Umqondo we-egoism ozwakalayo awuhambisani kahle nomqondo wokuziphatha komphakathi. Sekuyisikhathi eside bekukholelwa ukuthi umuntu kufanele abeke izithakazelo zomphakathi ngaphezu kwezifiso zakhe. Labo abangazange bahambisane nalezi zimo, babikezela ubugovu futhi baphikise ukugxekwa okujwayelekile. I-Psychology ithi inxenye efanele yobugovu kumele ibe khona kuwo wonke umuntu.
Kuyini ukuhlakanipha kobugovu?
Umbono we-egoism ohlakaniphile waba yinto yokutadisha hhayi kuphela izazi ze-psychologists, kodwa ikakhulukazi izazi zefilosofi, futhi ngekhulu le-17, ku-Age of Enlightenment, inkolelo ye-egoism enengqondo yagcina ivela ngekhulu le-19. Kulo, i-egoism eqondakalayo yisimo sokuziphatha nesifilosofi esikhuthaza ukuthanda izinto ezithandwa ngabanye kunoma yimuphi omunye, okungukuthi, okuye kwalahlwa isikhathi eside. Ingabe le mbono iyingxenye yokuphila komphakathi, futhi kufanele iqondwe.
Iyini inkolelo ye-egoism ehlakaniphile?
Imvelaphi yale mbono iwela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kobudlelwano bama-capitalist eYurophu. Ngalesi sikhathi, umqondo wenziwa ukuthi wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuthola inkululeko engenamkhawulo. Emphakathini wezimboni, uba ngumnikazi wabasebenzi bakhe futhi akhe ubuhlobo nomphakathi ozoqondiswa yimibono nemibono yakhe, kufaka phakathi izimali. Inkolelo ye-egoism enengqondo, eyakhiwe abakhanyisa, iqinisekisa ukuthi isimo esinjalo sihambisana nomuntu womuntu okuyiyona into eyinhloko uthando lwakhe kanye nokukhathazeka kokuzigcina.
Ukuziphatha kwe-egoism ecacile
Ekudaleni le mbono, abalobi bayo baqaphele ukuthi umqondo owenziwe yizo zihambisana nemibono yabo yokuziphatha kanye nefilosofi ngale nkinga. Lokhu kwakubaluleke nakakhulu ngoba ukuhlanganiswa kwe-"egoist eqondakalayo" kwakungafaneleki kahle ingxenye yesibili yokwakhiwa, ngoba incazelo ye-egotist yayisho umuntu ozicabangela ngokwakhe futhi ongakhathaleli izithakazelo zemvelo nomphakathi.
Ngokombono we "obaba" we-theory, lokhu okungezelelekayo kwegama, njalo okugqoke uphawu olubi, kufanele kugcizelele isidingo, uma kungenjalo okubaluleke kakhulu kwamanani akho, okungenani, kokulingana kwabo. Kamuva lokhu kukhishwa, okuvumelaniswe nokuqonda "kwansuku zonke," kwaqala ukuchaza umuntu ovumelana nezithakazelo zakhe emphakathini, ngaphandle kokungqubuzana nabo.
Isimiso se-egoism enengqondo ekukhulumisaneni kwebhizinisi
Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukuxhumana kwebhizinisi kukhiwe ngemithetho yayo, okushiwo izinzuzo zomuntu siqu noma ezinkampani. Inikeza isisombululo esinenzuzo ezindabeni ezikuvumela ukuba uthole inzuzo enkulu futhi ubeke ubudlelwane besikhathi eside nabalingani bebhizinisi abusizo kakhulu. Ukukhulumisana okunjalo kunemigomo nemigomo yayo yokuziphatha , eyabumba umphakathi wamabhizinisi futhi ihlukanise izinto eziyisihlanu eziyinhloko:
- i-positivity;
- egoism enengqondo;
- ukubikezela kwezenzo;
- ukungafani kwesimo;
- ukuhambisana.
Ngokuhambisana nombuzo ocatshangelwayo, isimiso se-egoism esilungeleyo sibheka ukunakwa. Kusho isimo sengqondo esenhlonipho kumlingani nombono wakhe, ngenkathi ebeka ngokucacile futhi evikela izithakazelo zabo (noma izinkampani). Isimiso esifanayo singasebenza endaweni yomsebenzi kwanoma isiphi isisebenzi: yenza into yakho ngaphandle kokuphazamisa abanye ukuze wenze okwakho.
Izibonelo zobugovu obufanele
Ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, ukuziphatha "kwe-egoist eqondakalayo" akuvunyelwanga ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kuvame ukushiwo ukuthi i-egoist kuphela. Emphakathini wethu, ukuphika isicelo kubhekwa njengento engcolile, futhi kusukela ebuntwaneni, icala lomuntu oye wavuma ukuthi "inkululeko" yakhelwa. Noma kunjalo, ukwenqaba okusemandleni kungaba yisibonelo esihle sokuziphatha okulungile, okungeke kube okungafani ukufunda. Nazi ezinye izibonelo ze-egoism ecacile ezivela ekuphileni.
- Kubalulekile ukusebenza ngaphezulu . Inhloko iphikelela ukuthi uhlale enkonzweni namhlanje ukuqedela umsebenzi ongenziwanga nguwe, futhi akukhokho okukhokhayo. Ungavuma, ukukhansela izinhlelo kanye nobuhlobo obunobungozi nezihlobo, kodwa uma usebenzise ngokunenzuzo isimiso se-egoism esengqondo, njengoba unqobe umuzwa wokwesaba nokwehluleka, uchazela ngokuthula umphathi ukuthi akukho ndlela yokudlulisa (khansela) izinhlelo zakho. Ezimweni eziningi, izincazelo zakho zizoqondwa futhi zamukeleke.
- Umfazi udinga imali enye ingubo entsha. Kweminye imindeni, sekuyisiko ukuthi umlingani udinga imali ukuthenga ingubo entsha, yize ikamelo ligcwele izingubo. Ukuvimbela akuvunyelwanga ngokwezigaba. Uqala ukusola umyeni wakhe ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ukungabi naluthando, ukukhala izinyembezi, empeleni, ukuthukuthelisa umyeni wakhe. Unganikeza, kepha ingabe lolu luthando, ukubonga ngesigaba sakhe, luyofakwa?
- Umngane omdala uphinde ucele imali . Uthembisa ukuthi uzobuya ngesonto, nakuba eyaziwa ukuthi ngeke abanikeze ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha. Ukwenqaba kuyingozi, kepha ngale ndlela unganciphisa ingane yakho ohambweni oluthenjisiwe esikhungweni sezingane. Yini ebaluleke nakakhulu? Ungabi namahloni noma "ufundise" umngane - akusizi ngalutho, kodwa uchaza ukuthi awukwazi ukushiya ingane ngaphandle kokuphumula, ikakhulukazi ngoba ulinde loluhambo isikhathi eside.
Kungcono ukuchazela umkakhe ukuthi imali ibeke eceleni ekuthengeni injini entsha emotweni lapho umlingani ethatha khona ukuba asebenze nsuku zonke futhi kulokhu kuthenga akusho nje kuphela umsebenzi omuhle wemoto, kodwa futhi impilo nempilo yabagibeli. Kulokhu, izinyembezi, ukukhala kanye nezinsongo zokuya kumama ukuzolalela akudingekile. Ukucabangela ubugovu okucabangelayo kufanele kuphumelele kulokhu.
Izibonelo ezingenhla ziveza izikhundla ezimbili zobuhlobo ezidinga ukulungiswa okuphelele. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu bisekelwe ekuphakameni kwezinto ezidinga noma ezicela futhi ezingenakukhathazeka isimo salowo oceliwe. Nakuba le mbono ikhona iminyaka engaphezu kwamakhulu amabili, ukuqonda okungenangqondo kuqhubeka kunzima ukugxila emphakathini, yingakho izimo ezikhona ziyizi:
- lowo odinga okuthile, ugcizelela, afune, amnyama, amemeza, amangalela ukuhaha;
- lowo okukhulumayo, ulungile, uchaza, uzwa amazwi angathandeki ekhelini lakhe, ezwa icala.
Ubugovu obucabangelayo nezingenangqondo
Ngemuva kokushicilelwa komqondo we-egoism engokwemvelo, umqondo wokuthi "ubugovu" waqala ukubhekwa ngezihumusho ezimbili: okunengqondo nokungenangqondo. Okokuqala kwakucatshangwa ngokuningiliziwe kulo mqondo we-Lighting, kanti lesi sigaba sisaziwa ngokuzibonela kokuphila. Ngamunye wabo uhlala emphakathini wabantu, nakuba ukwakheka kwe-egoism engacabangeli kungenza okuhle kakhulu kumphakathi wonke, kodwa ikakhulu kubantu ngabanye. Ubugovu obungenangqondo buqondakala futhi buvunyelwe ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Kulokhu, kuvame ukutshala futhi kuhlwanyelwe ngenkuthalo, ikakhulukazi ngabazali abanothando, ugogo nomkhulu.