Ukwazi ukuxhumana ngendlela efanele esontweni, ungahamba ngokuphepha ukuvuma, uhlanze umphefumulo futhi ulahle imicabango ecindezelayo. Konke ukuzisola kungashiywa ngemuva. Ungakwazi ukuzwa amaphiko, futhi unembeza uzocaca hhayi kuphela phambi kukaNkulunkulu, kodwa futhi nabantu abazungezile. Lokhu empeleni kungabizwa ngokuthi umuzwa oyingqayizivele, okufanele ngamunye wethu abe nakho. Ukuze umphefumulo uphulukiswe ohlelweni lokudlulisa lesi sivumo, umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi angavuma kanjani futhi amukele ukuhlanganyela.
Indlela yokwamukela isidlo esingcwele?
Ukuze uthole impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungamukela kanjani uMkhosi Ongcwele okokuqala, okulandelayo kuyadingeka:
- Kufanele kube nokuqaphela ukuthi isenzo sono senziwe, kufanele kube nokuphenduka okuqotho ngobuqotho ezindabeni zomuntu siqu.
- Ukuba khona kwesifiso sokuphakade kushiya isono esiphelele, hhayi ukuphindaphinda ngaso sonke isikhathi empilweni, kufanele kube khonakholo kuNkulunkulu futhi nethemba lokuthi angabonisa umusa ngomusa akwenzayo.
- Sidinga inkolelo eqinile yokuthi ukuvuma okuyimfihlo kubonakala ngokukhona kwamandla okuhlanzwa nokuhoxiswa ngokusebenzisa umthandazo ongcwele nokuvuma izono ngobuqotho.
Ukulungiselela isakramente
Ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuqala komhlangano, okungenani izinsuku ezintathu, kufanele ugcine okuthunyelwe okuthile. Kulo lonke isonto kunconywa ukuthi ufunde ama-akathist ku-Angel of the Guardian, iTheotokos, iNkosi, uma uthanda, ungase ufunde noNicholas uMmangalisa nabanye bonke abangcwele. Ebusuku ngaphambi kokudla, kufanelekile ukuya enkonzweni yasemini, futhi futhi ufunde imithandazo ngaphambi kokuqala kwesigceme esingcwele sokuhlanganyela.
Imithandazo kumele ihlanganise amathoni amathathu (i-Angel of the Guardian, uMama kaNkulunkulu noMsindisi Ophuluzayo), futhi omunye kufanele afunde umkhuleko wephupho elizayo, kanye nomthetho wokubambisana. Konke kuyadingeka ukufunda ngokungazelelwe. Ngosuku loMkhosi, kunconywa ukuthi angaphuzi lutho futhi angadli kuze kube phakathi kwamabili. Kusukela ekuseni, udinga ukuza ethempelini futhi ngesikhathi sokuqala kweLiturgy usondela eNkulumweni Engcwele Yokukhumbula. Ngemuva kokuba iLiturgy igcwaliswe, sidinga ukubonga uNkulunkulu futhi siphumele emhlabeni ukuze siqale ukwenza imisebenzi emihle. Lesi senzo sizosusa futhi sisuse impahla eqoqiwe emphefumulweni.