Ngokuvamile ngamaphupho umuntu angabona okujwayelekile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezimangalisayo. Into ngayinye ebonwe, isenzo noma umcimbi ungathwala ulwazi oluthile oluthile olwenza izincwadi zokuphupha zifunde. Ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa ukuhlongozwa okuhlongozwayo, kufanelekile ukuzama, ngangokunokwenzeka ukukhumbula ngemininingwane ebalulekile imininingwane.
Kungani ukukhulelwa komngane?
Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa ukuthi empilweni yangempela, intombazane ivame ukuvezwa yithonya lomunye umuntu. Lokhu kungaba, njengezincomo zabazali, nombono womphakathi. Noma kunjalo iphupho elifanayo lingabonakalisa imibono yakho ehlanganyelwe, futhi, njengokuncane, isibonelo, ukuya esitolo sokudlela, ne-global - ibhizinisi elihlangene. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha inikeza incazelo ehlukile, futhi amaphupho asuku zonke e-intombi ekhulelwe ahlobene nokuvela kwezinkinga zempilo. Ngokuyinhloko, iphupho lapho intombazane ekhulelwe ebonayo kwakungafanele ihlotshaniswe nokuzalwa kwengane empilweni yangempela.
Ukubona isakhiwo esifanayo ephusheni kusho ukuthi intombi ikulindele inkinga ekuphileni kwayo. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, singangena esimweni esihlazo, esizokwenza ukuba kuvele izinkinga eziningi. Iphupho mayelana nokukhulelwa kwentombi ingabhekwa njengesixwayiso sokuthi izinkinga ezincane zilindele intombazane ngaphambi kwakhe. Esimweni esinjalo, lo mphupho, njengokungathi, isithunywa okufanele sidlulisele ulwazi olubalulekile. Uma le ntombazane ikhulelwe empilweni yangempela, ukulala okufanekisayo kubumnyama kakhulu. Kubantu abazalelwe ngesikhathi sasehlobo sasebusika, ukulala, lapho intombazane ikhulelwe khona, kubangela izingxabano nezinhlobo ezahlukene zenkinga. Uma uzalwa entwasahlobo noma ehlobo, lo mbono ebusuku ungachazwa,
Ukuze indoda ibone intombazane ekhulelwe ephusheni, khona-ke umuntu ozayo kufanele alindele impumelelo ebhizinisini nasenzuzo, futhi lokhu kuyoba kuye, ngokungalindelekile. Umhumushi wephupho uyancoma ngokucophelela ukusabalalisa izindleko zakhe hhayi ukulahlekelwa imali. Ngisho namalungu obulili obunamandla, iphupho elinjalo lingathathwa njengesixwayiso sokukhwabanisa, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngendoda eshadile, lo mbono ebusuku ubonisa isifo somlingani.
Uma le ntombazane iphupha ukuthi intombazane ikhulelwe - lokhu kuyisimo sezinguquko ezijabulisayo empilweni. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze umuntu angalindela ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso, impumelelo othandweni nasemsebenzini.