Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4

Uma ingxenye yokuqala yokuphila kwengane ishiywe ngemuva, umama onothando uyakhathazeka, okokuqala, ukuthi yini okufanele ingane ikwazi ukuyenza ezinyangeni ezingu-4 nokuthi ngabe ukuthuthukiswa kwayo kuvamile noma cha. Phela, izinguquko, zomzimba nezingokwengqondo, ziyabonakala. Amaphesenti omzimba wengane asondela eduze komuntu omdala, futhi yena uthanda kakhulu umhlaba owamzungezile futhi ubonisa amakhono akhethekile olwazini lwakhe.

Yini ingane engayithola ezinyangeni ezingu-4?

I-crumb kule minyaka ingamangala abazali ngokuthuthuka okuphawulekayo emakhono nasemikhuba yabo. Masifunde ngokuningiliziwe:

1. Izinsana seziqedile ukuqedwa kokucatshangelwa kokuzibandakanya, ngakho manje ubamba isibhamu kuphela lapho efuna ukubamba okuthile esibambini. Lesi yisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela ingane ifunda ukuxhumanisa ukunyakaza futhi, ngokwayo, ilawula umzimba wayo. Lelikhono lenziwa ngokuthuthukiswa kancane kancane kwesimiso sezinzwa.
2. Amakhono ayisisekelo wengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 afaka isifiso hhayi nje ukuthi uthathe into oyithandayo, kodwa futhi uyibheke ngokucophelela, uyiguqule, uyithumele emlonyeni. I-kid ingase izwe imininingwane yethinethi, iyigwede, ibambe ezindaweni ezikhuni, kodwa, kodwa, hhayi isikhathi eside kakhulu: lokhu kuwumsebenzi onzima wangempela womzimba wengane yakho ngaleso sikhathi.
3. Amabele afunda ukuziphendulela, hhayi kuphela kusukela emuva kuya esiswini, kodwa futhi emuva. Lokhu kungenye yezimiso eziyisisekelo zokuthuthukiswa kwengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingozi yendodana noma indodakazi ewela kwi-swaddler noma i-sofa yanda kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukugwema ukulimala nokuvuthwa, ngokuvamile ubeka umntwana phansi: maduzane isikhathi sizofika lapho ezofunda khona ukuthola izinto ezithakazelisayo ngosizo lwezikhalo eziningana.
4. Kakade izinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ingane ihlale, uqala ukulungiselela lesi sigaba esibalulekile empilweni yakhe. Lapho eneminyaka eyizinyanga ezine uzama ukuphakamisa amahlombe akhe ahambe kancane, njengokungathi uzama ukuhlala phansi. Kodwa umuntu akufanele atshale ngokukhethekile ingane yakhe: imisipha yakhe namathambo ayengakalungeli ngalokhu.
5. Ukucabangela lokho ingane okufanele yenze ezinyangeni ezingu-4, phawula ukuthi intuthuko yakhe manje ihlose ukulungiselela ukukhasa. Ngakho-ke, lapho elala embhedeni, uzama ukuphakamisa imbongolo bese ekhumula imilenze. Khuthaza leli khono kungaba, uma usakaze ngaphambi komcwaningi omusha odlala amathoyizi ambala, azozama ukuwafinyelela.
6. Umntanakho uqala ukubuka nokuzwa. Manje uyakwazi ukuhlukanisa ngokucacile izinto ezisemkhatsini wamamitha angu-3-3.5 futhi uhlolisise isimo segumbi noma izwe elizungezile ngokuhamba. Ukuzwa kubuye kuthuthukiswe: ingane ihlukanisa imisindo ezwakalayo, ikakhulukazi izwi lomama, iqonda imisindo yabo engokomzwelo.
7. Kusukela kulokho ingane engayenza ezinyangeni ezingu-4, abazali bayohlatshwa umxhwele ngokukhulumisana kwakhe. Phela, wayefunde ukulingisa abantu abadala futhi babika ama-syllables alula njengokuthi "ba", "ma", "pa". Futhi, le ntombazanyana ihamba ngenkuthalo, ikhuluma kabi futhi ivame ukumomotheka kumama wayo, iphakamisa ukuthi ingena enkulumweni yenkulumo.
8. Amakhono kanye namakhono omphakathi wengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 ahlaselwa ngokumangalisayo. Uvele ehlukanisa ngokucacile abantu abakuzungezile ukuba babe "ngabakhe" futhi "abangabazi", besabela kulabo abakuqala ngokukhala nokukhathazeka. Esigabeni "seyabo" ngokuvamile bawela kulabo abantwana ababona nsuku zonke noma okungenani zonke ezinye izinsuku, ngoba inkumbulo yesikhathi eside ayikho kahle kakhulu. Ngokuqondene nezihlobo, ingane ibonisa inhlalakahle emangalisayo, iyabathandeka ngokumomotheka, ukuhleka nokuhleka kwemisindo ehlukahlukene.