Usuku lokubeletha lungowona othandekayo kakhulu, ngoba abaningi balinde isikhathi eside, abanye, iholidi elibuhlungu. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, yilolu suku kuphela amagama onke afudumele azinikezele kuwe. Ukugubha lo mcimbi wamukelwa cishe kuwo wonke amasiko kanye nalesi siko kwamakhulu eminyaka. Kodwa-ke, kunezibonakaliso eziningi ezihambisana nomkhosi wokuzalwa, kanti omunye wabo uthi uma ugubha usuku lokuzalwa lweshumi nantathu, ungazibiza wena kanye nenhlekelele embi yomndeni wakho.
Kungani ungagubhi iminyaka engu-13?
Abantu benkolelo-ze bakholelwa ukuthi lolu suku alukwazi ukugubha, ngoba uma okhokho bethu besaba le nombolo, kusho ukuthi kunezizathu. Eqinisweni, abathandabuzayo ngokuphambene nalokho, bakholelwa ukuthi kulokhu akukho lutho olungavamile. Mhlawumbe, ngeke kuphele izingxabano mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukugubha iminyaka engu-13 noma cha.
Kunezizathu eziningana ezingasitshela ukuthi kungani ungakwazi ukugubha iminyaka engu-13:
- Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, inombolo ye-13 (ishumi nambili) ibhekwa njengophawu lomonakalo, ukuheha imimoya emibi, ehambisa abantu izinkinga ezinkulu, izingozi nezinkinga.
- Izinkolelo eziningi zithi umphefumulo womuntu ngosuku lokuzalwa kwezinsuku eziyishumi nantathu uwubuthakathaka futhi unobungozi kakhulu, okusho ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuqalekisa nokufisa kulolo suku kwaba yizici futhi kwagcwaliseka.
- Ezinye izazi zikholelwa ukuthi ngosuku lweshumi nesishiyagalolunye izenzakalo zeBhayibheli ezithandeka kakhulu zenzeka, ngenkathi uKayini ambulala umfowabo u-Abela, futhi lapho bebethela uJesu.
Zonke lezi zizathu ezivela esigabeni sezinkolelo-ze, kodwa incazelo enengqondo, kungani ungakwazi ukugubha iminyaka engu-13, engekho. Ngakho-ke, uma ungakholelwa ezinkolelweni, ungavumela ingane yakho ukuba igubhe iminyaka engu-13, nje ungaqoqi izinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo, ubukele i-oda phakathi kwezingane futhi, yiqiniso, ungavumeli utshwala. Khona-ke umkhosi uzodlula ngokuthula futhi ngenjabulo.