Muva nje, abesifazane sebevame ukuqala ukukhuluma ngezocansi, befuna izindlela ezehlukene zokuthola injabulo kulo, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongaba khona. Ngokungafani nokuqina, i- anorgasmia ivame kakhulu. Kodwa njengoba kuvela, ungafunda ukuzwa i-orgasm, into eyinhloko ukuxazulula le nkinga, futhi hhayi ngokuthula ukuze ubone ukuphepha kwakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile inkinga ayikho emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe, okungukuthi, ungakwazi ukubhekana nakho ngokushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ekuphileni.
Indlela yokufunda ukuzwa i-orgasm?
- Abesifazane abaningi banqatshelwe lokhu injabulo nje ngoba abazi ukuthi bangayithola kanjani. Ngomuntu lokhu akusebenzi futhi abesifazane bazicabangela ukuthi bahluleka ukujabulela, bekhohlwa indlela enhle kakhulu yokuthola wonke amaphuzu abo ababucayi - ukushaya indlwabu .
- Qinisekisa ukuthi utshela indoda yakho ukuthi ingakusiza kanjani ukuba uthole i-orgasm eqinile. Uma ujabulela nge-caress engavamile yobulili, akukho lutho olubuhlungu ngalokhu, yilowo nalowo ngokwabo. Kodwa uma lo mlingani enqaba ukukwenza lokhu, ekhuluma ngokungajwayelekile, kufanelekile ukuphendukela ochwepheshe bezocansi, mhlawumbe imbangela yokulutha ngokweqile ingozi yokucindezeleka kwengqondo.
- Ngezinye izikhathi izinkinga aziveli ngokuzijabulisa ngokocansi, kodwa ngezinye zezinhlobo zazo. Yeka ukuthi ngokushesha kangakanani ukuzwa i-orgasm ye-clitoral noma intombi iyayazi, eqinisweni, lolu hlobo lwenjabulo yiyona efinyeleleka kakhulu futhi kaningi ayibangeli izinkinga. Kodwa i-vaginal orgasm ivame ukufinyeleleka, ngezinye izikhathi kungenxa yezici zesakhiwo, ngakho-ke lolu hlobo lokuthakazelisa abesifazane abaningi bathola kuphela ngemva kokubeletha. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi awudingi ukubuka iphuzu G nezinye izindlela zokukuthola ngaphambi kokuthola inzalo.
- Umbuzo wokuthi ungahlola kanjani i-orgasm ufanelwe ukuba yingqungquthela indaba, ngoba injabulo yowesifazane incike ezintweni eziningi ezivame ukungazinaki. Isibonelo, amadoda amaningi akhononda ngesidingo sokuqala, futhi ngaphandle-ke, abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukuphumula, okusho ukuthi ngeke bajabule ngokobulili. Ngakho-ke, qaphela izinto ezincane ozidingayo ukuzizwa uzikhululekile.
- Ngezinye izikhathi ukungazi abesifazane, indlela yokubhekana ne-orgasm eqinile, abaxosha kude nocansi nomlingani othize noma kusukela enkambweni ngokwayo. Awukwazi ukuvumela lokhu, ngoba ngaphandle kokusebenza nokuxazulula inkinga ngeke ukwazi ukuyithola.
Kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane obunzima ufinyelela e-orgasm (noma engenalo nhlobo) nendoda ethile, kodwa yedwa kuye konke kuhle. Okumangalisa ukuthi, kuzwakala abantu abaphila ngesikhathi esifanayo, abafundile ukuzwa i-orgasm ngoba abathandi umlingani wabo. Futhi uma kungekho ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, kunzima ngempela ukuvula, yingakho kungenakwenzeka ukufeza injabulo.