Ucabanga ukuthi kuvamile yini phakathi kukaMerlin Monroe noFidel Castro? - Lapho bezalwa, abazali babo babengashadile. Kusukela ekuzalweni, babhekana nenhlamba yokungabi namthetho, futhi ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20 kwakungelula. Umphakathi oqaphelisayo ukholelwa ukuthi izingane ezinjalo zijwayele ukuziphatha okubi, hhayi njengokuziphatha futhi hhayi njengabahlakaniphileyo njengontanga yabo emindenini enhle. Ucwaningo lwamuva lwabahlengikazi luye lwaxosha lezi zinkolelo ezingalungile. Kanye nesimo sengqondo sabantwana abangekho emthethweni, amalungelo abo nawo ashintshile. Ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi amalungelo izingane ezingekho emthethweni namuhla.
Ukulingana ngokomthetho
Umthetho wamazwe amaningi namuhla awukwenzi ingane engekho emthethweni ibe yinkinga yomphakathi. Ngokusemthethweni, umthetho uphelele ngokuphelele kulomntwana onjalo, emnika amalungelo afanayo namanye abantwana azalwa emshadweni.
Bobabili abazali banesibopho sokusekela izingane zabo ezincane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi baye bafaka umthetho ubuhlobo babo nesivumelwano somshado noma cha. Endabeni yokuhluleka kukababa ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe ngesisekelo sokuhlolwa kwezakhi zofuzo, unina angaphinde aphuluke kubaba wengane engekho emthethweni enkantolo. Ngomntwana oyedwa, ubaba kumele akhokhe ingxenye yesine yemali engenayo yenyanga.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ingane isungulwe, ingane engekho emthethweni inelungelo lokudla ifa likayise ngokulinganayo kanye nezinye izindlalifa zesigaba sokuqala. (Umthetho wefa lezingane ezingekho emthethweni ngokuvamile uvame ukungahambi kahle emndenini omusha kababa ongenandaba.)
... nokungalingani
Kodwa-ke, manje sibheka okungokoqobo, hhayi nje izici ezisemthethweni zombuzo:
- Akuwona wonke umndeni ongakwazi ukukhipha ukuhlolwa kwe-DNA efanele, okudingekayo ekusunguleni ubunikazi. Kodwa-ke, ngisho noma ukubekwa kwabazali kuyasungulwa - lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphila okunethezeka komntwana ongekho emthethweni.
- Obaba abaningi balahlekelwa ukukhokha ngokwethembeka kokunye, banikeza usizo kuphela "ngokusho komthetho", okungukuthi, ukukhipha imali kuphela "emholweni omhlophe".
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubaba, ogama lakhe lingamiswa enkantolo, angaphazamisa ngokungenangqondo ukunyakaza kwamahhala nonina. Okungukuthi, isibonelo, ungavumeli ukuhamba kwengane encane phesheya. Futhi ngaphandle kwemvume enjalo, umama onomntwana ngeke akwazi ukuwela noma yimaphi umngcele wezwe.
Ngakho-ke, nakuba ngokusho komthetho amalungelo omntwana ozelwe ngaphandle komshado alingana namalungelo wengane azalwa ngokusemthethweni, empeleni ikusasa lomntwana onjalo lixhomeke kuphela ezimfanelweni zokuziphatha zabazali bakhe kanye nokukwazi ukuzithengisa ezimweni ezinzima zokuphila.