Wakhula ingane enhle futhi ethule, kodwa ngolunye usuku konke kwashintsha. Uzama ukugxeka, ukuphuza, futhi ngezinye izikhathi angene empini. Ukubonakaliswa kobudlova ezincane kungatholakala ngokoqobo kuwo wonke umndeni wanamuhla. Kodwa akuwona wonke umzali owaziyo ukuvimbela ingane yakhe futhi aqondise amandla akhe amabi abe ngumzila onokuthula.
Izimbangela zokuhlukunyezwa ezinganeni
Iminyaka yobudala ayiyona into evame ukubizwa ngokuthi yesikhashana. Lesi yisikhathi sokunqoba ubuntwana futhi sikhule umuntu njengomuntu. Futhi akuzona zonke lezi zimetramorphose ezihamba kahle. Kuncike emvelweni, ukukhulisa kanye nobuhlobo bomndeni, ukuhlukunyezwa ezinganeni nasebancane kungathatha izinhlobo ezahlukene:
- ukuhlambalaza: noma yiliphi igama, elikhulunywe ngaphandle kwendawo, lingabangela ukucasuka okufihlekile. Futhi hhayi kuphela kubantu abadala, kodwa kubontanga babo;
- ukucasula: enye yezinkomba ezithinta kakhulu zesikhathi esiphezulu. Uvezwe ngokunyanyisa nangokushesha nganoma yisiphi isizathu;
- ukusola: esiteshini esithile sokuguquka, noma yimuphi umfana oseka ukwethemba izwe langaphandle, ekholelwa ukuthi "wonke umuntu uyamelana naye";
- ukuhlukumeza okulandelayo: zonke izicelo ezizwakalayo ekhelini lezingane zinganakwa noma zenza izenzo ezihambisane nalabo abazwakalayo;
- ukuhlukumeza okungaqondile: intsha iqondisa ukucasula umuntu othile, ukuyiveza ngendlela yokuhleka, ukuhlambalaza, amahlaya amabi;
- ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba: ukusetshenziswa kwamandla okulwa nabantu;
- Ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi: ezinganeni, zibonakalisa ngendlela yokugeleza okungahambi kahle - ukukhala, izinsongo namagama. Kuyinto evamile kunazo zonke esikhathini sokuguquka.
Ukuhlukumezeka phakathi kwentsha kuyisici esingenakuphepha. Ngisho noma leyo nzalo ithole ukunakwa okuningi futhi ifundiswe kahle ngaphambi kokuguqulwa, asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi ngeke ishintshe uma sifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala ka-12-13. Ngakho-ke, ukuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantwana kufanele kwenziwe emndenini ngamunye.
Ukulungisa ukuhlukunyezwa kwabaselula
Ngeshwa, ukutholakala kobudlova kwabaselula akukhona njalo emndenini. Kodwa ukuthatha ingane eguquguqukayo isazi sezengqondo kuyoba nezinkinga. Ngakho-ke, ukuqaphela ukubonakala kokuqala kobudlova, kufanelekile ukusebenzisa imithetho ethile yokunciphisa kwayo:
- Ungaphenduli ukuhlukumeza kobudlova. Lesi seluleko sifanele futhi kubazali bezingane zasenkulisa. Ngisho noma ukuziphatha kwengane kukwenza ube nexhala, ungafani naye, ngaphandle kwalokho isimo ngeke siphume ngokuphelele. Futhi abazali akufanele bafunge ingane, njengoba engakwazi ukukopisha ukuziphatha kwabo.
- Umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali ukuzama ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nengane, ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza nokulawula. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ingane izimpawu ezinhle zobuntu bakhe - ubuholi, ukuphishekela umgomo, ikhono lokufeza eyakho, nokugqugquzela ingane ukuba
ukuthuthukiswa kwalezi zimfanelo. - Abazali abaningi bazama ukuhambisa amandla omntwana osemusha ukuya esiteshini esinokuthula. Ngale njongo, izingxenye ezahlukene ziphelele: ukuklama, ukudansa, ukudlala ezemidlalo, njll.
- Ukuziphatha kwabo bonke abazali kufanele banikeze ingane ukuba izwe njengelungu eligcwele lomndeni, umbono wabo uhlonishwa futhi uhlonishwa. Ingane kufanele izwe idingekile futhi iqondwe.
- Hlonipha imibono yengane empilweni, ungazami ukubeka umbono wakhe kuye. Khumbula ukuthi ungumuntu, ngisho noma engavuthiwe.