I-hetero-orientation isho ukuthini?

Ngokuvamile uma ugcwalisa amafomu ahlukene futhi kuqala kokusayithi lokuthandana ekhasini, udinga ukugcwalisa insimu yokuqondisa. Isayithi linikeza izinketho ezintathu: hetero-, bi- kanye homo-. Ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili kusho ukukhetha ummeleli wobulili obuhlukile njengomlingani wezocansi.

I-orientation hetero - indlela yokuqonda lokhu?

Naphezu kokuba isibalo sobulili obufanayo sanda njalo ngonyaka, iningi labantu emhlabeni lilabo abesilisa nabesifazane. Bathola ukuthandana ngokomzwelo, ngokomzwelo nangokwenyuka kobulili obuhlukile.

Ukuqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini, i-hetero-orientation, ososayensi ezindaweni ezingezansi zomhlaba baphenye. Lesi sihloko sathinteka okokuqala nguRichard Kraft-Ebing. Usosayensi uphonsela umbono wokuthi ubuhlobo bobulili obuhlukile buhlobo oluthile lwemvelo eziphilayo eziphilayo, ngoba nguye ovumela umuntu ukuba aqhubeke nomzimba. Ucwaningo lwesinye isazi senkosi uKisssey lwaluvumela ukujwayela ngokobulili ukuba kuhlukaniswe ngama-subtypes.

Ososayensi abaningi, ukuqonda incazelo ye-orientation engavamile, bathi ukubekwe umuntu emvelweni wezakhi zofuzo, kodwa futhi kukhona inguqulo eyakhiwa ngesikhathi sokuphila, okuyiyona inqubo yemfundo.

Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, ngaphandle kokujwayela ngokocansi, kukhona bobabili nabangqingili. Ake sikhulume ngalokhu ngokuningiliziwe:

1. Ubungqingili yi-orientation ekhombisa ukutholakala kokuheha, kokubili kumuntu nowesifazane.
2. Ubungqingili kuyindlela ekhombisa ukuthi kukhona khona imizwa yabantu bobulili babo.

Namuhla, inkinga yokubona ezinye izici zobulili ngaphandle kokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili isicacile kakhulu. Kwamanye amazwe, ngokwesibonelo, eMelika, ngisho nokubhaliswa kwemishado yobulili obufanayo kwavunyelwa ngokomthetho. Isimo esiphambene neRussian Federation, lapho ngo-1999 isimemezelo sakhishwa, ukuthi ukuhlukumeza ngokobulili kuyinto evamile, kanti ezinye izinto ezithandwayo zobulili ziyiziphambeko.

Indlela yokunquma ubujamo bezocansi be-hetero, bi ne-homo?

Njengoba ukuziphatha kobulili kunemibono eminingi futhi kuyashintsha, akubona bonke abantu abanganquma ngokunembile ukuthi bangabani. Ngalo msebenzi kuzosiza ekubhekaneni nokuphathwa kocansi Klein.

Ukukala ukujwayela kwabo ngokocansi, kubalulekile ngezikhathi ezintathu: okudlulile (eminyakeni emihlanu edlule), okwamanje (ngonyaka odlule) nekusasa elihle, ukulinganisa imingcele eyisikhombisa

1. Ukukhangwa ngokocansi - abameleli besiphi isondo bajabulisa kakhulu.
2. Ukuziphatha ngokobulili - nabamele abesilisa ocansini benza izenzo zobulili ezahlukene: ukuqamba, ukulala, njll.
3. Imizwa yobulili - abamele ukuthi yiliphi ucansi ovame ukumelela emibonweni yakho yokucabanga, kanye nalabo ocabanga ngakho ngesikhathi sokuzithokozisa.
4. Izintandokazi ezingokomzwelo - abantu abathanda ukuba abangane, ukugcina ubuhlobo, ukwabelana ngezinto ezifihlekile, njll.
5. Izintandokazi zenhlalakahle - nabamele ukuthi yikuphi ukulala okulula ukuthi uthole ukuxhumana ekuphileni kwansuku zonke: umsebenzi, ukuxhumana, uchithe isikhathi sokuzilibazisa.
6. Ngabamele ukuthi yimaphi ama-orientation, ikakhulukazi nichitha isikhathi sakho samahhala: nabalingani be-homo-, hetero noma abantu bobulili obuhlukile.
7. Ukuzitholela - uhlobo luni lokuzicabangela ozicabangayo wena.

Thatha iphepha, lihlukanise zibe ngamakholomu amathathu: esidlule, okwamanje, nekusasa . Emva kwalokho, gcwalisa imigqa eyisikhombisa kulezi zifundo. Ngenxa yalokho, kumaseli angu-21, izinombolo ezivela ku-0 kuya ku-6 kufanele zibhaliswe.

Ukumisa izimpendulo:

• Abantu abangu-0 kuphela bobulili obuhlukile;
• 1 - ikakhulukazi abantu bobulili obuhlukile, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi bengabakho;
• 2 - ucansi oluhlukile, kodwa abantu bobulili obufanayo nabo badlala indima ebalulekile;
• 3 - okufanayo kokubili, nobulili obuhlukile;
• 4 - inani 2, kodwa ngokuphambene;
• 5 - inani 1, kodwa ngokuphambene;
• Abantu abangu-6 kuphela bobulili babo.

Udinga ukubala inani lekholomu ngayinye, bese uhlukanisa inani elifunyenwe ngu-3. Emva kwalokho, engeza imiphumela yekholomu ngayinye, bese uhlukanisa umphumela ngo-21.