"Ungayifaka kanjani i-alimony?" - lo mbuzo uthakazelisa abaningi besifazane abaye bengenakho ukusekelwa kwempahla yendoda yangaphambili ngemuva kokuhlukanisa. Emphakathini wethu kaningi kunesimo lapho omunye wabazali efaka isicelo sokusekela izingane. Ngokwezibalo, ezimweni eziningi, ngemuva kokuhlukanisa ingane ihlala nonina, hhayi ngobaba, ezimweni ezinjalo, umama uzoba nezindleko ezengeziwe, ezingenakuzikhokhela njalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubudlelwane abazali bahlukana ngani, ingane akufanele ibe sesimo esihlazo.
Ngokusho komthetho wamanje, owesifazane unelungelo lokufakela ukusekelwa kwengane enkantolo uma ubaba enqaba ukunikeza ukwesekwa okungokwakhe ngokuzimela.
"Ngifuna ukufaka i-alimony - ngingakwenza kanjani lokhu?"
Ngaphambi kokuhambisa amadokhumende enkantolo ukuze kulandelwe, owesifazane kufanele azibuze njalo umbuzo: "Udinga ukufaka i-alimony?". Uma abazali bexoxisana phakathi kwabo bese benza ukuyekethisa, khona-ke isidingo sokukhalaza enkantolo siwa. Futhi, njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, endaweni engcono kakhulu ingane. Kule ndaba, abashade besikhathi esidlule kufanele benze isivumelwano ngokubhala futhi babhale. Isivumelwano sichaza inani lenyanga zonke ukuthi uyise wengane ubophezele ukukhokha. Isikhathi kanye nendlela yokudluliselwa kwezimali zingabuyekezwe esivumelwaneni.
Uma ngabe le nkinga ayikwazi ukuxazululwa ngokuthula, owesifazane kufanele abuze ukuthi angayifaka kanjani futhi ukuthi angaphi isicelo se-alimony e-Ukraine.
Into yokuqala eyithandayo abesifazane kuleso simo yilapho ukufaka isicelo se-alimony. Ukuze wenze lokhu, angathintana nommeli noma enze isitatimende ngokuzimela, afake ngaphakathi bese elinde isinqumo senkantolo.
Inkantolo inquma inani le-alimony nenqubo yokukhokha kwabo. Ubukhulu bemali buyathinteka yizici ezilandelayo:
- izimo zokuphila zomntwana kanye nempilo yakhe;
- isimo sezimali somkhokheli we-alimony;
- Ukuba khona komkhokhi wezinye izingane, okhokhela izihlobo zakhe ezingekho emthethweni.
Kuye ngalezi zici, inkantolo inganquma inani le-alimony njengengxenye yeholo, noma ngesamba esisodwa esiqinile. Njengomthetho, isabelo semali siyabelwa uma kwenzeka ubaba enenzuzo njalo futhi eqinile. Inani elithile linikezwa uma umkhokheli enenzuzo engavamile.
Uma owesifazane ngemuva kwesahlukaniso unezingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu ezishiywe, inani le-alimony linqunywe isikhathi esithile - kuze kube yilapho ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni eyi-18. Emva kwalokho, inani lilandiswa.
Owesifazane unelungelo lokufaka i-alimony ngaphandle kwehlukaniso, okungukuthi, eqinisweni, ukushada noyise womlingani. Imithetho yethu ayihlinzeki nganoma imiphi imingcele ekutholeni ukulingana kwabesifazane abashadile. Uma ubaba enganikeli usizo lwezinto ezibonakalayo, unina unelungelo lokufaka i-alimony yendodana noma indodakazi kanye naye ngokwabo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuze kube yilapho ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala.
Inkantolo igxeka ummangalelwa ukuthi akhokhe ingane ngokulinganayo ngesikhathi leso sinqumo senziwe. Umama angathembela ekubuyiseleni kokunye okudlule esikhathini esingaphambilini, kodwa kungakapheli iminyaka emithathu. Ukuze enze lokhu, kuzodingeka aveze enkantolo ukuthi uyise wengane wenqabe ukukhokha, futhi wathatha zonke izinyathelo ezidingekayo zokuthola imali yengane.
Wonke amalungelo okuthola isondlo yilabo besifazane kuphela ababengumshado obhalisiwe nobaba wengane. Uma abazali bebodwa emshadweni, isinqumo senkantolo ngeke samukele ummangali.
Kulesi simo esinzima, lapho omunye wabazali ezama ukusekelwa ngezimali kumuntu owayekade naye, ungakhohlwa ngezinto ezithandwa ngumntwana. Ingane, ngaphezu kwemali, idinga uthando lomzali nokunakekelwa. Khona-ke uzokwazi ukuthuthukisa ngokugcwele futhi akhulele enempilo futhi ejabule.