Bathi wonke umuntu unayo "imiphongolo yakhe" ekhanda lakhe, okusho ukuthi bonke abantu bayancipha futhi baphambuke emqondweni. Kodwa-ke, izifo ezingokwengqondo zidinga ukulungiswa kanye nokwelashwa, ngoba umuntu akakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo umphakathi ozinikeza kuye futhi uxazulule izinkinga zakhe zokuphila.
Izimbangela zesifo sezifo
Ochwepheshe bathi izifo zengqondo zingabangelwa yizimbangela ezimbili ezingenakuqhathaniswa nezokugcina. Esikhathini sokuqala, zonke izithonya zangaphandle ebuchosheni obangelwa yizifo ezihlukahlukene, ukulimala, izifo zangaphakathi. Izimbangela ezingapheli azihlobene nezici zangaphandle futhi ngokuyinhloko ziphathelene nokuphila. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi kunemibuzo eminingi ezinkingeni zezifo ezingokwengqondo kunezimpendulo. Umuntu akasoze athi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi yini eyabangela lokhu noma leyo ngxaki yesifo sengqondo, futhi uma kunesimo sangaphakathi esihlangene nokuhlanganiswa okuvela ngaphandle, umuntu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubufebe bakhe bungaba yisisulu sokungasebenzi kahle kwengqondo emzimbeni.
Ukuhlukana kwezifo nezinkinga zengqondo kuye kwacwaningwa futhi kwacwaningwa ngabachwepheshe abaningi. Akukhona lutho ukuthi bathi zonke izifo zivela emithanjeni. Ngisho nangaphandle kolwazi lwezokwelapha, kulula ukuphawula ukuthi abantu abanovalo, abangenangqondo kanye nabangenakulinganiseka ngokomzwelo bavame ukuba nesiguli sezifo ezithintekayo. Eyaziwayo emhlabeni wonke, uLouise Hay, owathi, nakuba engazi udokotela, kodwa umsunguli wenhlangano yokuzimela, unike abantu abaningi ithuba lokuzisiza nokuqeda izinkinga eziningi ezingokwengqondo. Nguye owasungula uhlu lwezilinganiso ezingokwengqondo zesifo. Ngesizo salo ungaqonda ukuthi iziphi izimbangela zangaphakathi eziye zaphakamisa ukugula okukhathazayo futhi zilahla.
Isifo ngasinye kulolu hlu sibaluleke kakhulu ngokwengqondo. Umlobi ngokwakhe uthi uyakwazi ukunqoba umdlavuza ngaphandle kokungenelela kwezokwelapha, ngokumane evumela ukuhlambalaza nokuthethelela labo abaye bamcasula.
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