Ezindaba zokukhohlisa, ekuboneni kuqala, konke kucacile. Ngigqoke isiketi esifushane, izicathulo ezicwebezelayo, amasitokisi ezinhlanzi zezinhlanzi futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi uboniswa abantu abanentshisekelo nabathandayo. Kodwa uma into yokudumisa, isibonelo, umphathi wakho noma isisebenzi esisebenza naye, isitayela esifanayo sokugqoka endaweni yehhovisi akungabazeki ukuthi kufanelekile. Kulokhu, umbuzo uvela, "Ungamjabulisa kanjani umfana ngokubukeka?" Futhi ngokujwayelekile, ngabe ukugxila okunjalo kuyophumelela ngokwanele.
Ngakho, ukubukeka okuthakazelisayo ...
"Ngiyayithanda uma ngibona isithakazelo emehlweni ensizwa. Kubonakala kimi ukuthi uma engibheka ngesibindi futhi engafihleli amehlo akhe, khona-ke usethelwa ukujwayelana okuseduze ... "
"Ngiyayithanda uma intombazane ibonisa ukuhlonishwa kwayo ngokubukeka, njengokungathi uthi ngamehlo akhe:" Yeka ukuthi umfana opholile! Ngeke nginqabe ukuthi nginekhofi naye ... "
"... Ijika kakhulu uma intombazane ingilinga ngeso lengqondo ngibheke, ngibizela ukuthatha isinyathelo ngezandla zami ..."
Ngakho-ke, ake sibambe imiphumela. Amadoda aqaphele ukuthi abukeka kanjani ngobulili obuhle, ngaphezu kwalokho - abheka amehlo ukuba abe yisikhali esinamandla sokukhohlisa, ngaleyo ndlela, ukwazi ukuklolodela umfana ngokubukeka okungenakwenzeka kuyo yonke intombazane.
Ake silungise izinto ezidlule. Ukuze insizwa etafuleni elilandelayo ikunake, ekubukeni kwakho kufanele kube nesithakazelo esivulekile, ixutshwe nokumamatheka okuncane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi ungadluleli. Awudingi ukumbheka naye nge-"puppy ecstasy," ngokungafani ukuhlunga, bese uguquka. Kufanele uziphathe njengengonyamakazi, okuyinto yena, okuyiyona into eyinhloko kakhulu, kodwa engasekho. Njengoba, nakuba abantu bengavumi, emehlweni abesifazane bafuna ukufunda inselele, ukushaya ukulwa noma, uma ufuna, isimemo sokuthatha ingxenye ye-adventure ejabulisayo.
Yiba noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula umthetho oyinhloko wendlela yokujabulisa umfana onokubukeka - ukumnika ithemba lokwamukela kwakho futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukunikeza ithemba lokuthi "uyinto ekhohlisayo."
Imfundo yesinyathelo-by-step ekukhohliseni noma indlela yokujabulisa indoda enokubukeka:
- Ngaphambi kokuba ubuke umfana, bheka umthumelele ukumomotheka okulula, okungamangalisa okuzoba yisimemo engxoxweni.
- Sula kancane "phezu kwalo ngeso lengqondo, bese uthatha amehlo akho ohlangothini.
- Ngezinye izikhathi umphonsa ukubuka okusheshayo "ngaphansi kwe-eyelashes", ngenkathi ungakhohlwa ukumomotheka.
- Inqubo enhle yokuthi "ukudubula" amehlo. Okokuqala, ungamniki ithuba lokuhlangana nawe, ukubuka kude, ngokushesha,
ngokushesha nje lapho ekulalela. Ngokusho kwamadoda amaningi, lo mdlalo uvusa injabulo futhi ujabule. - Futhi, ungakhohlwa ngokumamatheka. Funda ukumomotheka ngamehlo akho, okuzokwenza ukubonakala kwakho kukhange nakakhulu.
- Uma isihloko sesithakazelo sakho siqala ukubheka kaningi ekuqondeni kwakho, ngenkathi ungafihla ukumomotheka - usendleleni efanele. Kulokhu, mvuselele, umtshele ukuthi awunandaba ukuzanazana. Ukuze wenze lokhu, imizuzwana embalwa ukuze uhlangabezane namehlo akhe, bese uphinde ubheke. Ngomphumela omkhulu, phinda le nqubo izikhathi eziningana.
Kodwa-ke, ukucabanga ngendlela yokuthakazelisa umfana onokubukeka kuyinto efiselekayo kuphela kulawo mahlakalo, uma lo mfana eheha ngempela kuwe. Uma ngabe usuvele uzimisele ukuhlola amandla okukhanga kwakho, khona-ke usengozini yokuba yisisulu sokunakwa kwakhe ngokucophelela. Futhi isithakazelo esiqile, njengoba wazi, asikho kangcono kunokuntuleka okuphelele kwesithakazelo.