Uma umuntu eqonda ukuthi usesimweni sokucindezeleka futhi ufuna ukuwuqeda - kuyamangalisa. Kodwa, ngeshwa, akubona wonke umuntu ongabaziqhenya ngokuqaphela okunjalo. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokuthi ungamsiza kanjani umuntu ekucindezelekeni uyathandwa kakhulu.
Usizo ngokucindezeleka - yini engekwenziwe?
Awukwazi ukusindisa umuntu. Uzwela luzovimba umuntu amandla, amshayele esimweni esibi nakakhulu, okuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuphuma kuso. Uthando kuzo zonke izibonakaliso zalo yilokho okusiza okungcono kakhulu ekucindezelekeni.
Awukwazi ukulinda ukucindezeleka kudlule ngokwayo. Uma umuntu eye eshaqeka kakhulu ngokomzwelo futhi wangena ekucindezelekeni, ekuphumeni okungekho umzamo owenziwe kuwo, angaba schizophrenia.
Awukwazi ukuthola izizathu zokucindezeleka, okubhekisela ekutheni lokhu kuyindawo evamile yomuntu emva kwesimo esithile esiyinkimbinkimbi. Ukusuka ekucindezelekeni nasekucindezelekeni kuphela okuqinile futhi okuyisimiso sengqondo esingcono kunisiza. Phela, impilo ngezinye izikhathi "ibetha" kakhulu futhi udinga ukukwazi ukubamba noma yikuphi ukushaya kwayo.
Usizo ngokucindezeleka - izindlela ezinhle kakhulu
Udinga ukuphendukela kumtholampilo, uchazela lowo muntu ukuthi lo mchwepheshe uyakwazi ukusiza ngokunquma ngokuqondile izidakamizwa zokucindezeleka nokuthuthukisa indlela eyodwa yokusiza kwengqondo. Ukucindezeleka akuyona imimoya, kodwa isifo esisibonelo sokuthi isifo se-gastritis noma i-angina sidinga ukwelashwa okuthile. Yingakho ekuvakasheleni umuthi akukho into ehlazozayo.
Kuyasiza ukuqeda imidlalo yokucindezeleka futhi uhamba emoyeni omusha. Ngokusemthethweni, ukucindezeleka ukucindezeleka kugwema umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca umzimba, ngakho-ke isiguli cishe asifuni ukuphuma - ngakho-ke kulokhu kubalulekile ukubeka amandla nokubekezela okukhulu.
Ukuze ususe ubunzima bokuhlangenwe nakho okubi, kubalulekile ukunikeza lo muntu ithuba lokuvula okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ngokomzwelo. Ukusekelwa, ukuzwelana nokufudumala komuntu kungamholela ekutheni uhulumeni ocindezelekile, noma okungenani ukwenza lula ukubonakaliswa kwayo.