Umndeni empilweni yowesifazane uye waba nesimo esiphakathi, kodwa umphakathi wanamuhla uguqula izisekelo zokuziphatha komndeni, futhi ushintsho oluningi kangangokuthi ngisho nasezikoleni baqala ukufundisa isihloko esithi "ukuziphatha nemicabango yokuphila komndeni." Yebo, izingane zethu zizokwaziswa ngakho konke, mhlawumbe lokhu kuzokusiza esikhathini esizayo ukudala imindeni ejabule. Futhi ukuthi singaba kanjani, ezikoleni zethu mayelana nokuziphatha nokusebenza kwengqondo yokukhulumisana komndeni akuzange kwenziwe, kodwa injabulo nokuthula emndenini kuyayifuna ngempela.
Izigaba zokuphila komndeni
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokwenza ukuphila komkhaya ujabule, kudingeke ukhulume ngezigaba umndeni ngamunye uhlangabezana nazo kusukela ekuqaleni kwawo. Imithetho yokuphila komndeni ojabulisayo isesiteji ngasinye.
- Isigaba sokuqala uthando lokuzijabulisa . Manje lo mbhangqwana awukhathaleli izimfihlo nemithetho yokuphila komkhaya ojabulisayo, konke kuyamangalisa kakhulu. Abashadile bazama ukwenza konke ndawonye, abangafuni ukuhlanganyela isikhathi eside. Kuhlelwe izinhlelo ezinhle zokwenza ikusasa elihlangene.
- Isigaba sesibili sokuphila komndeni ekucwaningweni kwengqondo kuthiwa yisikhathi sokuqashelwa nokulutha umlutha . Injabulo eyisiliva idlula, abashadile baqala ukubheka ngokucophelela empilweni. Lesi sigaba siba isilingo sokuqala esibucayi empilweni yabashadile. Kwenzeka ukuthi abantu abakulungele ukubonana ngaphandle kobuhle bomusa. Futhi esikhundleni senjabulo yokuqashelwa, bathola ukudumala okufanayo nokucasuka. Okubaluleke kakhulu kule nkathi yokuphila komndeni ukuzimisela ukwehlisa kanye nesifiso sokuxoxisana. Ngaphandle kokuphikisana nokuphikisana, ayikwazi ukuphila komndeni. Lokhu kujwayelekile futhi akusho ukuthi ukhethe umuntu ongalungile. Umbhangqwana ngamunye ungabiza izinzuzo zabo kanye nokulahlekelwa kwempilo yomndeni, futhi lokhu kungase kube okuningi. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izikhathi ezimbalwa ezihle zingadlula zonke izinkinga.
- Isigaba sesithathu singabizwa ngokuthi yisikhathi sokwakhiwa komndeni . Uma izinkinga zesigaba sangaphambili somndeni sezixazululiwe ngempumelelo, abashadile banesikhathi sokubuyisana. Manje lo mbhangqwana ukhathazekile ukwakhiwa kwamacebo esikhathini esizayo kanye nokuqaliswa komsebenzi ohlangene. Kungaba ukukhuliswa kwengane, ukulungisa indlu, ukwakha indlu, njll. Zonke lezi zenzo ziletha injabulo kulabo abashade futhi bazihlanganisa.
- Isigaba sesine yisikhathi sokuzinza . Umndeni unemithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo, abashadile bayazi umthwalo wabo wemfanelo ezindaweni ezithile zokuphila. Abashadile sebevele bafunda, bajwayele ukubuthakathaka okuncane futhi bababathethelele ngokuzithandela. Manje izingane sezivele zihlelwe esikoleni (ISIKHATHI ESIKHULU), indlu ithengwa, njengakho konke kuhle. Ingozi ikhona esimisweni esivela empilweni yomndeni. Ngakho-ke, izimfihlo zokulondoloza umndeni ngalesi sigaba zingabizwa ngephutha, ubuhlakani babashade nesifiso sokuthakazelisa omunye. Uma ungavumeli impilo yansuku zonke ukuba ithandane ngokuphelele, khona-ke umndeni wakho uzoqhubeka nokuphila kwawo okujabulisayo. Kungenjalo, isinyathelo esilandelayo ngu.
- Isigaba sesishiyagalolunye sisuke siphelile . Abashadile sebevele behluleka ukuthola indawo ensimini eyodwa, belele embhedeni wabo noma emakamelweni ahlukene, bexoxa kuphela ngesidingo esikhulu. Eminye imindeni iqhubeka iphila kanje, abanye bahlukana,
kodwa ngandlela-thile ukuphatha ukuphuma kule nhlanzi. Lokhu kwenzeka ngemuva kokuxoxisana okungathí sina nokubeka wonke amaphuzu angaphezu kwe "i" noma ngemuva kwesigameko esibalulekile (mhlawumbe esiyingozi) empilweni yomndeni. Khona-ke kufika isikhathi sokubuyiselwa, lo mbhangqwana uqala futhi ukwakha izinhlelo ezihlangene zekusasa nethemba lokuhle. Futhi lo mbhangqwana unokuhlangenwe nakho okubaluleke kakhulu nesifiso sokungavumi amaphutha okwenziwe ekuqaleni.
Amabhodi okulondolozwa kwempilo yomndeni ojabulisayo anganikezwa okuningi. Kodwa, mhlawumbe, okubaluleke kakhulu kuzoba izingcingo zokuthanda, ukuhlonipha nokwazisa umlingani wakho womphefumulo.