Uthando luzwa umuzwa omuhle kunabo bonke. Uthando lweqiniso aludingeki ukuba luhlangane, isici salo esiqakathekileko siyisifiso senjabulo kumuntu omthandayo, ngisho nangaphandle kwakho, kodwa nomuntu ozothola ngcono.
Ingabe imicabango enjalo ihola labo abasebenza ngama-lapel futhi bathanda izinhlamvu?
Uma sithandana (kodwa singathandwa), izinqumo zenziwe ngentshiseko. "Ngifuna" yilokho okuqondisa umuntu ohlakaniphile kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele. Izinsizakalo nabalumbi, ukulalela izidingo zamaklayenti anjalo, zama ukuvimbela futhi ukuchaza imiphumela yamaphethelo kanye neyodwa, uma kungumbuzo wendoda ethembekileyo, kodwa ngokuvamile konke kuyize.
Vumela umlingo ngesifiso sakho ukuba ube ndawonye - uzoba yisinyathelo sokugcina. Uthando luzoqina futhi luqotho nakakhulu (okungukuthi, okungabalulekile) uma ulufuna ngobuqotho. Futhi, uma uzimisele, ukuthola "abathandekayo" kunoma yikuphi ukukhokhela, qaphela le ntengo - imiphumela ye-lapel kumkakhe noma intombi, okuhlangene nabo abahambisana nemizwa eqotho.
Imiphumela kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe
Noma yiliphi i-lapel noma i-spell ukucindezelwa kwentando yomuntu, futhi lokhu kufana nokwenza umonakalo wokufa. Ukuvikelwa kwamandla, i-aura, evikela umzimba wethu wenyama, ibhujiswe.
Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umphumela we-lapel kumuntu othandekayo uyoba umonakalo wokufa, kanye nezinye izinto ezimnandi:
- esiteji sokuqala se-lapel noma isipelingi, isisulu sihlale sizwa isidingo semicabango ejulile, i-adrenaline-konke ngenxa yokubhujiswa okubangelwa ukubhujiswa kwemilingo;
- ezinkathini ezisheshayo kukhona ukunganakwa , ukungabi namandla, ukuzithemba - amandla asephelile, i-adrenaline ayizange ibasize, izandla ziyekile;
- ngokuvamile izisulu ziwela ekuphuzeni ukuphuza, ziyizidakamizwa zokugembula, nakuba zingacabangi ngisho nokuzijabulisa okunjalo;
- isimo esibucayi sezezimali, mhlawumbe sokuqedwa;
- umphumela womphumela womyeni ovela kumkakho ukungafaneleki ngokuphelele kwesisulu, izinguquko ezivame ukungabi nabuthakathaka kokuhlukunyezwa;
- izingane, okuthakazelisayo, kanye nomuntu othakazelisayo, aba yizikweleti eziyinhloko zendawo yonke, emva kwakho konke, ngokusho kwemithetho kamarmic, bakhokha izono zabazali babo - izifo eziqhubekayo, ukungathandi ukufunda, ukukhathala ngisho nezingozi ezibulalayo.
Imiphumela yokususa i-lapel nayo izobe ibe kumculi. Uma isisulu sithola umonakalo wezizwe, ikhasimende "lothando" lithola isiqalekiso esijwayelekile kubo bonke inzalo yakhe.
Ngaphambi, "uthenge" uthando, kubalulekile ukujwayela "uhlu lwamanani".