Ngenkathi ingane isenesihlalo sabakhubazekile, abazali bakhe abakwazi ukulinda ingane yabo ukuba imile emilenzeni bese igijima. Uma nje ingane ingakhulumi, umama nobaba bafuna ukuthi akhulume masinyane futhi akhulume ngakho konke okuthandana naye, okusho ukuthi usathule.
Njengoba kungase kubonakale kunzima, njengoba nje ingane iqala ukuqonda isikhala esinezinhlanzi ezinamahloni, uMama uyaqaphela ukuthi kwakulula ngomntwana elele esitrateni ... Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ingane iqala ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuyeka, abazali bayaqonda ukuthi manje bazokhuluma phambi kwengane kunzima kakhulu. Njengoba ingane ingabambeli nje kuphela "amagama" kanye namazwi omuntu omdala, kodwa futhi uzama ukuphawula ngesigameko esincane kakhulu.
Ngakho uma ingane yakho isathulile, akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Uma ukhulumisana naye ngokwanele, funda izincwadi kuye, uthuthukise amakhono amancane amamoto, ngokungangabazeki, lapho umntwana ekhetha ukukhuluma, cishe uzokwazi ukusho ngisho nabangane bakhe abaningi abawakhulume ngaphambili.
Ingane iqala nini ukukhuluma kahle?
Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, okokuqala kudingekile ukuqonda ukuthi "kuhle" ukuthini? Abanye abazali bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka lapho ingane iqala ukukhuluma igala, abanye - lapho eqala ukukhuluma amagama, isithathu - lapho ingane iqala ukukhuluma nonina, futhi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma nje eqala ukukhuluma ngemishwana.
Kukholelwa ukuthi ukuqhuma okukhulu ekuthuthukiseni ulimi kwenziwa ngumntwana engxenyeni yesibili yonyaka wesibili wokuphila. Yilapho kufanele aqale ukusebenzisa amagama angama-100. Kodwa-ke, ngokusemthethweni kuvela ukuthi ingane yalesi sizwe ingakhuluma amagama angu-10 nje kuphela, kodwa uma uneminyaka emithathu, khuluma "ngokukhululekile" usebenzisa izenzo eziyinkimbinkimbi kanye nezitayela ezishintshayo namacala.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo kwezingane ezithile kwenziwa kancane kancane (kusuka elula kuya eziyinkimbinkimbi), abanye - ngokuphambene. Ukuze uqagele ukuthi iyiphi ingane yengane yakho, kungcono ukubuza unogogo nomkhulu wengane ukuthi ukuhamba kwentuthuko yezingane zabo kuhamba kanjani. Njengoba ngokuvamile ngokuvamile izici zokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo zizuzwa njengefa. Futhi uma ubaba wengane eqala ukukhuluma sekwephuzile, ngezinga eliphakeme kakhulu, ingane ngokwayo iyokhuluma isikhathi sekwephuzile.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane iqale ukukhuluma?
Ungazisiza kanjani ingane ukukhuluma ngokushesha?
- Lawula owodwa. Phendula ingane. Ngokushesha nje lapho eqala ukuhlambalaza, elele esitokisini sakhe, athathe isithakazelo sakhe, ehlabelele "ngomaye" ingoma, tshela leli vesi ekuphenduleni.
- Rule ezimbili. Beka amazwana kukho konke okwenzeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Sitshele ukuthi kuphi, yini efulethini lakho nokuthi kuphi, kungani, ubaba wakho ehamba, kungani ebumnyameni ebusuku futhi ekhanya ngosuku ... Inkulumo eyengeziwe ingane izoyizwa emini, ngokushesha uzofuna ukuzibandakanya ezingxoxweni ngokwakhe.
- Umbuso wesithathu. Thuthukisa amakhono amancane emoto. Imidlalo emanzini, ephepheni, emaphazili, ozimele ze-Montessori, abakhiqizi, i-lego - zonke lezi zingamathuluzi angasiza kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni hhayi kwengqondo yengane, kodwa nenkulumo yakhe.
- Rule ezine. Uma ukhuluma nengane, zama ukukhuluma, khuluma kancane kancane ngokujwayelekile, ngisho noma kubonakala kungavamile kuwe.
- Ukubusa kwesihlanu. Ungasheshi ukufeza izidingo zomntwana, ukhonjiswe "ngaphandle kwamazwi." Uma wazi ukuthi ingane isivele ikwazi ukucela ithoyizi eliyintandokazi, linda kuze kube yilapho elicela, futhi ayidingi isenzo.
- Isimiso sesithupha. Ungacasuli futhi ungathukutheli ingane. Kubalulekile ukuqinisa impumelelo yengane, hhayi ukuveza ukungajabuli ngokungafinyeleli kwakhe. Gcina imizwelo yakho ngaphansi kokulawula, bese ungenaso isikhathi sokubukela emuva, njengoba omncanyana azokutshela izinkondlo zikaChukovsky ngaphandle kwamacebo avela eceleni kwakho.