Uma uqaphela ukuthi unenkinga ebuhlotsheni bakho, ungesabi, ngoba ayikho impilo yomndeni ngaphandle kwezinkinga, yonke imibhangqwana idlula kuyo. Emindenini, kungase kube nokungezwani ebuhlotsheni ngezikhathi ezithile, ngakho kubalulekile ukuba uzame ngokushesha futhi uthuthukise isimo ukuze ugweme inkinga. Ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo bungatholakala kuphela ngokusebenza njalo kuzo kanye nezinkinga ezivela kuzo. Kunezindlela eziningana zokulondoloza umshado nokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo.
Indlela yokusindisa umshado, izindlela:
- Amahlaya iyithuluzi elihle kakhulu kulolu chungechunge ukuthi ungalondoloza kanjani umshado. Ungacindezeli ukuphila, ungathathi konke ngokujulile. Phatha lezi zenzakalo ngokuzenzekelayo, ulethe amahlaya ebuhlotsheni bakho - lokhu kuzosula ngokushesha ukungezwani phakathi kwakho, futhi impilo izoba mnandi kakhulu.
- Nika isikhathi, uchithe, okuzoba yibo bobabili. Mnikezela ekuhambeni okuhlangene, noma kokuthile okuthakazelisayo kokubili.
- Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungalondoloza kanjani ubuhlobo - gwema izingxabano. Ukuze wenze lokhu, engxoxweni, uhambisane nezihloko onokuphikisana nazo, njengombuso, lezi yizihloko zezombangazwe, izihlobo, inkolo, izithandani zangaphambili, ukukhululwa.
- Khumbula ukuqala kobudlelwane bakho. Vakashela izindawo zomhlangano wakho wokuqala, cabanga ukuthi yini eshintshile kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, mhlawumbe uthando noma inhlonipho seyanyamalala - lokhu kuyoba impendulo yokuthi ungayilondoloza kanjani umshado kusuka esivumelwaneni.
- Qonda futhi uthethelele umlingani wakho. Kusuka kumaphutha, akekho ovikelwe, ngakho funda ukuthethelela, ukuvumela umuntu ukuthi alungise. Khumbula ukuthi empikiswaneni, bobabili bavame ukusola.
- Sebenzisa ukuthinta. Ububele, uthando lungabonakalisa oxhumana nabo abahlukahlukene ngaphandle kocansi. Ngakho ubonisa umlingani wakho omthandayo futhi ufuna ukumnakekela.
- Shiya isikhala somlingani. Ngesinye isikhathi siyekelelana "inkululeko", ngisho nangobunye ubusuku - umuntu ngamunye udinga isikhala sakhe siqu.
- Umbuzo ovame kakhulu emndenini lapho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabashade baqala ukuwohloka - "ingabe ubudlelwane bangasindiswa?" - ungawenza, umehluko empilweni yansuku zonke. Shintsha amasiko omndeni wakho, unike ngaphandle kwesenzakalo
izipho, zinikeza imibono emisha futhi kumangazane omunye nomunye. - Cabanga ngendawo yakho edolobheni. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ayengaziwa kwabanye, futhi ayikhethwanga noma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Kunesikhathi esihle sokuchitha isikhathi yedwa, ukuhlela kusihlwa kwabo.
- Ungaphazamisi ukuxhumana nomunye nomunye. Gcina ukukhulumisana okukhululekile, funda ukuzwa nokulalela.
Ngisho nangemva kokuzama zonke izindlela ezihlongozwayo, ungayeki. Ilungelo lobuhlobo obujabulisayo ludinga ukuthola. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukusebenza kanzima ebuhlotsheni.