Iminyaka yobudala kubafana

Iminyaka yesikhashana kuyisivivinyo esiyinkimbinkimbi kubantwana nabazali. Lezi zikhumbuzo zikhumbula ngokudabuka okukhulu izinsuku lapho amehlo abo emangalisa egcwele injabulo futhi ephazamiseka, futhi angaphinde amjabulise ingane yabo esekhulile kakade. Ngempela, i-psychology of adolescence, kokubili kubafana namantombazane, injalo ukuthi abantu abadala kufanele babhekane nezinselele ezingokomzwelo zomntwana futhi benze konke okusemandleni ukuze bathole indlela, ukuze bangabi namandla ekulawuleni inzalo "ezimele". Yiqiniso, abadala kufanele babe nesineke, futhi ngesithunzi ukuze basinde kulezi zinkinga zesikhashana. Phela, ezimweni eziningi, lapho iminyaka yobudala yabafana iphela, bayaziqhenya ngokuqaphela ukuthi bakhulela indoda yangempela.

Psychology of adolescence in abafana

Ukuhlukunyezwa komndeni nokungaqondi kahle kuye kwaba umkhuba, ingane iyalalela ukulalela iseluleko nezidingo, inganaki izifundo - lokhu kusho ukuthi wangena esigabeni sokukhulelwa okujulile . Ngakho kungokwemvelo ukuthi iminyaka esemusha kubafana ibhekene nezinkinga eziningi. Ngokuvamile abangane beqiniso bale nkathi ba:

• ukuxabana;
• umuzwa ojulile wedwa nesizungu kwabanye;
• ukuzethemba okuphansi;
• ukungathandi ukucabanga ngemibono yabantu abadala;
• ukuvela kobudlova ekuphenduleni ukugxekwa nokulawulwa;
• inkani yokubonisa;
• ukuhlaziywa kwamagugu nezinto eziza kuqala: ukubaluleka kokukhula kuyatholakala ngokuhlobana phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana, futhi ubungane nabangane bakho buya phambili;
• intshisekelo yokufunda iyanyamalala.

Yiqiniso, lezi zici ezingenhla zivamile, futhi intsha ngayinye ibonakala ngezdijithali ezihlukahlukene ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kodwa kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi izinkinga eziningi ezijwayelekile zentsha zingagwenywa uma abazali bekwazi ukusungula kusengaphambili nendodana yabo enobungane ubudlelwane bokuthembela futhi ngokuziphatha kahle, ngokuya ngesimo.

Iminyaka yobudala kubafana - lokhu kungakanani iminyaka?

Izazi zengqondo azikhuthazi, ziphendula umbuzo wokuthi iminyaka engakanani eminyakeni yobudala ihlala kubafana yisikhathi eside. Izinguquko zokuqala ezingokwenyama nezingokwengqondo abantu abadala bangaqaphela, ngokushesha nje lapho ingane yabo iphenduka iminyaka engu-10 ubudala, futhi iminyaka engu-17 nje kuphela ingacatshangwa ukuthi inkinga yokuguquka kwesikhathi idlulile. Isikhathi somzwelo kunazo zonke yisikhathi esiphakathi kweminyaka engu-12 kuya kwengu-14.