Umuntu ukholelwa ekuchazeni amaphupho, abanye bakubheka njengokungaphezu komdlalo. Kunoma yikuphi, lolu hlelo luyathandeka futhi lujabulisayo. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ulwazi lusetshenzisiwe, kufanelekile ukucabangela yonke imininingwane yesakhiwo kanye nomthwalo womzwelo.
Kungani uphupha ukugibela ibhayisikili?
Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu olungalungile, olubonisa indlela engozini. Kubalulekile ukulindela izinguquko ezithile ezizohambisana nemizwelo eqinile. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili kuhunyushwa njengokufeza induduzo nokuvumelana. Ukuchazwa kokulala, lapho kwakudingeka ukugibela ibhayisikili, kuxhomeke esimweni sokuthutha. Isibonelo, uma iphukile, kufanelekile ukwesaba uhlobo oluthile lengozi. Umbono ebusuku, lapho uthenge khona ibhayisikili, ubikezela uhambo oluthakazelisayo. Ukubona omunye umuntu ngebhayisikili kusho ukuthi uvame ukushintsha umbono wakhe. Uma wehla ebhayisikili - kuyincoma ukuthi kufanele unake amazwi akho nezenzo zakho. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kungaba yisixwayiso ngengozi. Amaphupho adla ibhayisikili eyebiwe ephusheni, kusho, maduzane, kuzoba nezinto ezingalindelekile nemihlangano. Noma kunjalo kungasho ukuthi okwamanje ufihle okuthile kwabanye. Iphupho lapho umuntu omdala egibela khona isisindo esihle, uphawu olucacile ezindabeni nokuzethemba kuye. Ukuze ugibele ibhayisikili epaki kusho ukuthi ungalindela izintshisekelo zothando.
Kungani uphupha ukugibela ibhayisikili lezintaba?
Uma kwakudingeka wehle ukusuka egqumeni - lokhu kuwuphawu lokuhluleka nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Ukulala, lapho kwakudingeka khona ukukhuphuka, kuprofetha ukutholakala kwamathemba okulinga. Kulo wesifazane, iphupho elinjalo liyisixwayiso sokuthi kufaneleka ukulondoloza idumela lakho nokubuka impilo.