Izincwadi zokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani

Kunombono wokuthi ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga nokuhlakanipha kuvele kuphela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo. Eqinisweni, ukuhlakanipha kuqhubeka phakathi komuntu. Enye imibono eyiphutha, esekelwa ngokuqinile ngabaningi bezengqondo zakudala, ukuthi ukuhlakanipha kuxhomeke ekuphatheni okwenziwa yizifo zomuntu ngamunye. Lokhu kungakanani umama nobaba abaye bakhumbula, okuningi kuyoba sekupheleni kokuphila.

Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, ukuhlakanipha kungakwazi futhi kufanele kuthuthukiswe futhi lokhu kunezindlela eziningi. Enye yezindlela ezilula futhi ezifinyeleleka kakhulu zokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha zifunda izincwadi ezikhethekile.

Uhlu lwezincwadi zokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani

1. "Ukuzihlolisisa" nguRon Hubbard - le photobook inomthelela ekwakhiweni kwayo yonke inqubo yokucabanga, ithuthukise inkumbulo kanye nesivinini sokuphendula. Ungafunda incwadi ngaphandle kosizo. Inikeza ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile ekuthuthukiseni u-intelligence, amatafula ukuze aqaphele imizwa yabo engokomzwelo kanye neminye imininingwane eminingi ewusizo evumela ukuba bazi ngokwabo.
2. "Puzzle imidlalo, ukuhlolwa, umzimba" Tom V'yuzhek. Sonke sibhekene nokuhluleka ememori, uma ungakwazi ngisho nokukhumbula inombolo yakho yefoni noma igama lomfundisi wakho wokuqala. Kwaba ukuvimbela amacala anjalo futhi kwakhiwa uhlelo lokuzivocavoca nokuhlolwa okusiza ukukhomba ubuthakathaka bamakhono akho angokomzwelo nangokwengqondo futhi uthuthukise ezingeni elifunayo. Le ncwadi inezivivinyo eziningi eziwusizo zokuthuthukisa inkumbulo nokuhlakanipha, ukugxila kokunakekelwa nokuthuthukiswa kwenqubo yokucabanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwenza le ncwadi kungandisa amandla akho okudala. Ngesizo sencwadi, ungabheka kabusha amathuba okucabanga kwakho. "Ukubhoboza Ubuningi" uBill Lucas. Ubuchwepheshe obuphuthumayo bokuthuthukiswa kwezwe lanamuhla kudinga ukusheshisa kokucabanga kwethu. Nsuku zonke kufanele sifunde okuthile okusha futhi minyaka yonke kunzima kakhulu. Umcwaningi wezokwelapha waseMelika noBill Lucas wazisa uhlelo lokufunda okusheshayo nezindlela zokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha. Ukufunda le ncwadi ungafunda amathuba obuchopho bakho kanye nemisebenzi yomsebenzi wayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le ncwadi ithonya isisusa nokuzizwa kwemizwelo yokufunda.
3. "Inqubo yokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo" uHarry Adler. U-Adler udokotela owaziwa kakhulu, isazi sezengqondo, isazi se-NLP, abantu abaningi baya enkulumweni yakhe, bazama ukwazi ngokwabo nabanye. Waba umbhali wenani elikhulu lemisebenzi yesayense kanye nabathengisi be-psychology. Ubuchwepheshe bokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani bufaka isandla ekwenzeni ukukhishwa kwengqondo. Izabelo ezijabulisayo zokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani zizojabulisa noma yikuphi umfundi. Ukuqeqeshwa okucatshangwayo ohlelweni olukhethekile kuzosiza ukuqonda izifiso nemigomo yomuntu ngamunye ngokuhambisana namakhono akhe engqondo.
4. "Ukuzivocavoca kwengqondo" uDavid Gamon. Le ncwadi ihlanganisa ukuqeqeshwa kohlelo lokuthuthukisa ikhono lobuhlakani. Le ncwadi ilungele ukuzithuthukisa. Umlobi wenza uhlelo lokuzivocavoca nokuhlolwa kokuthuthukiswa kanye nokusetshenziswa okusebenzayo komsebenzi womabili ama-hemispheres obuchopho. UGaymon wafunda ithonya lomuntu ngokufutheka kwamakhono akhe okufunda. Ngemva kokufunda le ncwadi, umfundi angakwazi ukwenza izinqumo masinyane, ngekhanda ulwazi olunzulu, asebenzise umcabango wendawo.

Lolu hlu lwezincwadi lungabuye lwaqhubeka isikhathi eside. Kunezinhlelo eziningi ezinhle ezihlose ukwandisa ukuhlakanipha. Izindlela zokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani, ezichazwe abalobi zitholakala kubo bonke. Ukwenza le nqubo, ungathuthukisa imemori yakho, umqondo wengqondo kanye nengqondo futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ube umuntu ophumelelayo.