Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani indima yomndeni ekukhulisweni kwengane nokubunjwa kwezimfanelo zakhe.
Izici eziyisisekelo
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi ithonya lomndeni ekukhulisweni kwengane lingabe lihle noma libi. Ngokuvamile, abazali sebevele bacabanga ukuthi izingane zabo kufanele bafanani futhi bazame ukuphoqa iphethini yokuziphatha oyifunayo, okuholela emikhawulweni ehlukene. Futhi ukuze kube yimfundo ephumelelayo yomuntu ngamunye emndenini, le mithetho elandelayo kufanele ibhekwe:
- Qaphela kakhulu ukukhuluma nezingane.
- Ukuze ube nesithakazelo empilweni yansuku zonke yengane, ukudumisa ngempumelelo nempumelelo, ukusiza ukuqonda isizathu sokuhluleka.
- Ukuqondisa esiteshini esifanele isinqumo sezinkinga.
- Bonisa ingane ukuthi umuntu ofanayo, njengabazali bakhe, ukuxhumana naye ngokulingana okulinganayo.
Imfundo engokomoya nokuziphatha emndenini ingenye yezinkinga ezinzima kakhulu. Phela, izici kanye nemigomo esemqoka ingase ihluke emiphakathini yamasiko nemindeni ehlukene. Kodwa-ke, evamile kubo bonke kumele bahambisane nemibandela elandelayo:
- isimo somusa nobuqotho;
- ukucacisa nokuxoxisana ngezimo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila;
- Isijeziso akufanele sihlazise noma sihlambalaze, injongo yaso ukukwenza abantu bacabange ngokuziphatha kwabo bese befika eziphethweni ezithile ngokwabo.
Izitayela eziyisisekelo zemfundo yomndeni
Kunezinhlobo eziningana zokukhuliswa emndenini, okujwayelekile kakhulu okubalwe ngezansi:
- Ukucindezela noma ukukhuliswa okukhulu . Ngenxa yalokho, izinyane lizokhula noma lizizwela , noma zibuthakathaka futhi zingakwazi ukwenza izinqumo zodwa.
- Ukugcinwa ngokweqile noma ukuzithokozisa kukho konke . Ngokungafani nendlela yokuqala yokufundisa, emndenini onjalo umntanakho uzoba oyinhloko. Kodwa-ke, kulokhu, izingane aziqondi nje ukuthi yini okuhle, yini embi, yini engayenza nento engekho.
- Ukuzimela kanye nokungaziphazamisi ekuthuthukiseni. Lolu hlobo luvame ukubonwa lapho abazali bematasa kakhulu emsebenzini noma bamane nje bengathandi ukuchitha isikhathi kumalungu amancane omndeni.
Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu ukhula engajabuli futhi enesizungu. - Ukubambisana noma ukusebenzisana kwamazwe amabili . Njengamanje, lena yindlela eyamukelekayo kakhulu. Phela, imfundo emndenini wanamuhla kufanele ibe ingxoxo lapho abazali "bengakhombisi" imithetho yabo kuphela, kodwa futhi balalele izidingo nezintshisekelo zezingane. Kulokhu, abantu abadala bayisibonelo sokulingisa, futhi kukhona ukuqonda okucacile komngcele phakathi kokuvunyelwe futhi cha. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ingane iyaqonda ukuthi kungani umuntu engakwazi ukwenza lokhu noma leso senzo, futhi angalandeli ngokulandela imithetho nemithetho yokuziphatha.