Eminyakeni yamuva, odokotela baye babuyela ezinconyweni zokhokho bethu ukuba badle izinsana ngokufuna. Lokhu kungokwemvelo kunawo wonke umama nomntwana, futhi nguye oqinisekisa ukuncelisa ingane ngokuphumelelayo. Omama abaningi abasha baye bezwa ngezinzuzo zokuncelisa ngokuncelisa, kodwa bambalwa abaqaphela ukuthi kuyini. Iningi labantu bacabanga ukuthi kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa ingane esifubeni lapho ekhala. Abaningi balalela iseluleko sabamama nogogo, abaxwayisa ngokudla njalo futhi bakholelwa ukuthi umbuso uyasiza ingane.
Izingxabano eziningi nazo zikhona phakathi kwabadokotela mayelana nokudla okudingekayo: abaningi bayamelana nokuphikisa. Abasekeli bombuso bathi umntwana akakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi uthanda kangakanani, futhi angadla ngokweqile. Futhi lokhu kungaba imbangela ye-colic, esikhathini esizayo ingane enjalo izosetshenziselwa zonke izinkinga zokubamba nokuhlala kuzungeze abazali. Kodwa abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe baba abaxhasi bezinga elihlukile lokubuka.
Izinzuzo zokuncelisa ekudleni
Ukubeletha ngokufunwa:
- lena yindlela engcono kakhulu yokugqugquzela uklashwa owesifazane, ngoba ubisi lwebele lukhishwa kuphela ngaphansi kwethonya lamahomoni akhiqizwa kusuka ekunceliseni ibele;
- Ukondla izingane ezisanda kudingwa kuzobasiza ekuqedeni izinkinga ze-colic, zokuvuselela kanye nezesihlalo;
- izingane ezondliwa ngokufunwa, zilele kahle futhi zingenalo ulwazi oluncane, ngokushesha zisungula ukuqonda okuhambisana nomama wazo; izingane ezinjalo zikhula kangcono futhi zizolile;
- basuke begula kakhulu, abanaso izinkinga zesikhumba kanye nokwelapha.
Ngidinga kaningi kangakanani ukondla ngokufunwa?
Ezinyangeni zokuqala emva kokubeletha ingane idinga isifuba hhayi nje kokudla okunomsoco. Ingane isetshenziswe izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ukuze ixhumane nomama, ngakho-ke noma kunoma iyiphi insizwa kuyadingeka ukuba uncelise isifuba. Ngalesi sikhathi, uyancipha, abuyele, kulula ukuba alele, u-pee uphinde ahlasele. Ngakho-ke, ukondla ngesicelo somntwana ezinyangeni ezingu-2-3 zokuqala kungadlula izikhathi ezingu-20 ngosuku. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ithola amaminithi angu-2-3 iphonsula isifuba, mhlawumbe nje kufanele iphuze noma izwe ukuxhumana nonina. Ngesinye isikhathi, angakwazi ukuncelisa isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora bese elala nesifuba emlonyeni wakhe.
Ngokuvamile, omama banesithakazelo sokuthi ukudala ukudla okudingekayo kudala kangakanani. Ngokujwayelekile, emva kwezinyanga ezintathu, umntwana ngokwakhe usekela umbuso ayidingayo. Kunconywa ukuba ungaphazamisi ngokuncelisa ukubeletha, kepha ukondla okungathi ingane idingayo. Ngokuvamile, ngemva kwesinye nesigamu kuya eminyakeni emibili, izingane ngokwazo ziyeka amabele.
Wonke umama osemusha ofuna ukukhulisa ingane enempilo kufanele azi ukuthi ubisi lwebele luyisidlo esihle kunazo zonke ngonyaka. Futhi ukuthi kwakungekho izinkinga ekuthuthukiseni kwayo kanye nempilo yengane, kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwengane idinga ukuncelisa ngokuncelisa ekufuneni.