Ngeshwa, futhi mhlawumbe, ngenhlanhla, asifi futhi ngokushesha noma kamuva sizohlala emkhakheni wezwe elihlukile. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ngokugula, ngenxa yengozi noma ezinye izimbangela, umuntu oseduze kakhulu futhi oseduze, umyeni, amaqabunga. Indlela yokuphila emva kokufa komyeni wakhe nokuthi ngabe kungenzeka yini ukubhekana nokulahlekelwa lokhu, kuzotshelwa kulesi sihloko.
Iseluleko sengqondo sokuthi ungaphila ngemuva kokufa komyeni wakhe
Abafazi bazoba baqonde futhi balamukele iqiniso lokuthi ngamunye wethu ulinganiswa nesikhathi sakhe futhi ukufa kungenakuguqulwa. Ungakwazi ukulwa nekhanda lakho odongeni, ukhale futhi ude, kodwa akusikho amandla ethu ukuguqula lokhu. Kuzodingeka siphile ngalokhu okunye, kepha akufanele sizivimbele ngokwethu ukudabuka nokudabukisayo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukudabuka kufanele kuvele ngendlela yezinyembezi nokukhala. Kuphela emva kokuzwa konke ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa, ungakwazi ukumuvumela ukuba ahambe aqale ukwakha impilo entsha. Mhlawumbe, ukusabela kokuqala kuyoba ukuzihlukanisa nezwe elizungezile, ukuze sihoxise kithi futhi siyeke ukuba nesithakazelo kunoma yini. Lena indlela engafanele, iholela ekudakaleni komuntu kanye nokubhujiswa kwezwe langaphakathi.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaphila kanjani emva kokufa komyeni wakho othandekayo, ungakhohlwa ngezingane, ngoba unomama kuphela ozidingayo kunanini ngaphambili. Kungcono ukuthi ungazishiyi, qhubeka ukhuluma nabantu, uya emsebenzini, ubaleke emicabangweni ecebile. Uma udinga ukukhuluma ngaphandle - kuwufanele. Omunye usizwa kahle ngomkhuleko kanye nokuhlanganyela nomuntu ovuma.
Akudingekile ukuba ucabange ukuthi othandekayo uye wangena ekugqibeleni - useduze, futhi ungahlala ukhuluma naye, umkhulekele. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaphila kanjani emva kokufa okungazelelwe komyeni wakhe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuhlupheka kanye nezinkumbulo kuzoba ukudabuka okulula futhi okuhlanzekile, kodwa lokhu kuzomele kulindeleke.
Ungathola labo abakhulu manje, futhi usize abantu abanjalo. Lena yindlela kuphela yokuphila ngaphandle komyeni emva kokufa kwakhe, futhi kanjani okunye, ngoba ngokusiza abanye kuphela, sikhohlwa ngezinkinga zethu, siwahambisa ngemuva.