Indlela yokuthuthukisa kanjani?

Nsuku zonke sizwa enkulumweni evamile ukuthi umuntu akakhanyeli ngombono, kanti omunye unalo lithelenta ngobuningi. Ukuqonda umbuzo - kusho ukuthini, kudingeka uqaphele ukuthi lokhu kuyinhlonipho yangasese ehlonishwayo yonke impilo. Uthi yikhono lomuntu ukuveza imicabango yakhe ngendlela evamile engavamile, okuyisici sesabelo esincane somphakathi.

Ngabantu abanobuhlakani njalo kumnandi ukuxhumana, ngokushesha baba umphefumulo wenkampani, kubonakala ukuheha labo abazungezile. Ngakho-ke, abantu abasha bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi bangafunda kanjani ekuphumeni esixukwini sabangani, kodwa ukuhlelwa kwalesi talent kuyadingeka ukuba kube sekhodi yezofuzo. Ukuthuthukisa ithalente "yolimi olubukhali" kuzosiza ukuxhumana njalo nabantu abahlakaniphile abazokwazi ukutshela okuningi okufundisayo.

Indlela yokuthuthukisa kanjani?

Ukufunda kwakho kuzosiza ekuboniseni inkulumo yakho, lapho ufunda kakhulu izincwadi ngezitatimende "ezibukhali" ezijabulisayo, lapho uthola khona "amancane amancane amazwi" akho. Khetha izincwadi ezithandwayo ezibhalwe ku-comic uhlobo, funda amaqoqo ama-aphorisms namacaphuno abantu abadumile - uFaina Ranevskaya, isazi sefilosofi sekhulu le-11 u-Omar Khayam, njll.

Njengoba ufunde imishwana enamaphiko futhi ufunde amahlaya amahle, funda ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ngesikhathi engxoxweni. Kufakwe ngokungalungile, ngisho namahlaya abukhali kakhulu futhi ahlakaniphile, ngokusobala ngeke akungeze kuwe amaphuzu wokuqashelwa kwendawo yonke, kunalokho, ngokuphambene nalokho - azokwehlisa ukulinganisa phakathi kwabahlobo. Qondisisa ngenye yezinkulumo zakho, ngokungalindelekile, ukuqeda ukukhuluma ngendlela aqhubeka ngayo le ndaba, kodwa washintsha kakhulu incazelo yalo. Isibonelo, inkulumo ethi Mark Twain: "Ukuyeka ukubhema kulula. Ngaphonsa izikhathi ezingamashumi ayisihlanu. " Lokhu kungukuthi, ukuphela kwenkulumo akugcini nje ngokuqhubeka nomcabango, kodwa futhi kwenza incazelo ephindwe kabili kuyo.

Ukudala kanye nokukhuluma enkulumweni kubonakala kahle emibintwaneni emifushane "emangalisa". Akekho ozoba nesithakazelo ekulaleleni inkulumo ende, enomusa, kodwa uhlu lwadlalwayo olufakwe ukudlala luyoba ukubonakaliswa kobufakazi bakho.