Isikhathi esihle sokuncelisa ibele sasishiywa ngemuva, i-enkulisa ihamba phambili futhi ukungena komntwana empilweni yangempela yabantu abadala. Kodwa kukhona phakathi kwala maqiniso amabili okuphakathi okubamba yonke into. Igama lakhe ibhodlela. Kwabaningi omama abangakaze babone ukudla okunomsoco, inkinga ayibonakali inzima. Phela, kunzima nakakhulu ukususa kusuka esifubeni. Kodwa ukukhipha "soy" othandekayo evela kumntanakho, owathi, isibonelo, uneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-1.5 ubudala, lokhu akuyona into elula ukuyenza. Ungayilahla kanjani ngaphandle kokulimaza ingane yakho?
Ungamuncenga kanjani ingane yakho ebhodleleni?
Iyini ibhodlela lomntwana osondelene ngokufakelwa? Okokuqala, liwuphawu lokuthula nokududuza kwakhe. Ukuvuka ebusuku noma ekuseni ngenkathi umama esalele, angakwazi ukuthola ngokuzithandela "intandokazi" ayithandayo futhi aphinde alele naye. Uma ubisi luphela ngokungazelelwe, ingane isuke efana nengozi. Ngakho-ke, emkhakheni wezingane ezingenasisindo esikhwameni, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane isilungele ngokwengqondo kule nqubo. Njengoba kunikezwa ukuthi impilo yeshefu yamabhodlela ezingane cishe ezinyangeni ezingu-3-4, isikhathi lapho siphela khona, kungase kube kufanelekile ukugcoba kusuka ezingeni eliyigugu. Kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho eminingana:
- ingane kufanele ikwazi ukuphuza isiphuzo nesiphuzo;
- umzuzwana wokugcoba kusuka embongeni akufanele uhambisane nokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo kwengane;
- ingane kufanele ikwazi ukudla ukudla okuqinile kusuka ku-spoon bese ihlala yedwa;
- Ingane kufanele ibe ngaphansi kweminyaka emibili, kungenjalo kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa ne-pacifier.
Odokotela bezingane bayelulekwa ukuba baqale ukuguquka kusuka ebhodleleni kuze kube nokudla okujwayelekile okuvela ezinyangeni ezingaba ngu-9. Uma isikhathi eside abazali bezisola ingane yabo futhi bavumela ukuba bajabulele "i-sauce", izinkinga ezengeziwe zizoletha ingane esikhathini esizayo. Isibonelo, ukusebenzisa isikhathi eside ibhodlela kungaholela ekuthuthukiseni ukulunywa okungalungile kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwe-caries. Isizathu sesibili sesimo sengqondo esibi sokugulisa amabhodlela ukuthi ingane idla ubisi obisi kabili njengoba adinga. Lokhu kuholela ekutheni umzimba uhlangabezana nokubi kakhulu ngokudla okuqinile, futhi ezinye izakhi ezilandelwayo zivele zihlanzwa emzimbeni.
Ngakho-ke, uma ulungele ukwenza izinyathelo eziqinile, yiba nesineke futhi ulandele iseluleko esiwusizo ukuthi ungayisusa kanjani ingane ebhodleleni.
Uma ingane ingakabi nonyaka ubudala:
- Kusukela cishe uhhafu wonyaka, ngesikhathi sesethulo esisebenzayo sokudla okuhambisanayo, ake umntwana azame ukuphuza ekomelweni. Okungenani ama-sips ambalwa ngosuku uzokuvumela ukuba ushintshe ngokuphelele ekuphuzeni kusuka kumug ngezinyanga ezingu-9. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ibhodlela elinama-spoonful liphelele. Kuzovumela umntwana ukuba aqonde ukudla okuqinile futhi maduzane uzofunda ukudla kusuka ku-spoon ejwayelekile.
- Uma ingane ibelethwe kuze kube yizinyanga ezingu-8-9, bese ulinda isifuba, ungamniki ibhodlela, kodwa ngokushesha ufundise ukuphuza ekomelweni.
- Ukuxosha ingane ekomelweni, makangiphuze ngokuqondile ngenkathi egeza. Lapho, ngeke ukhathazeke ngokuthi uzodaka futhi adakwe.
Indlela yokuguqula umntwana osiswini, okungaphezu kwezinyanga ezingu-12:
- Phakathi nesidlo sasemini, ungamniki ingane ibhodlela. Okokuqala, ukusetshenziswa ngobisi ngokweqile noma noma yiluphi uketshezi oluphazamisa isifiso sokudla. Okwesibili, ungayifaka esikhundleni se-ingono ngokuphuza kwendebe.
- Zama ukudlala isimiso "sokudla okungenakudliwa." Isibonelo, engeza usawoti omncane noma amanzi ebisi kusukela ebhodleleni. Futhi uthele indebe yobisi evamile. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane izoqonda ukuthi kuyamnandi kakhulu ukuphuza indebe bese ushiya ibhodlela
- Abazali abanabantwana abangaphezu kweminyaka yobudala bombuzo wokuqeda ingono kuyinkinga kakhulu. Amantombazane anamathele ebhodleleni, futhi ukugaya kunzima kakhulu futhi kunzima. Kulesi simo, izindlela zesinyathelo ngesinyathelo ngeke zisebenze, ngakho zama ezinye izinketho ezimbalwa:
- uma ingane isivele iseneminyaka emibili ubudala, kufanelekile ukuyichazela ukuthi usevele ukhulu futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlukana nebhokisi. Phakamisa umdlalo wezinyane: isonto ngaphambi kokuhlukaniswa kuqala ukukulungisela lo mcimbi. Ngokuvamile masiphuze emgodini. Phakamisa ukuthi ukhetha ikhamera egqamile futhi enhle kakhulu. Ukuze ungabi nesithukuthezi ngaphandle kokuthi "uncel" umntwana anganikezwa ukumbumbulula ithoyizi yakho oyintandokazi. Ngosuku lwe-X udinga ukususa wonke amabhodlela bese ubonisa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhlala ngaphandle kwabo.
Mvuzo futhi ukhuthaze umntwana uma echitha usuku lonke ngaphandle kwebhola ngaphandle kwamahlaya; - Indlela enhle yokondla ingane kusuka embongeni ngaphandle kwezinyembezi ukukhawulela "iholide leholide". Ungayilungiselela, isibonelo, ngokuvakashela abangane abanesana. Ukuhlobisa ibhodlela ngamaphethelo namadroni bese uchazela umntwana ukuthi manje kubaluleke kakhulu "uLali". Vumela ingane yakho iveze ngokugcwele "lyale" leli bhodlela. Qinisekisa ukumdumisa ngokuba ngumdala, futhi ungumfana omkhulu, ukuthi wenza isipho esinjalo. I-kid izoziqhenya ngesenzo sakhe futhi ingono izoyeka ukuba yithakazelo kuye.
Ukuze uphelele ingane ngokungenabuhlungu ebhodleleni elithandwayo, akudingeki nje uhlushwe ingqondo yakhe futhi uhlupheke kuyo, kodwa futhi unikeza izibonelo ezifanele. Ungaphuzi amabhodlela kusukela emntwaneni, ngoba ngaphezu kwengxenye yezenzo zakhe azenzayo, ukukopisha abazali bakhe. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi kulula kangakanani futhi okumnandi ukuphuza ekomelweni. Khona-ke ukugcoba kusukela ku-ingono, esikhundleni sezinhlekelele, kuyoba isigaba esibalulekile futhi esinomthwalo wokukhula.