Sekvayf - kuyini futhi kanjani ukuthi ube seksvayf?

Ukwehlukaniswa ngokobulili kwanoma yikuphi umbhangqwana oshadile kuncike kokubili abalingani. Omunye uhlala ehlanzekile kakhulu, futhi isikhathi ngasinye - njengowokuqala. Abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bayakujabulela ukuzama ama-poses amasha, amadivaysi futhi bangagxili ekuhlolweni. Ngesikhathi sokutholakala kocansi, i-subculture seksvayf, esekelwe ekuphingeni okuvunyelwe, isakazeke.

Kuyini seksweif?

Kumndeni wakudala, ukungathembeki akulungile, kodwa uma kuziwa ngocansi, izinkambiso azisebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi: nje ukujabulisa abalingani futhi ungahambi ngaphezu kwemingcele yabo evunyelwe. Ubani u-seksvayf (ovela e-English sexwife, "umkami-sexy")? Owesifazane oshadile ovuma ngokuzithandela ukulala ngokobulili nomuntu oyedwa noma ngaphezulu. Kunezinhlobonhlobo eziningana zobuhlobo obunjalo:

• Ukulala ngokobulili kwenziwa phambi komyeni wakhe (ukuqondiswa kwamaphupusi kuvela ku-cuckold "cuckold" yesiNgisi);
• ubulili buba khona ngokubambisana kwabo bobabili abalingani (Gyeonggi-beng, "grupovukha", i-MZHM, njll);
• lona wesifazane ngokuzimela uhamba ngezinsuku eziseduze, enikeza noma anganikeli ngokulandelayo «umbiko ngomsebenzi owenziwe».

Izimpawu zobulili

Vula ubudlelwane be-seksvayf - hhayi wonke umuntu, kodwa njengomthetho, abalingani abenzayo, beka umugqa ocacile phakathi kokungalandeli ngemuva futhi "kuvunyelwe." Lesi siphetho siyakwazi ukudala imizwelo, kodwa hhayi ukubhubhisa umndeni. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi abashadisi be-sexwave, futhi lona wesifazane ulungele ukuzama indima yintombazane ecingweni, kungenzeka ngezizathu ezilandelayo:

1. Ukuvunyelwa kobulili beqembu nokushintshaniswa kwabalingani.
2. Ukulungele ukuhlolwa kulesi sigaba socansi.
3. Imibhangqwana enjalo ingabalandeli be-porn (ividiyo yasekhaya).
4. Owesifazane ozingelayo utshela umyeni wakhe mayelana nabalingani bangaphambilini.
5. Uhlale edlala ngothando nabameleli bobulili obuhlukile.

Kuyini i-seksweif ewusizo?

Eziningi, imidlalo yezocansi kanye nokushintshaniswa kwabafazi kubangele ukugabha nokufutheka okukhulu, kepha umuntu angathola izinzuzo zokusebenzisa lolu hlobo lobuhlobo obungenasidingo. Ngezimbangi eziye zaveza ukucabanga kwabo ngale ndlela zinezinkinga ezivamile, izingxabano, kodwa kaningi kakhulu kulezi zibhangqa azikho ukuthengiswa kwabesifazane. Kungani, uma owesifazane wesifo sangasese engakwazi ukumema owesithathu njalo? Umdlalo onjalo wezocansi ungasindisa umndeni futhi ezimweni ezinjalo, uma umfazi engumama-nymphomaniac, futhi umyeni akakwazi ukufanisa isimo sakhe sengqondo. I-seksvayf isho ukuthini owesifazane?

• uyaqaphela isidingo sokudukisa abantu;
• unethuba lokuhlukanisa impilo yobunikazi futhi uthole abalingani abasha ngaphandle kokushiya umndeni.

Kumuntu, ubuhlobo obunjalo buyi:

• ukubonakaliswa kwe-sadomasochism (uzizwa ehlazekile lapho abanye basebenzisa isibusiso sakhe);
• ukucindezeleka okuvusa ukukhathazeka;
• umzamo wokulondoloza umndeni (isibonelo, uma umyeni engakwazi ukwenza uthando ngenxa yokukhubazeka ngokomzimba).

Isiqondiso sabaqalayo seksvayf

Ukuphila komuntu siqu akuzibolekisi emazingeni afanayo kodwa ezinye izincomo kufanele zicutshangelwe ngaphambi kokuba zibe sevvayf:

1. Kubalulekile ukuthi bobabili abashadile basekele isifiso somunye.
2. Ungakwazi ukuletha ngokushelela ubudlelwane obungezona obujwayelekile bomyeni osemthethweni: hlela umhlangano e-cafe, ukwethula amadoda, uqale ukudlala ngothando.
3. Umbuzo olandelayo ukhetho lomlingani. Ngokuqala kuyisifiso sokuhlala kumuntu oqinisekisiwe: umngane omdala noma othandekayo. Esikhathini esizayo, ungaya "emathunzini." Abaningi be- swingers nabalandeli be-seksvayf bafuna inkampani kumaforamu ku-intanethi. Lokhu kuyingozi, uma umuntu engazijwayele, kodwa kuyimfihlo.
4. Kubalulekile ukucacisa izikhathi ezivumelekile nezingavunyelwe ngaphambi kokuba ucansi luqale.

Indlela yokwenza i-seksvayf yomfazi?

Uma bobabili abalingani besisekela iphutha elilodwa - lokhu kuhle, kodwa kuthiwani uma lowo oshade naye engenzi phambili isinyathelo? Indlela yokukhohlisa umkakhe ku-seksvayf? Ukusabela ekuphakamisweni kungaba lokhu okulandelayo - kusuka ekuphikeleni ngokuqinile ukugunyazwa. Futhi uma owesifazane evuma ukuhlolwa, kodwa izimpukane, mhlawumbe kungumqondo wokuzethemba okuphansi nokungaqiniseki. Ukuze uzuze isivumelwano, udinga lokhu okulandelayo:

• ukuqala ukunikeza izimo zenduduzo nokuphepha emndenini;
• khuthaza oshade naye, umnike izipho, kufaka phakathi izingubo ezifakiwe;
• khuluma ngothando lwakho;
• Ukudlala lesi simo ukuze umfazi abone ukuphakama kwakhe phezu komyeni wakhe;
• ukuze amthande ocansini nabanye abalingani;
• bukela ndawonye amafilimu angcolile, ukuphoqa ukwenza isinqumo, kodwa ungakhulumi ngokukhululekile ngesifiso sabo.

Amabhayisikobho mayelana ne-seksvayf

Kukhona imibhangqwana eminingi ejabule enquma nge-seksvayf. Amanye amafilimu abuye akhulume ngempumelelo, nakuba ezweni eliyingqayizivele konke kubukeka kuhluke kunokuba impilo yangempela (ngisho nakuma-movie amadala ngaphandle kwendaba). Ukuze uqonde ukuthi i-subculture echazwe kanjani, ungabuka izinkampani zamafilimu mayelana ne-seksweif:

1. "Ilayisensi yokuhlukunyezwa" , 2004. Umakoti ucela umkhwenyana imvume yokuhamba uhlangothi.
2. "Abagibeli" , ngo-2002. Umbhangqwana owaziwayo ufundisa abaqalayo ukuhlakanipha kothando kuleli qembu.
3. "Amadoda nabathandi" , ngo-1991.
4. "Bonke abesifazane bayakwenza" , ngo-1991. Ama-Classics of the genre on the theme of a couple couple.
5. "Fantasy" , ngo-1976. Amanothi ama-novel amaningi mayelana nemicabango yabantu.