Inkathi yenkathi yobusha inzima kakhulu kumntwana. Kunezinkinga eziningi ekuziqondeni ngokwakho, ukuxhumana nabangane bakho nabantu abadala. Umntwana owaziwa ngokuziqonda njengomuntu, ngandlela-thile uyaqonda ukuthi akasasencane, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, akavumeli konke abantu abadala abakwenzayo.
Ukuncintisana nalesi sigaba yiluhlobo lokuqala lokuthandana, okungajwayelekile. Intsha ithola kunzima ukuveza imizwa noma ngokungafani - abazi ukuthi ingabalawula kanjani. Ngenxa yalokho, bangakwazi ukuvalelwa ngaphakathi kwabo, noma benze izenzo ezishukumisayo, inselele umphakathi ongaqondakali futhi baziqaphele.
Ukuze ungabhubhisi ingane ukuba yenze izinto ezinzima, msize ukuba anqobe le nkathi enzima yokukhula, kuyadingeka ukuqhuba imidlalo yengqondo yabantwana besikole. Bazosiza ekususeni ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo kwentsha, bafunde ukuveza kahle imizwa yabo nemizwelo yabo, bakhulume umbono wabo kwabanye.
Imidlalo yokuzivocavoca kanye nokuzivocavoca kufanele iqhutshwe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esikoleni, mhlawumbe kanye ngenyanga. Ngemuva kokuhlaziywa kwemidlalo yengqondo, izingane ezidinga ukuqeqeshwa ngabanye zikhethwa.
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Imidlalo yengqondo yokubumbana
«Ukhiye weMicrosoft»
Udinga ukuthatha ukhiye ojwayelekile bese ubopha ekugcineni kwendophi ende kakhulu. Izingane ziba ngumbuthano bese zidlulisa ukhiye ngendophi ngezingubo eziphezulu (zigijima entanyeni ye sweatshirt futhi zilula ngaphesheya). Ngakho, bonke bahlanganiswe.
Umgqugquzeli unikeza imiyalo yokuthi bonke kufanele benze kanyekanye - ukugxuma, ukugubha, ukuxubha, njll.
Ngemuva kwemizwelo yabathintekayo ngokubonakalayo kuthuthuka, kubalulekile ukuphulula eyodwa.
Ngemuva kokuthi ungafaka isikhiye endaweni evelele ekilasini, ngokubhalwe "isihluthulelo esasivulwa komunye nomunye."
Imidlalo yengqondo yokuxhumana
"Khuluma noma wenze (ukuhluka kwe" ibhodlela ")"
Izingane zihlala embuthanweni, phakathi ubeka ibhodlela. Ngosizo lokukhishwa, umhlanganyeli wokuqala, ophendulela ibhodlela, ukhethwe. Ubuza noma yikuphi umbuzo oboniswe intamo ibhodlela. Kumele aphendule lo mbuzo ngokweqiniso noma enze umsebenzi obelwe umhlanganyeli wokuqala. Intshisekelo ukuthi umhlanganyeli akazi umbuzo noma umsebenzi. Okokuqala udinga ukuthi: "Khuluma noma wenze."
Uma umhlanganyeli, emva kokuzwa lo mbuzo, akafuni ukumphendula, khona-ke unikezwa imisebenzi emibili noma aqedwe (ayinconywa).
Amageyimu wokudlala asebenza kwengqondo
"Ingxoxo"
Kusuka eqenjini khetha abantu abahlanu. Banikezwa amakhadi ngendlela yokuziphatha komuntu kanye nencazelo yokuthi uziphatha kanjani. Bahlala ngokumelene nabo bonke abanye.
Isihloko sezingxoxo sikhethiwe:
- kungani intsha ilala ocansini?
- kungani sidinga imfundo ephakeme?
- yiyiphi indoda noma owesifazane oyinduna kakhulu?
- Uthando ekuboneni kuqala?
- kungani bengasivumeli ukuba siye kuma-night discos?
Isihloko singaba yilokho, izingane zingakhetha umbuzo abathandayo noma zinikeze uhlu lwezinkinga zendaba.
Emakhadini, abahlanganyeli abahlanu kufanele basho okulandelayo:
- Ikhadi lokuqala ngumhleli. Lo muntu ubuza umbono womhlanganyeli ngamunye futhi uzama ukuthola iziphetho kulokho okushiwo, ecabangela umbono wakhe. Ukhuluma wonke umuntu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukhuluma nabanye abahlanganyeli.
- Ikhadi lesibili liyingxabano. Uhlala ephikisana nalowo wonke umuntu ocela kuye noma oveza noma yikuphi umbono.
- Ikhadi lesithathu yilokuqala. Uveza imibono nezixazululo ezingalindelekile kule nkinga. Ngezinye izikhathi kungaba khona
kuqondakala kuye kuphela. Akusebenzi kakhulu, kusho lokho acabanga ngakho izikhathi ezine kuwo wonke umdlalo. - Ikhadi lesine lidla. Ivumelana nakho konke, ukuvumela wonke umuntu, kuphela ukuze angangeni ekuxabaneni nanoma ubani.
- Ikhadi lesihlanu liyaxhuma. Ukuzama kakhulu nokuzama ngobuqotho ukugqugquzela wonke umuntu ekuboneni kwakhe, kuvame ukuphazamisa labo ababambiqhaza abangavumelani nabo.
Khetha imidlalo enhle kakhulu yengqondo yabaselula, bese uzobasiza ukuthi baxazulule izinkinga eziningi zansuku zonke nezomuntu siqu.