Kunezinhlobo ezine zesimo : i-phlegmatic, i-sanguine, i-melancholic ne-choleric. Yilokho okushiwo yi-explosive, emotion, unstable, quick-tempered, quick-response. Lezi zizwe ezivame kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabantu abanobuqili, ngendlela eyodwa noma enye, njalo abonisa ukungapheli nokubekezelelana kwabo njalo. Ake sicabangele isici se-choleric ngokuningiliziwe.
Izitayela zesimo sezulu "se-choleric"
Bangabantu abathintekayo, abangalingani abakulungele ukulwa nomsebenzi wabo kuze kube sekupheleni. Unesimiso sezinzwa ezingalingani futhi silungele ukuvuvukala ngaso sonke isikhathi. Abantu abanjalo abazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani ngokuhlakanipha nangokuqapha: kunoma yisiphi isimo bazoqhubeka, ngisho noma kuzoba yingozi kubo. Banolaka futhi ngeke bahlale bethula uma bengathandi okuthile. Qinisekisa ukuthi uma ubona umuntu ohlambalaza emgwaqweni noma ezokuthutha zomphakathi - cishe kungenzeka ukuthi uyama-choleric.
Kunzima kakhulu ukuvimbela ukubonakaliswa kwemizwelo yakhe, futhi ukuze kufezeke lokhu, kuzomele kwenziwe imizamo eminingi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu onjalo uvame ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka, uhlale enesizathu sokuhlangenwe nakho. Kunzima kakhulu ukuthi ashintshe indaba kusuka kwesinye isihloko kuya kwesinye, ngoba uma enza lokho, uzongena kuwo ngenhliziyo yonke.
Kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi elisha, umuntu onjalo uthathwa ngentshiseko, kodwa uma engasebenzi ngaso leso sikhathi, cishe cishe uzoshiya ngokushesha. Lokhu akumenzi umlingani onokwethenjelwa kakhulu, okusobala ukuthi awunandaba naye.
Njengomthetho, ezimfanweni zomuntu we-choleric kuphawulwe ukuthi uyisimo se-extrovert. Abantu abanjalo basuke bekhuthele ukuxhumana futhi kalula bathole abasha. Bakwazi futhi bakwazi ukugcina ukuxhumeka okutholiwe, uma lowo muntu eba mnandi futhi kufanelekile ukunakekelwa.
Izici zengqondo ze-choleric
Uhlobo olunjalo lokuxhaphaza njenge-"choleric" lubonakala njengobuntu obunzima ukuqondiswa ngokujwayelekile. Lo muntu ngokuvamile akafuni ukulandela imiyalo yomuntu, kodwa uthanda ukuyeka. Lo ngumuntu onamandla ozobeka intando yakhe kuwo wonke umuntu onamandla, angavumeli ngisho abe ngaphansi, kodwa abantu abaseduze noma abangane. Laba bantu base-choleric bazidala izinkinga eziningi, kokubili okuzimele kanye nokwengqondo. Umkhuba wokuphikelela ongekho uqobo ubaholela ekugcineni.
Kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuhambisana nomuntu onjalo kungenza i-phlegmatic, okungeke nje icasuke futhi iphendule kuzo zonke ukuhlaselwa. Uzomane nje amamukele lo muntu njengoba ekhona, futhi uyomgcina ngokuthula futhi engaphenduli. Lona kuphela ukuphendula kwangempela, ngoba uma ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuqala ukumphikisa, uqala ukubonisa ngisho nokubi kakhulu. Ngisho nezingxabano ezizwakalayo zingathinti lo muntu ngenkathi ehlushwa ngokomzwelo, ngakho-ke lowo muntu ongathula uzohlala eduze kwakhe. Xhumana nomuntu onjalo
Isici esifushane somuntu we-choleric ukuthi uyiselula, umuntu osebenzayo, othanda kakhulu, ophuthumayo, kodwa osheshayo. Zonke izinqubo zengqondo kubantu abanjalo ziqhubeka ngokuphawulekayo ngokushesha, futhi izici zobunjwa bazo zizimisele. Laba bantu bangakwazi ukuzwa imizwa eqinile, okuyiyona ndlela ekhangayo. Kuzo zonke izibonakaliso zomuntu onjalo, ubumnene bakhe bubonakala: uhamba ngokungazelelwe, ngokushesha, akabekezeli ukugwema ukuzithiba, uyakuzonda ukulinda, akakwazi ukubhekana nakho okuzolile. Kodwa-ke, emva kokuhamba kwesikhathi eside, njalo uthola ukwehla komsebenzi, futhi isikhathi esithile angase abe nesimo esicindezelekile. Ngendlela yayo ehlanzekile loluhlobo lwezimfanelo luyinto engavamile kakhulu
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