Izimpawu zikaKhisimusi ezimweni eziningi zihlale zigcwaliseka, yingakho ziphathwa ngokukhethekile.
Owesishiyagalolunye kaJanuwari - usuku lapho uKristu ezalwa khona, ikakhulukazi amantombazane amasha angashadile, ngoba uKhisimusi yiholide egcwele izibonakaliso zothando. Ngakho-ke, ngalolu suku, labo abangashadile futhi ngokushesha baphupha ukuhlangana nengxenye yabo, abazange baqubude phansi futhi abazange basuse udoti ngaphandle kwendlu ukuze bangesabi umyeni.
Kwakubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi amantombazane agqoke futhi alungiselele umhlangano kaKhisimusi ngaphambi kokuba kuhlwe. Lokhu kuhilelekile kokubili abantu abashadile nabakhululekile. Kwacatshangwa ukuthi labo abangayigcini lesi siko bazojeziswa: abayeni babo ngeke bathande omkabo, futhi abesifazane abangashadile ngeke bakwazi ukuthola umyeni ofanelekayo.
Izimpawu zikaKhisimusi zothando
Ukuze uthole ukuthi ngabe lo nyaka intombazanyana izokwazi yini ukushada, kwakudingeka idle i-apula bese ibala inani lezinhlamvu kulo. Inombolo ngisho neyethembiso yomshado wokuqala, futhi imingcele engavamile yokuba nesizungu. Uma inani lembewu lingaphezu kweyisithupha, umshado uzoba yimpumelelo kakhulu, isikhathi eside futhi ujabule.
Izimpawu zikaKhisimusi zothando, zigcwaliseka ngokunemba:
- Uma umndeni uhlala phansi ukuze uthole isidlo sakusihlwa, ama-bachelors noma amantombazane mahhala kudingeka alume, kodwa angadli, amanye amaphuphu aphilile. Ngemva kwalokho, phuma uphinde ulalele izingxoxo zabadlula-kuze kube yilapho igama lizwakala. Kukholelwa ukuthi yilokho okuzobizwa ngokuthi umfazi noma umfazi wesikhathi esizayo.
- Ngaphambi kokudla kukaKhisimusi kufanele kuthathe izintambo ezintathu, zidwetshwe ngokuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, obomvu nokuhlaza bese zifaka emkhunjini. Ngemuva kokudla, khipha utshani olulodwa. Ngombala walo, thola ukuthi yini ezoba yesikhathi esizayo esiseduze. Blue - elinde umshado unyaka owodwa, eluhlaza - maduze ukushada nokubomvu - ukufa yedwa.
Izimpawu nezinkolelo zikaKhisimusi ngothando:
- uma ngoKhisimusi ekuseni indoda engaziwa ingena endlini kuqala, khona-ke owesifazane okhululekile uzoshada ngokushesha;
- Intombazane kufanele ibambe inyoni ngoKhisimusi, bese uyiphonsa. Ukuqhubeka nokubuka ukuthi yikuphi ukuqondisa okuzohamba khona, ukusuka lapho futhi kufike oqeqeshwe;
- uma intombazane ithola izicathulo njengesethulo - maduzane uzothola umyeni wakhe, imali - umyeni wakhe uyoba ocebile kakhulu, futhi lelo thiki lalibhekwa njengophawu lokuthi owesifazane uzobe esebeletha ingane ngokushesha.