Ngeshwa, kubazali abaningi impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ukunikeza ingane enkulisa iqiniseke kakade ngenxa yesimo esinzima sezezimali. Kulesi simo, ukuthola ingane engadini kwenza uMama ithuba lokuya emsebenzini futhi athole imali. Kulabo abanenkululeko yokuzikhethela kule nkinga, kukhona ithuba lokucabanga ukuthi inkulisa iyadingeka yini kumntanakho.
Inkulana: ngokuba nokuphikisana
Yiziphi izinzuzo ze-enkulisa? Yini angayinika ingane enjalo, yini umndeni ongenakuyenza?
- Umkhuba wansuku zonke ocacile . Ukuphila kwengane enkulisa kubhekene nesimiso esiqinile nsuku zonke : ukuhamba , ukulala, amakilasi kanye nokudla kwenzeka ngesikhathi esichazwe ngokucacile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unina onothando unxanela kangakanani into enjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuqinisekisa ukunamathela ngokuqinile embusweni.
- Khulumisana nengane nezinye izingane . Ngeshwa, isikhathi sethu yisikhathi semindeni enomntwana oyedwa, abantu abadala abazungezile bavame ukulimaza kakhulu. Ku-enkulisa ukuthi ingane ingathola isipiliyoni sokuxhumana isikhathi eside nontanga, ufunde ukwabelana, yenza ubungane, ubeke, uzinze, uxabane futhi wenze ukuthula. Ingane engayivakali engadini, yebo, ayikho emgodini. Kodwa ukukhulumisana nezinye izingane endaweni yokudlala kuye okwesikhashana futhi akuvumeli ukuhlanganiswa okugcwele eqenjini labantwana.
- Intuthuko ephelele . Uhlelo lokukhulisa izingane enkulisa lenzelwe ngendlela yokuthuthukisa ngazo zonke izindlela. Enkulisa, izingane zifunda ukucula nokudansa, ukudweba nokudweba, ukuzivocavoca, ukugqoka nokuzidla zodwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zithola wonke amakhono namakhono adingekayo ukungena esikoleni. Yiqiniso, konke lokhu kungamnika ingane umama noma ugogo. Kodwa ekhaya ingane ibanjwe ndawonye, umoya wokuncintisana, okumkhuthaza ukuba enze okungcono nakakhulu kunabanye.
Amaminithi angenakugwenywa enkulisa :
- Izifo ezivamile . Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi unyaka wokuqala wokuya enkulisa ngokuvamile uvimbelwe izifo ezingapheli. Izikhukhula zilandela ukushisa okuvamile, kungakhulumi ngazo zonke izifo eziseziwa izingane. Ngeshwa, lokhu kuyinto engenakugwemeka futhi ngenxa yokuthi ngaphambi kokuya ensimini umbuthano wokukhulumisana wengane ulinganiselwe, ngakho-ke, bekungekho ithuba elincane lokugula. Manje, igciwane layo libhekene nenani elikhulu lamagciwane futhi kumele lihlakulele ukuvikelwa kwabo.
- Ukucindezeleka kwengqondo-ngokomzwelo . Izingane ezincane, ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngaphandle komama, ngaphandle kokuthandana nokufudumala kwakhe, uzwa umuzwa wokunganaki ngokomzwelo. Phela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abaqaphi bazama kanjani ukuthanda wonke amawadi abo, akunakwenzeka ngokomzimba. Esinye isici esibangela ukucindezeleka ezinganeni akunakwenzeka ukuba yedwa ensimini, ungenzi lokho okuhleliwe, kodwa wenze okuthandayo.
- Indlela ejwayelekile. Inani lezingane eqenjini alinikezi uthisha ithuba lokuthola indlela eya kuzo, ukucabangela ukuzikhethela kuye, ukudalula ngokugcwele konke okusemandleni akhe namakhono. Uhlelo lwezemfundo lwensimu lenzelwe ingane ejwayelekile, izingane eziningi ensimini zithukuthele ngokukhululekile.
Njengoba kungabonakala kusuka ngenhla, akunakwenzeka ukunikeza impendulo engavumelani - udinga inkulisa ngokusemthethweni. Omunye ubona kuye amaminithi amancane, omunye umuntu ubheka ukuthi kuyadingeka esigabeni sokuthuthukiswa kwengane. Umndeni ngamunye othize kufanele uzikhethele wona, ucabangele izithakazelo zawo wonke amalungu awo: bobabili abazali kanye nengane. Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, isiphetho sibonisa ukuthi ukugcina ingane ingabikho ubunzima ngokungenasidingo futhi imgcine ekhaya kuze kube yilapho isikole kungeyona into engcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma kungekho zizathu eziyinhloko zokushiya umntwana ekhaya, kungcono ukumyisa enkulisa, lapho angathuthuka khona ngontanga.