Ukubunjwa kobuntu bentwana yasenkulisa ngokuvamile kudlula kakhulu ngokweqile - ngokwengqondo, ngokwengqondo, ngokomzimba. Uba ozimele ngokwengeziwe, ngokomzwelo, kukhona umbono, ukuqaphela "wakhe" wakhe emphakathini. Yena, njengengane esemncane, udinga imfundo, kodwa izinto eziningi ingane yasenkulisa ikwazi ukuyiqonda ngokuzimela.
Naphezu kokuthi ingane ngokuvamile iziphatha ngendlela enganeni - ekhala, engenangqondo, ihlela ukudumazeka, yonke inyamalala kancane kancane. Futhi yiziphi izimo zokuthuthukiswa kobuntu bezingane zasenkulisa, indawo yakhe, ukukhulisa, ukwakheka komuntu komuntu kuyothembela, futhi njalo konke ukuphila kwakhe okuqhubekayo. Bonke abazali kufanele baqonde ukuthi ubudala kusukela eminyakeni emithathu kuya kweyisithupha yisikhathi sokuthuthukiswa, isilingo sokuqala nesiphambeko, ukuhlalisana kwengane, ukuzifunela kwezwe kuleli zwe. Njengamanje, umama, ubaba, abantu abasondelene nabathandekayo kufanele banikeze isikhathi esiphezulu kwengane - ukuxhumana naye, ukuhlanganyela ekudaleni ndawonye, ukufunda izincwadi. Konke lokhu kuzokwakhiwa esikhathini esizayo isisekelo esiqinile nobuntu bomuntu, nobuhlobo bakhe nabathandekayo.
Izici zentuthuko yobuntu bentchooler
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yobuntu be-prechooler ukuqonda ubuhlobo phakathi kwesizathu nomphumela, ukwanda kwemizwelo. Izingane zasenkulisa zifisa, ngokuvamile kunzima kuye ukutshela iqiniso ngeqiniso.
Ukuhlangana komuntu wengane yengane yasenkulisa akuyona esheshayo - abangane bokuqala, ubudlelwane bomphakathi nabomndeni babonakala. Abazali abahlakaniphile kufanele benze konke okusemandleni ekwenzeni intuthuko yezenhlalakahle zobuntu bendodana, bamfundise ukubonisa inhlonipho, ukuzwelana, ukubekezelelana, ngokungafani neze nezinye izingane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo , inkulumo ehambisanayo ikhula , lokhu kuvuselela ukucabanga okunengqondo. Izimfanelo ezididiyelwe zobuntu bezingane zakuqala nazo zibaluleke kakhulu ukuthuthukisa. Izigaba zokuhlanganiswa yimidlalo lapho kuhlanganiswa khona imisebenzi eminingi. Izingane ezisensimini zifunda ukushintsha ngokushesha, bonisa umsebenzi, uphendule masinyane.
Kule minyaka yobudala izingane zikwazi ukukhuluma ngezinto ezingaboni ngaphambili kwazo - ukukhumbula okwedlule, ukwenza izinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo, ukutshela izindaba ezikhohlisayo, ukucabanga. Abazali kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi bazisize ingane ithuthukise
Iminithi ngayinye yamahhala ndawonye ingahle isetshenziswe ngenzuzo - ukusungula emacaleni amancane, ukubhala izindaba mayelana namathoyizi, izinhlamvu ezakhiwe. Ungadlala kumdlalo onjalo - qala ukufunda inganekwane evela encwadini, futhi ndawonye kuvela nomphumela wayo. Izifundo ezinjalo ezilula nezijabulisayo zezingane kanye nabantu abadala ziwusizo kakhulu, ngoba ukukhulumisana ngokomzwelo, nokuthuthukiswa kokucabanga, inkulumo.
Ezikhathini zasenkulisa, ingane inqoba indlela enkulu yentuthuko, ivula umuntu wakhe omdala, umhlaba wakhe wangaphakathi. Umsebenzi wabantu abadala ukuwasiza ukuba bakwenze.