Inhlangano yomkhosi womshado akuyona umsebenzi olula, kodwa ukuhlolwa okuncane okunjalo ukuqeqeshwa okuhle kokuphila komndeni wesikhathi esizayo. Ukulungiselela umshado, umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele bafunde ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele, bahlukanise imisebenzi, bahloniphe umbono we-half, futhi bathole ukuyekethisa. Uhlu lwamacala omshado alukhawulelwe kuphela edilini nemidwebo, ngoba wonke umuntu ufuna iholide ukuba ihlukile. Futhi ukuze kuzuzwe okufunayo, umbhangqwana ozayo kufanele wenze umzamo omkhulu.
Okokuqala kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela phezu kohlu lwezinto ezidingekayo kanye namacala omshado futhi udwebe uhlelo lokuqeqesha ukuze ungakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ezibalulekile ngokushesha. Okokuqala, kunalokho, udinga ukunquma ngesimo somkhosi kanye nenani lezivakashi. Lokhu kuzoxhomeke kakhulu ohlwini lwazo zonke izinto ezidingekayo emshadweni. Ukuze uhlele iholidi lakho, ungasebenzisa uhlu olujwayelekile lwamacala ngaphambi komshado nomshado kanye nohlu lwezinto ezidingekayo zomshado, olunikezwa ochwepheshe emkhakheni wemikhosi. Yiqiniso, kuyodingeka uhlele konke okudingayo emshadweni esimweni esikhethiwe. Kungaba izidingo ezengeziwe namasevisi, izipho zezivakashi, izingubo, njll.
Uhlu lwezindaba ezibalulekile kanye ne-trivia yomshado:
- Khetha usuku lomshado.
- Thola isabelomali somshado.
- Yenza uhlu lwamamenywa.
- Khetha ofakazi.
- Khetha ihhovisi lokubhalisa, isicelo, ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga eziphathelene nobuholi.
- Sombulula inkinga nomhleli womshado, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyoba iqhaza elihlelekile ekuhleleni imishado, noma umkhwenyana nomakoti bazohlela konke ngokwabo, ngokusekelwa kwezihlobo nabangane. Njengomthetho, lapho ukhetha ukuqina, konke ukulungiswa okulandelayo komakoti nomkhwenyana kuyoba kuphela ekuxoxeni okukhethwa kukho okukhethiwe futhi ngokugubha ngokuqondile. Uma labo abasanda kushada banquma ukuhlela iholidi labo, ngakho-ke singaqhubeka nezinto ezilandelayo ohlwini lwamalungiselelo omshado.
- Khetha indawo yomkhosi.
- Xoxa ngemenyu kanye nomhlobiso wehholo.
- Khetha i-photographer, ikhamera, i-toastmaster, i-DJs nabaculi.
- Xoxa ngesimo nomphathi wesonto, yenza uhlu oluhlukile lwalokho okudingekayo emshadweni ukuze kusetshenziswe uhlelo. Kuyoba lula ukubeka lesi sigaba senhlangano kumphathi wesonto.
- Xoxa ngomculo nabaculi beholidini, ungakhohlwa ukwakheka komdanso wokuqala wabashadayo.
- Khetha umculi wezinwele nomculi wokwenza.
- Thumela izimemo zezivakashi, cela izihlobo nabangane abahlala kwamanye amadolobha nakwamanye amazwe, ukuthi bazokwazi yini ukuza futhi banakekele indawo yabo yokuhlala.
- Sombulula inkinga ngokuthutha. Bala ukuthi mangaki izimoto nezindawo ezimbalwa ozidingayo, khetha inkampani yokuthutha.
- Hlela ikhekhe lomshado.
- Hlela izinkukhu kanye namaqembu ama-stag.
- Hlela u-honeymoon.
- Hlukanisa imithwalo yemfanelo, udwebe isimiso sabo bonke amacala ukuze ngosuku lokugcina kunezinto ezilula kuphela ezidala umkhosi wokugubha.
- Buza ofakazi noma abazali ukuba bahlole ukuthi konke okudingayo emshadweni kufakwe kuhlu. Mhlawumbe bazothola imibono eyengeziwe noma bazokhumbula into ebalulekile emndenini noma kumenywa.
Uhlu lwezinto ezidingekayo zomshado:
- Izimemo zezivakashi.
- Indwangu yomlobokazi ngomshado futhi ngosuku lwesibili, uma izogubha.
- Landela umkhwenyana.
- Izindandatho kanye nesikhwama samasongo.
- Imali yokukhokha ehhovisi lokubhalisa, intengo yomakoti, nezinye izindleko ngosuku lomshado.
- Amabhukhoni ofakazi.
- I-Champagne, izibuko, amathawula ehhovisi lokubhalisa.
- Amaphasipoti, amaresidi adingekayo wokudweba.
- Iziphuzo, ukudla okulula kanye nezitsha zokuhamba ngemva komdwebo.
- Imihlobiso yezimoto.
- Imihlobiso yokungena.
- I-bouquet yomlobokazi.
- Amapetali ezinhlobonhlobo, izinambuzane, amaswidi, izinhlamvu zemali zokufafaza umakoti nomkhwenyana.
- Isinkwa.
- Izibuko zomshado.
- Izidingo zemincintiswano yomshado.
- Izipho zezivakashi.
- Amabhethri ngamakhamera.
- Imihlobiso yegumbi lokulala lalabo abasanda kushada.
- Kunconywa ukuba ube nethikili yokuqala yokusiza emotweni, futhi isethi yamalungiselelo angasiza ekugwemeni izinkinga ezivamile, isibonelo, izidakamizwa zokulwa nezidakamizwa, kanye namathuluzi okugaya nokudakwa ngokweqile, zingasiza edilini.
Iviki ngaphambi komkhosi, kudingeka uhlole ngokucophelela ukuthi konke okukulolu hlu kubhekwa kuyadingeka emshadweni, kanye nalokho okusele kuthengwa futhi kwenziwe.
Uhlu lwezinto ezidingekayo emshadweni kufanele linyatheliswe emakhophi amaningana, wonke umuntu ohlanganyela enhlanganweni yomkhosi. Kukhophi ngayinye, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi yiliphi ibhizinisi eliphathisiwe, futhi unikeze imisebenzi yomnikazi ohlwini. Khona-ke ngeke kube khona ukudideka, futhi wonke umuntu uzokwazi ngokucacile ukuthi yiyiphi indima ayenayo, futhi uma kukhona imibuzo noma imibono kwezinye izinto, kuzocaca ukuthi ubani ongayijika, hhayi ukuphazamisa umkhwenyana noma umakoti futhi.
Ngenhlangano efanele, konke ukulungiswa komshado kuyokwenzeka esimweni esifudumele sokuthanda nokuqonda, futhi umkhosi uzohlala inkumbulo ekhanyayo nenhle yokuphila.