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe. Kulo mbuzo, umuntu kufanele aphenduke eminyakeni yobudala be-psychology:
- Kusukela ezinsukwini eziyishumi ubudala ingane iqala ukulungisa into ehamba phambi kwayo, futhi ngenyanga ivele ilalele imisindo iphinde ibheke konke okuhamba kahle phambi kwakhe. Amathoyizi okuqala kule minyaka ahlukeneyo ama-rattles kanye nezinto zomculo, okumele zilungiswe ezingeni lika-50 cm emehlweni;
- Ezinyangeni ezine umntwana uqala ukubamba ngesandla konke okuthandayo. Kule nkathi, ukugoqa okuphelele ngombambo omude, lapho ingane izobamba khona, futhi ususe ithoyizi kusuka kwesinye isandla kuya kwesinye;
- kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-6 zomntwana abanesithakazelo kuphela emibala ekhanyayo yamathoyizi, kodwa futhi ukuthi yini "ayithandayo". Noma iyiphi into enentshisekelo yengane ngokushesha ifika emlonyeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ama-rattles kusuka epulasitiki yokudla, enobuso obushelelezi;
- Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-8 ingane iqala ukukhipha imisindo evela ezintweni futhi ilandele imithetho ye-physics - ukushaya, ukuvula, ukudonsa, ukugoqa, ukuwa. Ngenxa yalezi zinhloso, umntwana ufaneleke ngokuphelele emabhokisini ahlukahlukene, amadokodo ama-nesting, izintambo, njll;
- Ngonyaka ongu-1 ingane iqala izenzo ezinengqondo ngezinto. Isibonelo, ukuhudula i-spoon emlonyeni wakho, ukushayela umshini wokubhala, ugobe ibhola, ubonise ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zobuso futhi wazi ukuthi ubizwa kanjani. Kule ncwadi yobudala enezithombe ezikhanyayo, amabhola kanye namayisidi kuhle;
- eminyakeni emibili nengane kubalulekile ukuhlanganisa imibono nemibala, amafomu nezakhiwo zezinto. Kulokhu, ama-cubes, amabhola emigqeni enezinhlobonhlobo eziningi kanye nemininingwane ehlukahlukene yomakhi wezinkuni wezingane uzokwenza;
- eminyakeni engama-2,5 ingane esevele ikwazi ukuzimela ngokuzikhethela ingakhetha izihloko ezivela emibala engu-4 eyisisekelo. Ukulingana okuphelele kulezi zinqola zeminyaka yezidloli. Futhi kulesi sikhathi kungenzeka ukuthenga ithoyizi yokudlala ukuze ingane ifunde ukufaka izicathulo kanye nezinkinobho zokuqinisa;
- Eminyakeni emithathu abantwana bakhetha imidlalo yokudlala indima. Kungaba isosha, udokotela, unwele wezinwele, njll. Kumidlalo enjalo, isethi ezikhethekile zezingane zithengiswa;
- abantwana abasondelene neminyaka eyisithupha banesithakazelo kumadonki, ukuthutha, izinja eziningi, amahhashi, ama-cubs nezinye izidalwa ezingasetshenziswa emidlalweni yokudlala. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ngempilo futhi unake amabhola, ama-hoops, izintambo zokudlula, njll. Isici esiyinhloko ekukhethweni kwakho akufanele sibe isithombe nesiningi imibala ekhanyayo, kodwa ukufaniswa kwetheyiki kuze kube seminyaka yengane nokuphepha kwayo kwengqondo yengane.
Ngendlela, mayelana ne-psyche
Wake wake wazibuza ukuthi i-hare enemibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka (engekho emvelweni), noma ibhere elibomvu (umbala onjengaleyo emvelweni, awukho) uphendukela ekubonweni kwezwe kumntwana? Futhi lokhu akukhulumi ngemikhiqizo eminingi evela eChina, okuyinto ngisho nabantu abadala abakwazi ukuletha ekuhlaselweni kwenhliziyo. Ngakho-ke, ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi izingozi ezifihliwe kumathoyizi, ukuze zingabi ukuhlaselwa ngabakhiqizi bezimpahla zabathengi.
Ekhulwini lama-20, izazi zengqondo zenza amaqembu amabili amathoyizi.
1. Amathoyizi amahle anemigomo elandelayo:
- ihambisana nesikhathi kanye nentuthuko yengane;
- bangabasizi abahle ekufundeni izwe elizungezile;
- ingumfanekiso wento yangempela noma into ekhona emvelweni;
- esimweni esihle kakhulu - esenziwe ngezandla zengane.
2. Amathoyizi anomthelela omubi kwengqondo yengane:
- efile (izinto ezehlukene ezenza imisebenzi eminingi nezilungiselelo);
- eziyingozi futhi ezingenalutho (amakhophi amabi izinto eziphilayo, izithombe, njll);
- ukuziphatha okubi nokuziphatha okubi (amathoyizi ezempi, kanye nalabo abagqugquzela ubudlova, impi nokubhujiswa).
Amagama ambalwa mayelana nekhwalithi yamathoyizi
Ngaphandle kokubukeka, kufanelekile ukucabangela indaba okuvela kuyo ithoyizi. Uma uthengisa ama-rattles angenisiwe, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho izoyiluma futhi iwagqeke. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kungokwanele ukubamba amathoyizi anjalo ezandleni zakho ukwenza impilo yakho ibe nzima nakakhulu. Ngaphansi kombala wemibala ekhanyayo kukhona izinto ezincane zokwenza izinto ezinokuqukethwe okuphezulu kwezinto ezinobuthi. Kuzo zonke izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene ezitolo ezithokozisayo zezingane, okungenani u-15% awuhambisani nokujwayelekile. Zinezimakhemikhali ezifana ne-plastisol, i-phenol, i-formaldehyde kanye ne-mercury. Ukuze ungenzi iphutha ngokuzikhethela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imikhiqizo yamathoyizi "idumela elibi": "Insimi", "Izilwane", "Ukusethwa Kwabantwana" ne "Just Foko Baby". Futhi kufanele uqaphele izintambo zezingane ezingaphansi konyaka owodwa kanye nemigqomo yezingane ezikhutshwe yizinkampani "Musical Mobile", "Toy Toys", "Nfants Toys".
Ngeshwa, akekho obuka izinkomba zezinyathelo zangasese nezenhlanzeko zamathoyizi. Yebo, futhi izazi zengqondo ziyaqhubeka zizwakala i-alamu - ngokuvamile amathoyizi abangela ukukhubazeka kwengqondo ezinganeni. Benza izingane zihlukumeze futhi zimbi. Lokho okubonakalayo ingane eyitholwa eneminyaka engu-2.5 kuya kwengu-5, isikhathi eside sihlala enkumbulweni futhi ithonya impilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Ake ucabange ukuthi ingane izokhula kanjani, eyadlala namasosha ezinkimbeni ezimbi kakhulu zensimbi noma ngezilo ezivela emathinini athandwayo angaphandle ayenama-grimaces ebusweni bawo. Futhi amathoyizi e-elekthronikhi angamniki ingane ithuba lokucabanga futhi awakhulume, angabangela igebe lentuthuko.
Futhi futhi, ukuya esitolo sabantwana, khumbula iqiniso elilula - ithoyizi kufanele lithwale umsebenzi wokuzijabulisa kuphela, kodwa futhi into yokufundisa ingane. Uma ukhathazekile ukuthi ingane yakho ingase icele ukuthenga i-monster kuye, ungambonisi amathonti lapho angabona khona lesi silo.
Futhi ekuphetheni, ngaphambi kokukhononda ngabakhiqizi abanganaki, zibuke wena. Abazali abaningi banamuhla banomatasa kangangokuthi banikeza izingane zabo iTV kanye nezihloko ezikhanyayo ezingenakufanelekela ukubizwa ngokuthi amathoyizi. Bambalwa abantu abazokujabulela ukuzwa ukuthi wabulala ingqondo yengane yakhe ngezandla zakhe. Kodwa-ke, uma ucabanga ngalokho nokuthi ingane idlala kanjani, iqiniso liba libi kunalokho kubonakala. Khumbula - ikusasa lomntanakho usezandleni zakho. Futhi masibe ithoyizi elihle nelusizo lomntwana.