Ukuzalwa kwengane kuyisenzakalo esijabulisayo kubo bonke abesifazane. Indodana ukuqhubeka kohlobo, indlalifa, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ayiphawu lokungathathi hlangothi ekuchazeni amaphupho. Ukuthola ukuthi ikuphi ukulungiswa okukulungiselele, kubalulekile ukucabangela imininingwane eyengeziwe yesiza.
Iyini iphupho lokuzalwa kwendodana?
Iphupho owabeletha ngayo umfana uthembisa ukuthuthukiswa esimweni sakho sezinto ezibonakalayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzozibonakalisa emsebenzini noma uqale ibhizinisi. Uma ubeletha indodana ekhaya, kusho ukuthi injabulo nenhlalakahle kuyobusa emndenini. Iphupho lapho uhlanganyela khona ekuzalweni komfana libikezela ukuthola amarekhodi kumngane omdala.
Ukubona ngephupho ukuzalwa kwendodana komunye owesifazane kusho ukuthi izindaba ezimnandi nemihlangano ejabulisayo ikulindele. Ngentombazane encane, iphupho abeletha kuyo indodana yakhe lizokutshela ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzothola isinqumo somshado. Enye enye incwadi yokuphupha kunolwazi ukuthi indaba enjalo ingase isho ukuthi owesifazane kufanele ahlaziye ukuziphatha kwakhe emphakathini. Uma lo mfana ezalwa egula, kufanele ulungise izinkinga nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene emndenini. Iphupho lapho ubona ukuzalwa kwendodana engafuneki, lifanekisela khona empilweni yangempela yokuhlupheka nokukhathazeka. Uma ungumntwana ephusheni, khona-ke, okwamanje, ubhekene nokukhathala kusuka ekukhuleni. Amaphupho asebusuku lapho indodana ezalwa ekhale khona njalo, iveza izinkinga ezincane, ungakhathazeki, uzobhekana nazo ngokushesha.
Ukubona ukuzalwa kwendodana yakho ekuphusheni kusho ukuthi kufanele ulindele izindaba ezimnandi eziseduze, okungeke zikukhathaze wena kuphela, kodwa futhi uvikele izihlobo nabangane. Enye iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukugcwaliseka kwephupho elibalulekile. Iphupho lapho ubona ukuzalwa kwendodana elithulile lithembisa ukugcwaliseka komcimbi ojabulisayo.