Ukubhapathizwa kwengane yimiyalo

Ubhapathizo ngumzuzwana ophawulekayo empilweni yazo zonke izingane lapho efika ingelosi yakhe yokugcina futhi engena esifubeni sesonto. Abazali abangama-Orthodox bakholelwa ukuthi kusukela manje umntwana uzovikelwa ezilingo zomhlaba nobubi futhi uyohlala ekwazi ukuthola induduzo nokuvikelwa okholweni. Kodwa i-christening yengane inezinqumo zayo, okumele zigcinwe ukuze kwenziwe kahle umkhosi.

Yini okudingeka ukwazi ngokulungiselela ukubhapathizwa?

Ngokwesiko, umntwana ubhapathizwa ngemva kwezinsuku ezingama-40 emva kokubeletha, kepha uma umkhuhlane ezalwa egula noma engakafiki, okungukuthi, kukhona usongo oluthile empilweni yakhe, futhi ubhapathizo lwangaphambili luvunyelwe. Ngemuva kwalokho, emva komkhuba wengane, ngokwemfundiso yesonto, ngemuva kwehlombe elungile kubonakala ingelosi engumlindi, ozomvikela ekuguleni okungokomoya nangokwenyama kulo lonke impilo yakhe. Ngaphambi kokungena ethempelini ukubhapathizwa, abazali kufanele banakekele okulandelayo:

1. Khetha igama lesonto. Esikhathini sethu akudingekile uma umntwana ebizwa ngokuthi yizindawo zokuhlala. Kodwa abaningi bakhetha ukukhetha omunye, hhayi okungajwayelekile, igama ngokuhambisana nemithetho nemikhuba endala ye-christening yengane. Ngesikhathi esidlule bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuzokusiza ekuthembekeni okunye ukuvikela lokho okushiwo yithonya elibi ekufeni kwakhe kwabanye.
2. Khetha ngezintombikazi . Kufanele kube ngamakholwa nabantu abavakashela isonto njalo, ngubani ozokhuleka kuNkulunkulu futhi amfundise okholweni. Ngaphambi komkhosi, kufanele bathole ukuhlanganyela nokuvuma. Abazali bakaNkulunkulu kufanele bakhethwe phakathi kwama-Orthodox futhi babhapathizwe. Imithetho ye-christening yentombazane ithi kufanele ukuthi ibe ne-godmother wesifazane, futhi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa komfana akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komuntu-godfather. Kodwa ukutholakala kwama-godparents of both sexes kuvunyelwe. Ngokwezigaba ngeke bakwazi, ngaphandle kwabakholelwa kuNkulunkulu, izidakamizwa nezidakamizwa, izidakamizwa, abantu abahola ukuziphatha okubi, ukugula ngengqondo, abazali begazi lomntwana noma abantu abashadile. Ukukhetha umama okhulelwe nakho kuvunyelwe.
3. Khetha indawo nesikhathi sokubhapathizwa. Ungabhapathiza imbuzi nganoma yiluphi usuku, ngisho nokuzila noma iholidi. Ngokwesiko lomuntu, lokhu kungcono ngoMgqibelo.
4. Thenga izesekeli ezidingekayo. Umthetho obalulekile we-christening yengane yukuthi ukukhokhwa komkhosi kunikezwe u-godfather. Ubuye uthenge isiphambano, uma unkulunkulu wakhe engowesilisa. Unkulunkulukazi uthola isiphambano. Kungaba kokubili igolide nesiliva. Futhi unina uyala i-kryzhma - isembozo esikhethekile lapho umntwana eboshwe khona ngesikhathi ubhapathizwa, futhi isithonjana egama le-saint - ingcwele yengane yengane.

Umkhosi wobhapathizo ubonakala kanjani?

Ngosuku olubekiwe, onkulunkulukazi kufanele bathathe ingane ngaphambi kwendlu bese bemyisa esontweni, lapho umama wakhe nobaba bayofika khona maduzane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, emva kokungena endaweni yokuhlala ye-godsson, unkulunkulu nomama akufanele bahlale phansi. Ngokuvamile izihlobo nabangane abaseduze abakhona emcimbini. Abesifazane kufanele bagqoke ngendlela efanele: iziketi ezide, ijaji evaliwe, i-headcarf noma i-shawl ekhanda. Ukumisa okukhanyayo kuzobukeka kungalungile. Amadoda nawo ayamukelekile ukuvela ethempelini ngama-shorts noma ama-T-shirt.

Bonke abakhona kumele babe nemiphambano. Uma kukhona owesifazane okhona lapha njalo ngenyanga, abakwazi ukuya emcimbini. Ngemuva kokukrishwa, umpristi usika izinwele ezincane ezivela enhloko yomuntu obhapathiziwe, okuyisibopho sokuzinikezela kuNkulunkulu. Khona-ke uphonsa ingane kathathu efonini bese efaka uchungechunge kuwo, ethi: "Nansi isiphambano sakho, ndodana yami (indodakazi yami), yithwale." Abazali bakaNkulunkulu baphinda baphinde bathi "Amen" kumfundisi.

Imithetho yengane yomntwana uma kwenzeka umfana ehluke kuphela lapho umntwana wesilisa efakwa e-altare ngokuphambene namantombazane. Kukholelwa ukuthi angaba ngumfundisi ongase abe khona. Ngesikhathi umkhuba umfana ephethe unkulunkulukazi ezandleni zakhe, kanti le ntombazane - unkulunkulukazi.