Okusha, hhayi ekugezeni, ifomu elimhlophe, elingenxantathu, lapho umntwana ehlanganiswe khona ngemuva kwefonti lapho ebhapathizwa, kuthiwa i-kryzhma. Lesi sici sithengwa ngunkulunkulukazi. Uthatha u-godson wakhe noma umzukulu wakhe kusukela ezandleni zompristi emva kwefonti bese emnene ngomntwana ekule ndlu.
I-Kryzhma yokubhapathizwa kwengane iwuphawu lokuhlanzwa kwakhe kuzo zonke izono, ngakho-ke lesi sibonakaliso sinikezwa kakhulu emva komkhosi. Ngokwesiko, i-tovas yamukelwa ukuba igcinwe yonke impilo futhi ingabi yageza. I-Kryzhma ibhekwa njenge-amulet, ngakho-ke uma ingane igule, iyimboza ngendwangu noma isebenzise indwangu endaweni embi. Njengomthetho, bagcina i-kryzhma esimweni esikhethekile esenziwe ngendwangu yokotini. Lokhu kuzosiza ukugcina kahle i-tovas, ukuyivikela othulini, iphunga elihlukahlukene, ukubukeka kwamathambo. Nakuba umbono wendlela okufanele uyenze ngayo nephepathi ngemva kokubhapathizwa, ahlukanise. Abanye bathi kumele isetshenziswe kaningi njengamacala okugcoba, ithawula, izingubo zokugqoka noma amashidi wengane. Lokhu kunomphumela omuhle empilweni yengane.
Ngezansi sizocabangela ukuthi hlobo luni lokubhapathizwa.
Yini okufanele ibe yisithuthuthu sokubhapathizwa?
Njengombono, ungasebenzisa i-diaper evamile noma ithawula, ngisho nezingubo. Enkolweni yama-Orthodox, umbala omhlophe uphawu olungenakunyakaziswa lokuhlanzeka, ubumsulwa, ukuthula, ingokomoya, ukukhululwa esonweni. Yingakho isembozo sokubhapathizwa kufanele sibe mhlophe. Sula izidingo zesayizi yendwangu ayikho. Kuxhomeke eneminyaka yengane. Uma usana lubhapathizwa izinyanga ezintathu, khona-ke ubukhulu be-carp bungama-75 kuya ku-75 cm, futhi izingane ezingaphezu kuka-100 cm nge-100 cm zingasondela.
Lezi zinto kufanele zibe zemvelo, zithobe, zithokozise izimbumbulu zomzimba, zithole kahle umswakama. Ngakho-ke kuhle uma kuwukotini, ilineni, ikotini noma indwangu ye-terry. Ku-unina, ukuthola i-kryzhma, umuntu kufanele futhi acabangele isikhathi sonyaka lapho i-christening yenzeka khona. Ngesikhathi sezulu esibanda, kungcono ukukhetha uboya noma i-diaper ebhayisikili elincanyana. Emva kwakho konke, uma ugoqa ingane emgqeni wezemvelo ophansi, uyozizwa ekhululekile, ngakho-ke, uzobe engenangqondo ngesikhathi esifanayo.
Umkhosi wokubhapathizwa uyisenzakalo esibalulekile ekuphileni kwanoma yimuphi umuntu. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukukhetha noma ukuthunga indwangu enhle ye-christening. Ake sicabangele ukuthi indlela ebonakala ngayo ingabonakala kanjani njengokubhapathizwa.
Emathempelini kuvame ukupholisa, kaningi imfanelo ye-christening ikhonjwe nge-hood, elula kakhulu izingane ezincane. Ngokuvamile ihlotshiswe nge-lace, ukufakwa kwe-satin, izibhebhe ezinemibala, i-fringe. Ukubukeka okuhle kakhulu nokuqala kryzhmy okuhlotshiswe kuzo iziqalo noma igama lomntwana, usuku lokubhapathizwa, amagama wabankulunkulukazi. Umshini wokubhapathizwa ungahlotshiswe ngemidwebo yegolide noma yesiliva yesiphambano sama-Orthodox noma esinye isenzo sesonto. Ukukhetha indwangu yesikhanyiso, udinga ukucabangela ukuthi udinga ukuthatha ihembe elihle, elizogqokwa yintsana ngemuva kokubhapathizwa, ama-panties, i-hat, amapini, isikhwama sokukhiya kokuqala, njll.