Ingane ngaphambi kokulala abahlaziyi - leli qiniso alikwazi ukujabulisa noma yiliphi abazali, kodwa ubunzima bokulala - inkinga cishe cishe yonke imindeni ehlangana. Kungani ingane ikhala noma ikhale ngisho ngaphambi kokulala? Kubonakala kwabanye abazali ukuthi lokhu kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zilale. ("Noma yini oyenzayo, kodwa uyakhala.") Ingabe kunjalo, nokuthi ungayiqeda kanjani ingane ngaphambi kokulala?
Kungani ingane isabela ngesikhathi sokulala?
Uma ingane encane kakhulu, qaphela umbuso wakhe wosuku, umsoco wakhe, impilo. Ababi ukulala bangakwazi ukuthi umntwana, olele isikhathi eside emini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, angase abe ne-stomachache, angase ashise kakhulu noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, abanda kakhulu.
Ukuze kube neminyaka engaphezu kwesikhulile, umkhathi jikelele ekhaya, ubuhlobo phakathi kwabazali, isimo sengqondo sabazali kwengane sidlala indima ebalulekile. Ngempela, ngesikhathi sokukhala, ingane ingakwazi ukuhlela ukukhishwa ngokomzwelo lapho kwenzeka abazali:
- zidinga ingane yabo kakhulu (ukuze usuku lomntwana lwakhiwe ngokulandelana kwemithetho kanina, ubaba, ugogo, umkhulu);
- Ngokuphambene nalokho, abadingi lutho kusuka emntwaneni. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi "ukuchithwa" kuvame ukuholela ekugculiseni izidingo zomntanakho (nokutholisa), kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukucindezeleka ngokweqile ohlelweni lwabo lwezinzwa. Ingane ihlale idinga imingcele.
Indlela yokuzola ingane ngaphambi kokulala?
Okokuqala, uma ukhuluma ngomntwana osanda kuzalwa, udinga ukuqeda imbangela. Hlola isimo se-diaper, wenze ukusikhipha isisu, ventilate kahle ekamelweni, khulisa igumbi. Khuluma nengane yakho ngezwi elizolile, ungathukuthelwanga yizimpendulo zakhe. Hlola ukuthi ingane ilele isikhathi esingakanani emini, futhi sekudlule isikhathi esingakanani kusukela. Igebe eliphakathi
Kumntwana osekhulile, ukukhishwa kombuso kubalulekile, noma kunjalo, ngandlela-thile. Izingane ezikhulile kufanele zenziwe ukuthi ziqonde ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziziphatha kanjani ngaphambi kokulala, akudingeki ukudlala futhi zifinyelele, lapho abazali bethi sekuyisikhathi sokulala, kufanele balalele. Umntwana ulele ubuthongo, umthembise ukuthi uma ebhekana nomsebenzi wakhe, emva kokulala uzokwamukela ithoyizi elifunayo, incwadi, uya lapho ingane ifuna khona ukuhamba. Kodwa isicelo kumele sigcwaliseke, ngaphandle kwalokho esikhathini esizayo izimpikiswano zakho zingase zingasebenzi. Ungamemeza noma wesabe ingane, ngoba isimo sengqondo esihle ngaphambi kokulala isikhathi sibaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu bomntwana.