Ukukhula, izingane zithola ulwazi futhi zithola ububanzi obuningi obuhlangene bokuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzwelo. Futhi ngisho nalesi simo sengqondo esibonakala sengathi sikhulile, njengesihawu, sivame ukubonakala ezinganeni.
Ukuphila kwengane kuze kube yiminyaka engu-7-8 ubudala, kuze kube yilapho ehlanganiswa esikolweni, ihamba emndenini futhi ihlobene eduze nayo. Umndeni wengane ubaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, umhawu wabantwana uvela ngokuyinhloko maqondana namalungu aseduze omndeni wawo, kaningi kumama. Kulesi simo, ingane ingamhawukela umfowabo (udadewabo), kuyise noma uyise.
Kungani kukhona umhawu phakathi kwezingane emndenini, ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane ikhwele futhi ingaba ingagwenywa - funa izimpendulo zemibuzo yakho kulesi sihloko!
Ukuhawukela ingane endala kumntwana osanda kuzalwa
Lapho ingane ivela emndenini, umama uyaqala ukumnaka kakhulu. I-crumb ayihlali ingalindelwe okwesikhashana: idinga ukondliwa, ihlambuluke, ihambe futhi idlalwe nayo. Lokhu kungenakuhluleka ukuphawula ingane endala, ngoba ngasekuqaleni khathesi umama wachitha naye. Kunengqondo futhi yemvelo ukuthi ufuna ukubuyisa umuntu obaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakhe, enze konke okusemandleni kulokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umntwana osekhulile angase abe nomqondo wokuthi unina akasamthandi, ukuthi ubi noma okuthile kuye kwaphutha, yingakho abazali bakhe baqala izinyane elisha, elingcono, nelilalelayo. Ngokombono womuntu omdala, lokhu kucabangela akuyona into ezwakalayo, kodwa ingane inengqondo yakhe, futhi ingakwazi ukuziqinisekisa, ukukhathazeka ngomhawu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali bavame ukuheha izingane zakudala ukusiza ekunakekeleni ingane. Empeleni, lokhu kuyindlela efanele, kodwa lapha kukhona ama-nuances. Kuyinto eyodwa lapho ingane inikezwa isihloko sokuhlonipha "umfowethu omkhulu" futhi ucele ngobuqotho usizo (unike izikhwama noma i-diaper ehlanzekile, ukudlala nomntwana, njll), futhi unelungelo lokulila. Futhi kunjalo uma abazali befuna kuye lo msizi ngenxa yokuthi manje ungumdala futhi unesibopho sokusiza. Isimo esinjalo singabangela umntwana ukuba angaboni kahle ngokwengqondo, ngoba yena useyingane, futhi akaqondi ukuthi kungani kufanele akwenze. Kusukela kulokhu, umntwana omdala unomona omkhulu nakakhulu komncane.
Indlela yokunciphisa umhawu phakathi kwezingane?
Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi umona womntwana osemncane kuya komncane awuzange ubangele izingxabano eziningi nezikhalazo, lokhu kufanele kunakekelwe ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kweziqu. Sikunikeza amathiphu azosiza ekubhekaneni nenkinga yengane yomntwana.
- Ukulungiselela ukuzalwa kwengane yesibili, tshela umdala ukuthi uzoba nomfowenu omncane noma udadewabo omncane, kuhle kangakanani lapho kunezingane eziningi emndenini.
- Ngokubukeka kwengane, wena-ke, uzoba nesikhathi esincane kakhulu. Kodwa zama okungenani imizuzu engu-20-30 ngosuku ukunikeza ingane endala ngokwayo. Masibe imidlalo, ezithakazelisayo kuye, ekwakheni amakilasi noma ukuxhumana nje - lokhu akudingekile. Into esemqoka ukuthi ingane izwe ukuthi unesithakazelo empilweni yakhe futhi isabalulekile kuwe. Unganqikazi ukumtshela ngothando lwakho, ukubonisa isisa, ukumanga nokumbamba umdala - uyadinga manje!
- Uma usumatasa kakhulu futhi ungeke ukwazi ukubhekana nengane yakho, thumela ukuhamba nobaba, ugogo nomkhulu noma umkhulu wakho. Vumela ngalesi sikhathi uzizwa engakunaki abantu abadala, kodwa, ngokuphambene, phakathi kwezehlakalo.
- Ngesizathu esifanayo kuphakanyiswa ukubonisana naye kuzo zonke izindaba zomndeni: kuphi lapho uhamba khona, ukuthi yini ukupheka ukudla kwasekuseni, njll. Lokhu kuzokwenza ingane iqiniseke ukuthi ingowokuqala, ilungu eligcwele lomndeni, futhi, okwesibili , ophezulu kakhulu (ngemuva kwakho konke, omncane akekho olulekwayo).
- Ungamceli usizo kuye: makube ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa ngokuzithandela, ngokusho komuntu siqu.
- Lapho ebona indlela umama akhathalela ngayo ingane encane, umdala angase afune ukunakekelwa okufanayo nokukhathalela kuqala ukuziphatha njengengane: ukukhala, ukukhuluma okubi, okungenangqondo. Ungammangaleli, ngoba kuyindlela nje yokufeza umgomo wakho. Vumela ingane ukuba iphathe ngendlela engenacala, futhi ngokushesha uzokhathala. Mchaze ukuthi usuvele umthanda kakhulu, futhi ungaphenduli kuma-vagaries:
ke ekugcineni uzobona ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo akusebenzi. - Okubaluleke nakakhulu umbuzo wokuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani amathoyizi. Izingane zivame ukuqaphela ukuthi abancane banikezwa abagibeli babo bokuqala, abahamba ngezinyawo, ama- rattles . Uma ingane ingafuni ithoyizi yakhe ibe yindawo yomfowabo omncane noma udadewabo, makashiye ekhaya. Futhi into engcono kakhulu, uma ubuza ngokushesha ukuthi yini ukulungele ukunikeza ingane, nokuthi yini angathanda ukuyigcina (izinto eziningana ongakhetha kuzo).
Ukunamathela kulezi zincomo, ungakwazi kalula ukusungula ubuhlobo phakathi kwezingane emndenini.