Abesifazane abaningi babhekana ne- orgasm ye-clitoral futhi abazi ukuthi kuyini, i-orgasm yangasese, futhi abanye bacabangela lolu hlobo lwe-orgasm inganekwane. Ngakho kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi ungathola kanjani ubulili besisu.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthola i-vaginal orgasm?
Uma ungazi ukuthi ungazizwa kanjani nge-vaginal orgasm futhi ungacabangi ukuthi abanye bayayithola kanjani, kudingeka uthole ukuthi kungani kwenzeka. Impendulo yombuzo, ukuthi kungani kungekho-vaginal orgasm, ingaba lula - hhayi indoda. Abesifazane abaningi babenecala lapho umlingani ebonakala sengathi uyakunaka, futhi akekho ophazamisekile esenzweni, kepha akakwazi ukuthola ukwaneliseka okugcwele. Uma ngabe le ndaba iwukuthi indoda ayifanele, khona-ke indlela yokuphela yokuphuma ukuhlukanisa izindlela, ngeke isebenze ngokuphelele naye, futhi akukho mdlalo noma amaqhinga azosiza. Ngemuva kwalokho, njengoba kuyaziwa, i-orgasm yowesifazane, kuhlanganise nomzimba wesisu, incike kakhulu esimweni sengqondo sabesifazane kumuntu othile. Kodwa ukungakwazi ukuthola i-vaginal orgasm kungaba yiphutha labo bobabili besilisa nabesifazane: ngokuvamile ukuzwa i-orgasm, labesifazane bavinjelwa yizinkimbinkimbi zabo, abakwazi ukukhipha izinkinga futhi bajabulele inqubo nokungafuni ukuzama into entsha.
Isibonelo, abaningi baye bazwa iphuzu G, kodwa akubona bonke abaye bazama ukukuthola. Futhi, endleleni, usesho lwakhe luyadingeka ngokuqondile kulabo besifazane abangakwazi ukufezekisa i-vaginal orgasm. Thola lokhu iphuzu lomlingo kulula - udinga ukuzwa udonga olungaphambili lwesifazane, yenza okungcono ngomunwe omanzi. Uma uthola indawo enzima (cishe ngo-1 kuya ku-3 cm usayizi), ungajabula - iphuzu G litholakala. Ngokuvamile leli phuzu likude ka-5 cm ukusuka emnyango wesifazane, futhi izinzwa ezithandekayo zivela emva kwesikhathi sokuvuselela. Ungazicwaninga, ungafaka umlingani kuleli bhizinisi elizimele, elikhethayo - ufuna ukuthi azi ukuthi angakujabulisa kanjani?
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthola i-orgasm yabesifazane kuyinkinga ngenxa yezihluthulelo zesisu. Ngakho-ke ukuqinisa kwabo ngeke kube yinto engadingekile, ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi zivivinyo zivikela kahle izifo ezithile zendawo yokubeletha. Ukuzivocavoca kulula futhi kuqukethe ukungezwani nokuphumula kwemisipha yesisu. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokushesha, ngejubane eliphakeme kunazo zonke, futhi ungashesha, ngesikhathi ngasinye ukwandisa amandla okucindezeleka kwemisipha. Ukuzivocavoca kungacabanga ngokuzimela, into eyinhloko ukuzwa umsebenzi wezinhlanzi ezijulile.
Kukhona futhi ukuvivinya umzimba ukuvusa ubuzwe besifazane. Kuzodinga intambo eqinile nobuhlalu obubili obubanzi obuyi-3 cm noma ngaphezulu. Ekupheleni komcibisholo, udinga ukwenza iphuzu elinamandla ukubamba ubuhlalu. Manje le simulator kufanele ifakwe ngaphakathi kwesifazane bese ishiya lapho, uqhubeke ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Uma okokuqala injabulo enganele ukugxila ekuhlanganiseni nomlingani, ngaphambi kokuba ulale, ubuhlalu kufanele bukhishwe, futhi umsebenzi kufanele uphindwe ngosuku. Kancane kancane, ubuzwe besifazane buyokhula, nombuzo wokuthi ungafinyelela kanjani ubulili besisu, awusoze ukhathazeka.
Izimo ze-vaginal orgasm
Ukuze uthole ukuthi yiliphi i-vaginal orgasm, kufanele ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izimo ezifanele kakhulu kule njongo. Ochwepheshe bahlukanisa izimo ezintathu lapho abesifazane bevame ukukwazi ukuthola ubulili besisu:
- Abesifazane abaningi bayakwazi ukuthola i-orgasm ngokushesha, bebe phezulu, belawula ngokuphelele inqubo.
- Abanye bakuthanda uma umuntu ephezulu, futhi aphonsa imilenze yawo eqondile emahlombe omlingani.
- Futhi ukuma okuhle kokuthola i-vaginal orgasm yi-pose kuzo zonke ezine. Le ndoda isemuva, iphakamisa imilenze yowesifazane, futhi iwaletha okhalweni lomlingani.
- Kodwa lezi zikhundla azihambi emijikelezweni, bonke abesifazane bahlukile. Ngakho ungesabi ukuzama.