Ubulili yingxenye ebalulekile yobudlelwane bokuthandana. Ukubambisana okubaluleke kakhulu kubaluleke kakhulu ebusweni obuqinile. Ukuze ujabulise othandekayo, ukwanelise isidingo somuntu wemvelo futhi ube nesifiso nakakhulu kakhulu kukhethiweyo wakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi kufanele uguqule okuthile embhedeni. Kulokhu, okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi yini amadoda abesilisa ocansi abathanda kakhulu.
Luhlobo luni lobulili amadoda abuthandayo?
Okokuqala, abantu abasha bafuna ukubona insizwa encane ekhululekile futhi eqinisekile embhede. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi kanye nesinyathelo esiyingxenye yamadoda abalingani bayamukelwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Okuhlukile kungase kube imidlalo yokudlala indima, lapho ukungabi namandla kuvunyelwe khona.
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abantu bathanda ukuhlonipha umzimba wesifazane. Ngakho-ke, lo wesifazane ngesikhathi socansi akufanele abe namahloni futhi azame ukumboza ngengubo noma ukuvala ukukhanya. Ngokuvamile indoda iyacasula kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, bobabili abalingani abakwazi ukuphumula ngokuphelele futhi bajabulele inqubo.
Imiphumela yezinhlolovo ezithile ibonise ukuthi abafana abayithandanga lapho umlingani wabo engathuli ngesikhathi sokulala. Yiqiniso, ukumemeza ngobuqili nakho kubambalwa kakhulu abantu abathanda. Kodwa-ke, ukumemeza okujabulisayo kwentombazane akugcini nje ngokujabulisa, kodwa futhi kubonisa ukuthi wenza konke okulungile futhi kunika injabulo kulowo okhethiwe.
Ukubuza ukuthi yiluhlobo luni lomuntu ocansini oluthandayo, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ubulili obunamandla bukhetha ukuhlukahluka kokuphila okusondelene. Ngakho-ke, ukuphela kwesithunywa sevangeli esisodwa lapha kuyadingeka. Okunye okubaluleke kakhulu indawo ekhethiwe ukulala ngokocansi. Amadoda afana nokufunda izindawo ezintsha futhi asebenzise imiqondo ehlukene yocansi.
Kungani amadoda afana nobulili obunzima ngemuva?
Ngokwemvelo yabo, amadoda athambekele ekuqineni futhi alawule umlingani wabo hhayi kuphela empilweni, kodwa nasezindaweni eziseduze. Ubulili obuqinile bubufakazi balokho.
I-pose ye "doggie" ingenye yezintandokazi zamadoda amaningi. Phela, kulesi sikhundla ukuthi angakwazi ukulawula yonke inqubo futhi azizwe ngokwakhe into eyinhloko. Ubulili kule ndawo buveza umbono womuntu ngezinsikazi zezinsikazi, okuyisisusa esengeziwe. Futhi, ukuhlelwa "okuvela ngemuva" kubonakala njengokubonakaliswa kokwethemba okuyingxenye yomlingani.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kuthunyelwa kuyinto yonke. Akudingi ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile futhi kufanelekile ngokocansi kunoma iyiphi indawo futhi nganoma isiphi isikhathi.