Ngegama elithi "izintambo" lihlotshaniswa nezinhlangano ezingathandeki kakhulu, namaphupho abonakala kuzo, kubangela umuzwa wokuzihlambalaza. Ukuze uchaze kahle iphupho elinjalo, udinga ukucabangela ezinye imininingwane zesakhiwo, isibonelo, izenzo zakho, lapho kwakukhona khona ama-nits, njll.
Kungani unayo izitshalo?
Iphupho elinjalo libhekisela ezibonisweni ezinhle futhi lifanekisela izenzakalo ezijabulisayo kakhulu. Izincwadi eziningi zokuphupha zithatha isakhiwo esinjalo njengesibonakaliso somcebo. Ukulala, lapho izimbongolo zazizinwele zakho, ubikezela ukuthi uthola isipho somsebenzi, oye waphupha ngaso isikhathi eside. Futhi ungaba nokwanda kweholo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungathenga into ephunduwe isikhathi eside. Uma uzama ukuhlanganisa izintambo, ke, maduzane ungalindela ukuthola inzuzo enkulu. Enye iphupho elinjalo lingase liwuphawu lokukhululwa ezinkingeni zezwe. Enye enye incwadi yokuphupha, umbono obanjwe ebusuku ubethembisa ukubonakala kwamaphuzu amancane okuzoqinisa uhlamvu .
Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi iphupho lapho izintambo zazikhona ekhanda, lithembisa izinkinga ezahlukene nokuxabana. Uma ubona ama-nits, uzizwa unengekile-lokhu kungase kubhekane nokugula okungathí sina. Umbono ebusuku, lapho ubona khona amantongomane embhedeni wakho, uprofetha usuku lomshado esimweni esimnandi. Ukuze ubone izindwangu ephusheni kusho ukuthi empilweni eseduze kukhona abantu abangathandeki. Ukuqeda izinyosi ephusheni kuyisixwayiso ukuthi uma uzama ukuthuthukisa isimo sakho sezezimali, uzozisola kakhulu.
Kuyini ukuthi amaphupho afaka ukucindezela kumakhi?
Iphupho elinjalo likhombisa ukunyakaza okuqotho ekufezeni umgomo walo. Uma kwakufanele ucindezele ama-nits ephusheni komunye umuntu, khona-ke isimo sakho sezezimali nokuphumelela empilweni kuzoxhomeka ngqo kwabanye abantu, isibonelo, kungaba umphathi emsebenzini noma izihlobo. Futhi iphupho elifanayo liyisibonakaliso sokuqeda izifo eziphuthumayo nezikhona. Ukubulala izintambo ephusheni, khona-ke, maduzane uzothola izindaba ezingalindelekile, okuzobe kuhle kuwe. Uma uhlanza izinwele zezilwane - kuyisimo sezinkinga zokuphila ezihle. Ama-dream nits, ofuna ukuwabamba, kusho ukuthi ngokuvamile ungafanelekile uziphathe kubantu abakuzungezile. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha, iphupho elinjalo libhekwa njengophawu lokulindela okungenakwenzeka.