Ekuboneni kokuqala kubonakala sengathi kulula kakhulu ukukhetha izipho zabesifazane kunamadoda. Futhi kuyiqiniso, eziningi zezimpahla zabesifazane zithengiswa ezitolo, futhi abayeni bethu, abafowethu kanye nabababa bahlala bebonakala bengekho emsebenzini. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akunjalo, kuba nje ukuthi amadoda ahlale eqonda ngokucacile lokho akudingayo, ngakho-ke kukhona izinto ezimbalwa zokusetshenziswa kwazo. Kodwa uma izingane ziyazi kahle uyise futhi zithanda, ukuthenga isipho esifanele kumpapa usuku lokuzalwa noma usuku lokuzalwa oluvamile luzoba lula kakhulu.
Ngisiphi isipho ongayenza kubaba?
Amadoda ngokuvamile ahluke ekusebenzeni kwawo, ngakho-ke kudingeka adalule okuthile okuwusizo, kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, amnandi. Lapho ekhetha isipho sokuzalwa kwakhe, ubudala bakhe bunendima ebalulekile, kanye nendawo yakhe yokuphila, umsebenzi nokuzilibazisa.
Ngomapapa oneminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala, isipho esihle kakhulu sokuzalwa sizoba isihloko esenziwe ngumntwana ngezandla zakhe. Lokhu kungaba ikhadi lokuposa, isifenishi sepulasitiki noma inhlama, isetshenziswa - ngokufushane, noma yini eyobonisa ukunakekelwa kwengane kuyise. Indoda eneminyaka engama-40-50 ubudala ibonakala ngokuphila okusebenzayo. Kule minyaka yobudala, usuvele unezikhwama zezinto zokuzilibazisa, kanye nesikhathi esengeziwe samahhala emsebenzini. Ngakho-ke, isipho esingcono kunabo bonke ubaba kuzoba konke okuhlobene nokuzilibazisa kwakhe: itende, i-binoculars, i-spinning, isibhamu, i-brazier, isethi ye-poker, ukubuyiswa kweqoqo lezinto zokudweba noma ama-antiques. Izipho ezingabizi kangako zingabizwa ngokuthi i-cufflinks, tie, ibhande, isikhwama, amanzi angasese.
Ubaba oneminyaka engu-50-60 ubudala uzojabulisa i-DVR emotweni noma ku- GPS-umzila . Ungaphinde unikeze ikhamera yevidiyo noma ikhamera, amadoda kule minyaka abe nemicabango, njengokudubula izingane kanye nabazukulu futhi ubuke le ndaba ngesikhathi sokuzilibazisa. Labo obaba abangabangane nobuchwepheshe, kuyoba kuhle ukuthola i-laptop noma ithebulethi njengesipho. Ungabuyekeza okuthile kusuka kumishini yasendlini, isibonelo, i-TV.
Ngemuva kweminyaka engama-60, amadoda ahamba phambili empesheni, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi impilo ekhuthele ihamba kancane. Kungaba kuhle ukujabulisa uyise ngethikithi eya eholidini, yebo, kungcono ukumthumelela eholidini nonina. Kubalandeli be-dacha i-lawnmower, i-saw kagesi izobaluleka. Futhi kunoma yikuphi ubudala, amadoda awanandaba nalokho okutholakala khona njengewristwatch. Isipho esihle esivela kubantwana bePapa sizoba yiselula elula ukuyisebenzisa.
Isipho esivela endodaneni nendodana kubaba
Ngokuvamile ubuhlobo bukababa nendodakazi yakhe nendodana yakhe buhluke ngokuphelele. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi amandla angalingani othando lwakhe, nje kuphela amadodana kapapapa uhlale efuna kakhulu, futhi indodakazi iyakwazi ukuvusa imizwa evelele kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, izipho ezenziwe amadodana namadodakazi zihlukile.
Isibonelo, indodakazi inganikeza uyise wakhe i-T-shirt ngokubhalwe phansi ngokuthi "Ubaba Ohle kakhulu" futhi angabonakali ethanda kakhulu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngokuvamile, uvunyelwe ukwethula ahlukahlukene trivia cute. Isibonelo, izindebe zomuntu siqu, ama-sweaters angenwe ngesandla, amasokisi, ama-scarves. UPapa uhlale ejabulela ukuthola izipho njengezipho,
Ngokuqondene namadodana, bayajabula ukuthola isipho sobuchwepheshe (izikhulumi, i- TV , i-laptop). Ungaphinda ubonise ama-drafts noma u-chess wemisebenzi yokuzilibazisa ehlangene.
Noma yisiphi isipho kufanele sibonise uthando ngobaba futhi simnakekele. Futhi akubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kuzodala kangakanani.