Yonke owesifazane ufuna ukuba yinto efiselekayo kumuntu wakhe, ngakho-ke umbuzo wokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu embhedeni uthatha indawo eningi emakhanda ethu. Emva kwakho konke, qondani lokho umuntu akudingayo embhedeni nokuthi yini elindele, oh, ukuthi akulula kanjani. Ngakho ake sithole lokhu kuhlungwa!
Bawuthandani?
- Uthanda kanjani umuntu embhedeni? Thola ukuthi yini okumjabulisayo. Buza umlingani ukuthi yiziphi zezenzo zakho ezinika injabulo enkulu. Izifiso zabantu abalala embhedeni azihlezi ngaso sonke isikhathi umcabango, futhi iningi lazo lifuna ukunakekelwa kakhudlwana kumuntu wabo. Abesifazanekazi banamuhla ngezizathu ezithile bacabanga ukuthi akudingekile ukuba banakekele ukuzwa komuntu, futhi bagxile kuphela ekujabuliseni kwabo. Zama ukucabanga kabili ngokuthi ngabe umlingani wakho ujabule ngalokho okwenzayo, noma akazwa imizwelo. Ukwaneliseka kokubili kunomusa kunokusebenzisa umlingani njengendlela yokudlala isenzo socansi.
- Yini amadoda ayifunayo embhedeni? Ngokusobala, bafuna ukuzijabulisa, kodwa owesifazane kufanele asize kulokhu. Ungathembeli njalo ngentando yomlingani wakho, ngezinye izikhathi kufanelekile ukuthatha izinso ngezandla zakho ezithobile. Umuntu othakazelisayo uzokunika ilungelo elinjalo futhi uzojabula, ngoba ngalesi senzo ubonisa ukuthi ufuna ubulili ngangokunokwenzeka. Zizwe ukhululekile ukukhombisa ukufutheka kwakho nesifiso sakho, kumangalisa ukulinga.
- Indoda ikhetha ukuthini embhedeni? Inkosikazi enhle akufanele ibe yothando kuphela futhi isebenze, kodwa futhi ilula. Uyakuthanda u-kisses namagama aphathekile? Futhi ucabanga ukuthi indoda yakho ayikhathaleli kangako ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa enjalo? Ngeke akhathazeke nhlobo uma uthatha isikhathi esengeziwe sokubanga, futhi akudingeki ukuba uzivimbele ebusweni nasentanyeni - kunezindawo eziningi ezingenangqondo emzimbeni womfana wakho omkhulu. Futhi-ke, mtshele ukuthi uyamangalisa kanjani, nokuthi unjani kangakanani naye. Ungakhohlwa ukuncoma umuntu olele embhedeni. Zama, amazwi omusa angakwazi ngempela ukwenza izimangaliso.
- Yini amadoda ayithandayo embhedeni? Bathanda abesifazane, futhi bafuna ukuthi bathande ngokwabo. Manje akukhona ngokuzikhathaza phambi komuntu othandekayo, nakuba kungekho muntu ozama ukukuzama. Kusho ukuthandana ngokwakho, emzimbeni wakho siqu. Ungathanda kanjani umuntu olele embhedeni, uma ekhanda lakhe ehlala ephahlazeka imicabango efana no "ah, nginaso esifubeni esincane, manje uzobona futhi adumale" noma "ukuthi ngiyingozi kangakanani, nginesifo esibi kakhulu, ngidinga ngokuphuthumayo ukufihla ukuze angaboni." Madoda, zamukele ngokwakho, qinisekisa ubulili bakho, futhi indoda yakho izoyikholelwa futhi ayikho ama-blondes angacacile ayoyadingeka. Ubulili abubukeka, kodwa ekhanda - ukuthi ucabangani ngawe, nguwe lo.
- Uthanda kanjani umuntu embhedeni? Uyakhumbula ukuthi yini amadoda ayithandayo ngamehlo abo? Ngakho-ke kuyini inkinga? Gqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle, izicathulo ezithende kakhulu, njll. Ngandlela-thile, amadoda amaningi athi bayakuthanda uma kukhona ikhabethe lesishiyagalolunye elisele kulona wesifazane, isibonelo, amasitokisi, okufushane, okuvuthayo, isembatho, kodwa hhayi izingubo zangaphansi.
Yini abantu besaba embhedeni?
Ungase umangale, kodwa isethi yezinkinga zokulala kwamabhantshi ethu e-alpha akhulu kakhulu. Kusukela ukwesaba ukufanisa isithunzi sabo namakhono nabathandekayo bangaphambili ukuze besabe ukuba intombazane kuqala. Phakathi kwezinkathazo ezivame kakhulu kwakunjalo:
- ukungafuni ukulala ocansini, hhayi injabulo;
- ngokukhululeka futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuphothulwa okusheshayo kwezinjabulo ezimnandi;
- ukufaniswa kwe-orgasm yomlingani;
- ukwethuka kokuzibophezela, ikakhulu lapho owesifazane eqala ukucela amalungelo kumuntu nasensimini yakhe emva kobusuku bokuqala;
- ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungahleliwe;
- ukwesaba ukunqatshwa;
- ukwesaba ukungahlangani nemibono yowesifazane (noma yiziphi izindinganiso) njalonjalo.
Abanjalo bangabantu abasengozini futhi ngezinye izikhathi abangenakuziphendulela. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula leli qiniso bese uzama ukukhipha umlingani wokwesaba kwakhe. Awu, kungani udinga umfana efihle ekhoneni lombhede?