Ukuze ube umzali, akwanele nje ukunikeza umuntu impilo. Sidinga ukumfundisa, sinikeze konke okudingekayo futhi simvikele ekulimaleni kanye nomthelela omubi wemvelo. Kusemndenini ukuthi izisekelo zomlingiswa womuntu nombono wakhe zibekiwe. Kakade kusukela ekuzalweni, izingane zithatha umqondo womhlaba wonke amalungu omndeni, isimo sabo sengqondo ekuphileni.
Kukhona imisebenzi ethile yabazali ekukhulisweni kwezingane, ezibhalwa hhayi kuphela kwi-Code Family, kodwa nangomthethosisekelo. Uhulumeni wawo wonke amazwe athuthukile uqapha ukugcinwa kwamalungelo wengane. Ukwehluleka kwabazali ukufeza izibophezelo zabo zokukhulisa ingane encane kuhlanganisa ukuphatha futhi icala lobugebengu.
Yini okufanele ubaba nomama benze?
- Qinisekisa ukuphepha kwempilo kanye nempilo yezingane, zivikele kuzo ekulimazeni, izifo, landela izincomo zodokotela ngokuqinisa impilo yabo.
- Vikela ingane yakho ithonya elibi lemvelo.
- Isibopho sokufundisa ingane encane sihlanganisa nesidingo sokukunikeza konke okudingekayo.
- Abantu abadala kufanele baqaphe ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, ngokomoya, kokuziphatha nangokwengqondo kwengane, bafaka kuye imigomo yokuziphatha emphakathini futhi bachaze okungenakuqondakala.
- Abazali kufanele baqinisekise ukuthi ingane ithola imfundo yesibili.
Uma kunokwenzeka ukukhuluma ngokungafezeki kwemisebenzi emfundweni:
- ingane ayikho esikhungweni semfundo;
- akahlinzekwa ngokuphila okujwayelekile nezimo zokudla;
- Abazali abakhathaleli ukukhulisa ingane ngendlela efanele ngokomoya nokuziphatha , bashintsha le misebenzi kuthelevishini;
- Omncanyana ubusuku ngaphandle kwekhaya, ukuvakashela amakilabhu, ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa nokuphuza utshwala;
- ingane ingaphansi kobudlova obungokwenyama noma yokuziphatha ngabantu abadala.
I-World Convention on Amalungelo Ingane iphinde ibhale ukuthi abazali kufanele banakekele ukukhuliswa kwezingane zabo. Futhi umsebenzi emsebenzini noma isimo esinzima sezimali akusona isizathu sokuthi lezi zisebenzi zihanjiswe ezikoleni zemfundo.