Ezweni lanamuhla, ngolwazi oluphathelene nobulili, ungaxhuma kuyo yonke indawo: ku-TV, kuma-movie noma kumaphosta okukhangisa emgwaqweni. Futhi uhlale phansi, ungatshele ingane yakho ngakho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi omunye umuntu uzokwenza. Abazali abaningi besaba ukuqala lo msebenzi, bengakwazi ukuthi baqale kanjani nokuthi bakusho ukuthini. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi ukutshela ingane kuyadingeka ngokwethembeka nangamane. Into eyinhloko ukuqhuba ingxoxo ngendlela engokwemvelo futhi uzame ukwenza ngaphandle kwezinkulumo ezinde zokufundisa ngemfundo yezocansi zezingane.
Imfundo yezocansi yabasha ukubika ulwazi mayelana:
- izinguquko ezenzeka emzimbeni wengane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa;
- izinhlobo zokuziphatha ngokocansi;
- ubulili kanye nokuma (homo, hetero, bi);
- izifo ze-venereal;
- izindlela zokwelapha;
- izimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa.
Ukufundisa ngocansi kwabafana
Imfundo yezocansi kufanele iyingxenye yenqubo ejwayelekile yokufundisa eqinisekisa ukuthuthukiswa okufanele ubuntu bomfana njengommeli wobulili obuqinile. Abazali kudingeka basize ingane ukuthi ikwazi ukuqonda imikhuba yobuhlobo obuhle namalungu obulili obuhlukile, kanye nemigomo yokuziphatha emphakathini, ukufaka kuye ukuthi uyethemba lokuthi uyomvikeli wesikhathi esizayo nomphathi womndeni. Kubalulekile ukuthi umfana unombono oqondile wokukhulelwa, amakhono okuhlanzeka futhi wayekulungele ukuvela kwamaphutha. Futhi, ngesikhathi sokuthuthukiswa ngokocansi, umuntu kufanele azame ukuvikela abafana ekuvukeni okukhulu kokuzwela.
Imfundo yezocansi yamantombazane
Ukufundisa owesifazane ukulungele impilo yomndeni kungumsebenzi oyinhloko wokufundisa ngezocansi ngentombazane. Kumelwe azibone ngesikhathi esifanayo njengommeleli wezocansi obuthakathaka, afunde amakhono okuhlanzeka, futhi akwazi ukuziphatha kahle nabafana. Amantombazane, njengoba ekhula, adinga ukufaka umqondo womuntu wesifazane, ubuhle, isithunzi, udumo kanye nehlazo. Iphuzu elibalulekile emfundweni yezocansi le ntombazane ukuletha ulwazi oludingekayo mayelana nokuya esikhathini, futhi uma livela, umama kufanele anikeze ulwazi lokuqala mayelana nokuphila ngokobulili nemiphumela engathandeki.