Uma ubhekene nombuzo wokuthi ungahlela kanjani umshado ngokungabizi kahle, impendulo ibonakala iyabonakala: kulokhu, kungcono ukulungiselela umshado ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa izinhlangano ezihlukahlukene zeholidini.
Indlela yokuhlela umshado?
Unqume ukuhlela umshado ngokwakho, kodwa ungazi ukuthi ungaqala kuphi? Sebenzisa ngokuncomeka amathiphu ethu, mhlawumbe bayokusiza ukuba ugxile ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu, futhi ungashiyi amaphuzu abalulekile angalindelwe. Lungiselela incwadi enhle ehlanzekile bese uhlala phansi nomuntu okhethiweyo okhethekile ukuxoxa ngomshado. Ukuze uhlele umshado kumunye, yiqiniso, awusebenzi - okungenani, udinga ukuxoxisana konke nomphefumulo wakho womuntu, futhi futhi, kuzodingeka ukhange usizo lwabangani. Ngakho-ke, masihambe.
Okokuqala, cabanga ukuthi uzimisele kangakanani ukuchitha emcimbini womshado futhi ukwandise cishe kabili. Njengoba umshado ubiza kakhulu, kodwa umcimbi oqhakazile. Hlola ukuthi ngabe lokhu kuyoba umkhosi omnandi nenani elikhulu lezivakashi, kuhlanganise nezihlobo ezide kakhulu namantombazane abangabangani bomkhwenyana. Noma unquma ukwenza iholide ngokuzenzekelayo futhi uhlanganyele nabantu abaseduze nawe. Manje, imibhangqwana eminingi isuke ishiya isihlengo sendabuko emnyango womlobokazi enomncintiswano ofanayo kanye nokuyifaka esikhundleni sokubheka isithombe esihle, esiphezulu sesithombe emgwaqweni, emgodini noma ekamelweni lehhotela, bese uya ehhovisi lokubhalisa, lapho wonke umuntu efika ehalalisela labo abasanda kushada.
Siphakamisa ukuthi ucabangele izinketho ezimbili ngosuku lomkhosi. Ngokusekelwe kulabo abakhethiwe, ungakwazi ukuhamba ezintweni ezincane ezidingekayo bese ucabangela wonke amaphuzu abaluleke kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, ngemuva kokunquma isakhiwo nesitayela somshado, udinga ukuthumela izimemo kuzivakashi zakho. Ungazenza, uzihlobise kahle ngemidwebo, izinwele, ubuhlalu, izibambo ze-satin, amagobolondo, i-lace. Uma umkhosi ubonisa lokhu, faka ikhodi yokugqoka.
Iholide lamabili
Okukhethwa kukho kuqala ngumkhosi kabili. Uma ufuna lolu suku ukuba lube lenu, hhayi iholidi lezivakashi eziningi, kungani ungahle uhlele "uthando" lwamabili? Khona-ke ungakwazi kalula ukuhlela umshado ngokwakho. Ngeholide elikhunjulwayo, wena-ke, uzodinga izingubo zomshado. Futhi, cabangela ukuthi yisiphi isitayela abayokwenziwa futhi balungiselele izesekeli ezivumelanisiwe. Khetha i-photographer omuhle futhi wenze isithombe sokuhlola kwesilingo ngesitayela se-"lover stori".
Kuyoba kuhle uma usasebenzisa izinsizakalo ze-videographer ukurekhoda ngomcimbi ongakhohlwa kuze kube phakade oshicilelwe kwimemori yakho. Ungenza iseshini yesithombe ngosuku lokubhalisa uphinde udubule ividiyo. Sebenzisa izimfanelo ezithakazelisayo nama-photobuttons. Ngemuva kokuthi usuqedile ukudutshulwa, ungaya kubhalisi, lapho izivakashi ezifisa ukukuhalalisela ngalesi senzakalo esimangalisayo sezizoqoqa. Yiqiniso, kuyadingeka ukuthatha ukubhaliswa ngenkumbulo. Kusihlwa, ungabutha nabangane abathandekayo nabalingane kakhulu ekudleni bese ujubha iholide lakho kumbuthano omncane.
Umshado wendabuko
Okukhethwa kwesibili yikhosi lomshado eliyingqayizivele. Ekuseni ungahlela ngeyakho